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Most parents stop reading aloud the moment a child can read alone. It is almost exactly the wrong moment to stop.
This is part of 13 Things We’d Tell a Brand-New Homeschool Mom — thirteen short episodes marking thirteen years of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Late Reader? When To Wait And When Not To
This show is part of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network — homeschool podcasters who have been doing this on the air for thirteen years. Whatever you are walking through, somebody on this network has an episode about it.
This episode is sponsored. We only take sponsors we would point our own families to.
It is our 13th birthday all month long.
More than $1,500 in prizes across four October drawings, and everyone who enters gets Sweet Treats, a free collection of resources from the hosts across the network. One entry puts you in all four.
Enter the Sweet 13 Giveaway
The post Ep 4: Read Aloud Longer Than You Think You Should appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Here is a sentence that may save you several hundred dollars this year: you do not need a curriculum for every subject. You need one for the subjects that build in a strict order.
This is part of 13 Things We’d Tell a Brand-New Homeschool Mom — thirteen short episodes marking thirteen years of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Questions You Should Ask When Choosing Curriculum
Thanks to CTCMath for supporting this show. Every lesson is taught on video, so you are not the one explaining long division at eight in the morning. One membership covers every child in your house at every grade level.
This episode is sponsored. We only take sponsors we would point our own families to.
It is our 13th birthday all month long.
More than $1,500 in prizes across four October drawings, and everyone who enters gets Sweet Treats, a free collection of resources from the hosts across the network. One entry puts you in all four.
Enter the Sweet 13 Giveaway
The post Ep 3: Buy Less Curriculum Than You Think appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Your six-year-old finished everything in ninety minutes and you are standing in your kitchen feeling like a fraud. That feeling is the most common feeling in a first-year homeschool, and it is aimed at completely the wrong thing.
This is part of 13 Things We’d Tell a Brand-New Homeschool Mom — thirteen short episodes marking thirteen years of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Teaching English Doesn’t Have To Take All Day
This episode is sponsored by Eden’s Table — Biblical herbalism for the elementary grades. One plant a week, with science, history, art, reading and handwriting running through it as a single unit study. Open and go, no prep the night before. The first nine weeks are $39.
This episode is sponsored. We only take sponsors we would point our own families to.
It is our 13th birthday all month long.
More than $1,500 in prizes across four October drawings, and everyone who enters gets Sweet Treats, a free collection of resources from the hosts across the network. One entry puts you in all four.
Enter the Sweet 13 Giveaway
The post Ep 2: The Day Is Shorter Than You Think appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Thirteen years ago, on the very first episode of this show, Felice Gerwitz said something out loud that most people would have edited out: “When I had this idea to create this radio network, I had no idea if it would even work.”
Within three weeks, the shows launched anyway. HomeschoolingIRL on September 13th. The Homeschool Sanity Show on the 14th. Vintage Homeschool Moms on the 17th. Two more by the 25th. Every one of those episodes is still on this website.
So it worked. And to mark thirteen years, we’re doing thirteen short episodes — thirteen things we’d tell a brand-new homeschool mom.
This is the first one, and it’s the mistake nearly all of us made.
We tried to build a school in the dining room. Desks. A bell schedule. A wall calendar with somebody else’s year printed on it. And it lasts about three weeks — then one Tuesday nobody comes to the table, and you sit down certain you’ve failed.
You haven’t failed at homeschooling. You’ve failed at being a school, which was never the assignment.
In this episode:
The one question to answer in writing today:
Before you commit to a year, listen to Should You Consider Homeschooling? — it walks through the decision honestly, including the reasons not to.
More than $1,500 in prizes across four October drawings, and a free Sweet Treats resource bundle for everyone who enters. One entry puts you in all four.
Enter the Sweet 13 Giveaway
This series is sponsored by Eden’s Table, CTCMath, True North Academy, and the podcasters of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
This episode’s sponsor is Eden’s Table — Biblical herbalism for the elementary grades. One plant a week, with science, history, art, reading and handwriting running through it as a single unit study. Open and go, no prep the night before. The first nine weeks are $39 at edeninstitute.health/homeschool.
This episode is sponsored. We only take sponsors we’d point our own families to.
The post School at Home Doesn’t Work (And What To Do Instead) appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
A Homeschool Foundations replay from Talking Mom to Mom, now airing on the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Show.
What do you do when family, friends, or even strangers question your decision to homeschool?
If you’ve ever felt caught off guard by skeptical comments, awkward questions, or criticism about your homeschool, you’re not alone. For many moms, one of the hardest parts of homeschooling isn’t curriculum or scheduling—it’s learning how to respond when other people don’t understand what you’re doing.
In this Homeschool Foundations replay, we’re talking about how to handle homeschool backlash from family and friends with confidence, humility, and grace.
Sponsored by CTCMath.com
Yes—you absolutely can.
The best way to handle homeschool backlash is to stay grounded in your reasons for homeschooling, respond with calm confidence, and avoid getting pulled into unnecessary arguments. Not every question is an attack, but not every conversation deserves your energy either.
The longer you homeschool, the more confidence you’ll build. But even in the beginning, you can learn how to answer hard questions without feeling shaken.
Sometimes criticism comes from a negative place. But many times, it simply comes from misunderstanding.
Homeschooling still feels unfamiliar to a lot of people, even though it has become far more common over the years. Family members, neighbors, or acquaintances may ask questions because they genuinely don’t understand how homeschooling works.
They may wonder:
And if we’re being honest, many homeschooling parents have asked some of those same questions themselves.
That’s why it helps to remember: not every question is criticism. Some people are curious. Some are cautious. Some are skeptical. And some simply don’t know what homeschooling actually looks like in real life.
If you’ve been homeschooling for any length of time, you’ve probably heard at least a few of these:
This is probably the most common homeschool question of all.
Some people assume the state tightly controls homeschool curriculum.
This question usually comes from concern about academics or future readiness.
This one can feel especially frustrating—especially when it’s directed at your child instead of you.
Many people assume formal teaching credentials are required to educate a child at home.
These questions can feel exhausting, especially if they come up repeatedly. But having a few grounded responses ready can help you feel more prepared and less defensive.
One of the best reminders for homeschool moms is this:
You do not have to prove yourself to everyone.
That doesn’t mean you should be rude. It simply means you are not required to defend every educational choice to every person who has an opinion.
Here are a few ways to respond well.
A simple, steady response often says more than a long explanation.
You might say:
Confidence matters. People often take their cues from how certain—or uncertain—you sound.
If you respond like you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, they may feel invited to keep pushing. But if you respond with peace and clarity, the conversation often softens quickly.
You don’t have to act like you know everything.
In fact, one of the best ways to respond to sincere questions is with humility.
You can say:
“Honestly, we had some of those same questions when we started homeschooling.”
That kind of answer lowers the tension immediately. It reminds the other person that you didn’t make this decision lightly or blindly. You’ve thought through the concerns, learned along the way, and are continuing to grow.
Confidence does not mean pretending homeschooling is always easy.
It means trusting that this is the right path for your family, even while you’re still learning.
This is such an important distinction.
Some people are truly asking because they care. Others are asking because they want to challenge your choice.
Those are not the same conversation.
A sincere question usually feels open and respectful.
A combative question often feels like:
When that happens, you don’t need to over-explain.
Sometimes the wisest answer is a short one.
You can simply say:
And then move on.
This can be the hardest kind of homeschool backlash.
It’s one thing to brush off a stranger at the grocery store. It’s another thing when the criticism comes from grandparents, siblings, in-laws, or extended family members you love.
When family questions your homeschool, it can feel personal—even if they mean well.
In those situations, it helps to remember this:
You do not need family-wide agreement in order to homeschool faithfully.
If the conversation is healthy and respectful, it can be worth having. Some family members just need time, exposure, and reassurance.
But if the same topic turns into tension every time you’re together, it may be time to set a gentle boundary.
You might say:
“I know you care about the kids, and I appreciate that. But this is a decision we’ve made carefully as a family, and I’d rather not keep debating it.”
That is not disrespectful. That is mature boundary-setting.
If the criticism is coming from your spouse’s family, it can help for your spouse to take the lead in those conversations when appropriate.
That doesn’t mean you can’t speak for yourself. It simply means some family dynamics are better handled from within the family line.
If your mother-in-law, father-in-law, or sibling-in-law keeps pushing the issue, your spouse may be the best person to say:
“This is our family’s decision, and we’re asking for support even if you wouldn’t choose the same thing.”
That can prevent resentment and reduce unnecessary friction.
This is a different category entirely.
Sometimes homeschool moms get comments from:
And honestly? You do not owe every curious stranger a 20-minute explanation in the middle of Target.
You can be kind without being available for interrogation.
Simple responses work well here:
And if the person gets pushy or inappropriate, it is completely okay to end the conversation.
You can simply say:
“Excuse us—we need to get going. Have a great day.”
That is polite. That is enough.
This can feel especially upsetting.
It’s one thing when people question you. It’s another when they quiz your child, make assumptions, or ask leading questions like:
That kind of interaction can be uncomfortable for kids, especially if they’re younger.
This is where your response matters even more—because your child is learning from how you handle it.
When you stay calm, confident, and gracious, you model emotional maturity and self-respect.
That doesn’t mean you have to allow rude behavior. It simply means you can protect your child without becoming combative.
A simple response might be:
“We’re happy with how things are going, thanks.”
Then redirect and move on.
If you are homeschooling from a faith-based perspective, this part matters deeply.
Because while it may feel satisfying in the moment to come back with something sharp or sarcastic, that rarely produces peace—or fruit.
One of the most helpful verses for hard conversations is:
“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
— Proverbs 15:1
That doesn’t mean you have to be passive.
It doesn’t mean you have to agree.
And it definitely doesn’t mean you have to stay in unhealthy conversations.
But it does mean your response can reflect Christ even when the other person’s attitude does not.
You can be gracious and still be firm.
You can be humble and still be confident.
You can be kind and still have boundaries.
That combination is powerful.
This is important too.
Sometimes criticism hurts so much because it lands on a part of you that already feels uncertain.
If you’re still early in your homeschool journey, you may still be asking some of the same questions other people are asking.
That doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means you’re growing.
One of the best things you can do if you’re feeling shaky is to strengthen your own foundation.
That may look like:
Confidence often doesn’t come all at once. It grows over time.
And often, the longer you homeschool, the less outside opinions will rattle you.
If you’ve been hurt by criticism, questioned by family, or made to feel like your homeschool choice is irresponsible or strange, here’s what I want to remind you of:
You are allowed to choose a different path for your family.
You are allowed to educate your children thoughtfully, intentionally, and differently.
You are allowed to grow into this role.
And you are allowed to protect your peace while you do it.
Not everyone will understand your homeschool.
Not everyone needs to.
But your children don’t need everyone’s approval.
They need your steady leadership.
And that matters more than outside noise.
This episode originally aired on Talking Mom to Mom and is now featured as part of our Homeschool Foundations series on the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Show.
If you’ve ever struggled with outside opinions, awkward homeschool questions, or criticism from family and friends, this conversation will encourage you.
Listen to more Homeschool Foundations episodes here:
https://ultimateradioshow.com/ultimate-homeschool-radio-show/
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Often, family members criticize homeschooling because they don’t fully understand it. Their concerns may come from unfamiliarity, fear, or assumptions about what education should look like.
Respond calmly and confidently. If the question is sincere, answer kindly. If the conversation becomes combative, it’s okay to set a boundary and move on.
If grandparents or extended family are critical, it helps to stay respectful but firm. You can appreciate their concern without allowing them to control your family’s education decisions.
Yes. Many homeschool moms feel uncertain at first. Confidence usually grows with time, experience, and seeing your children thrive.
A helpful verse is Proverbs 15:1: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Responding with humility and grace can help difficult conversations stay calmer.
The post How to Handle Homeschool Backlash from Family and Friends appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
In this episode, originally aired on Homeschooling IRL, we tackle some of the most common questions parents ask when they begin considering homeschooling.
You may have wondered things like:
Will my kids have to raise their hands to go to the bathroom?
What about prom?
Who gets to be the lunch lady?
Okay… maybe not exactly like that.
But the truth is, many parents do have real concerns when they first think about homeschooling.
Parents shared fears about:
Burnout
Academic gaps
Whether their kids will turn out “weird”
Their own ability to teach difficult subjects
We respond with honesty, transparency, and a little humor—because homeschooling in real life isn’t perfect, but it can be incredibly rewarding.
If you’re wondering whether homeschooling might be right for your family, this conversation will encourage you and help answer some of your biggest questions.
This episode is part of the Homeschool Foundations Series on the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Show.
0:00 – Sponsor Message: CTC Math
1:19 – Introduction to Homeschooling in Real Life
6:25 – The Time and Commitment Required for Homeschooling
11:50 – The Reality of Homeschooling in Everyday Life
21:06 – “I Don’t Know If I Can Do This Right”
23:30 – Why Science Can Feel Difficult to Homeschool
29:27 – Q&A with Candy
34:00 – What Do We Really Mean by Socialization?
39:52 – Bringing Faith into Your Homeschool
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The post Thinking About Homeschooling? | Homeschool Foundations Series appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
This episode formerly aired as part of the Homeschool Expo. Listen to additional Creation Science Podcast episodes.
Dr. Jay L. Wile is a nuclear chemist and prominent figure in the homeschool community, renowned for his science curricula that integrate a Christian worldview. He holds a Ph.D. in Nuclear Chemistry and a B.S. in Chemistry from the University of Rochester, and has received multiple awards for excellence in teaching.
Dr. Wile advocates for a chronological approach to teaching science, integrating historical context to enhance understanding. He believes that science and Christianity are complementary, encouraging students to explore scientific concepts as a means to appreciate the intricacies of God’s creation.
Dr. Wile and his wife, Kathleen, homeschooled their adopted daughter, Dawn, through high school. Their personal experience has informed his commitment to providing quality science education resources for the homeschool community.
For more information on Dr. Wile’s work and resources, you can visit Berean Builders or his Facebook page.
Thank you to our Sponsor, CTC Math.com
The post Creation Science Podcast: Radioisotopes, Revelation, and a Younger Earth — A Chat with Dr. Jay Wile appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
“We’re not just raising kids, we’re raising resilient adults. We’re raising spiritual beings.”
Join Lisa Nehring on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Thank you to our Network Sponsor: CTC Math
In a world where people easily crumble like delicate snowflakes and take offense at the drop of a hat, it’s high time we pondered this vital question: Are our children truly growing in resiliency?
Are they emerging as fearless warriors, fortified with unyielding character and an indomitable spirit? Let me tell you, this remarkable gift of resiliency will serve as their secret weapon in navigating an increasingly secular world.
So join me on this resilience adventure as we explore the importance of resilience and why it’s high time we raise a generation of tenacious individuals who can conquer any challenge that comes their way. Trust me, it’ll be one heck of a ride.
In her excellent book, appropriately titled, Grit, Angela Duckworth takes on the task of developing the idea of resilience in our children. She advocates for making resilience development a part of kids’ life skills curriculum.
I couldn’t agree more. Our kids need resilience. It’s what allows them to go out and compete, take risks, fail, and try again.
Practice– Practice is what lets us learn as we go. To practice and develop well, we must get assessments and feedback.
Choose something that requires deliberate daily practice.
After Action Your Homeschool Year
Find Lisa at the Life Skills 101 Podcast on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Check out True North Homeschool Academy
Our mission at True North Homeschool Academy is centered around the Compass, and that’s by design. It’s the heart of what we do, because we are heading True North with the Christian conviction that together our homeschools should transmit a culture of Truth, Goodness, and Beauty, as we are headed True North, rooted in Christ.
True North Homeschool Academy is a virtual online learning experience with a small class size, and dynamic teaching from world-class teachers, with a focus on creating a one-of-a-kind educational experience families will love.
Thank you to our sponsor for the Birthday Celebration: CTC Math.
The post Helping Our Kids Have Resiliency with Lisa Nehring (Replay) appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
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It made a huge difference for her students and can make a difference for you and your family as well. Applying just a little information can make all the difference in your child’s future. We shouldn’t leave out the adults either! It is never too late to change the brain. Two ladies in their 50’s, one a reading tutor and the other a Montessori teacher who had always struggled with reading comprehension, raised their reading comprehension score by 3 ½ years in only four months’ time. And guess what? They didn’t do any specific reading program. All it took was organization and specific stimulation to the brain and their abilities radically changed.
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“We’re not just raising kids, we’re raising resilient adults. We’re raising spiritual beings.”
Join Lisa Nehring on the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Show in celebration of our 10th Birthday Celebration!
Episode Sponsored by the 11th Birthday Celebration Sponsors, CTC Math & More on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network
In a world where people easily crumble like delicate snowflakes and take offense at the drop of a hat, it’s high time we pondered this vital question: Are our children truly growing in resiliency?
Are they emerging as fearless warriors, fortified with unyielding character and an indomitable spirit? Let me tell you, this remarkable gift of resiliency will serve as their secret weapon in navigating an increasingly secular world.
So join me on this resilience adventure as we explore the importance of resilience and why it’s high time we raise a generation of tenacious individuals who can conquer any challenge that comes their way. Trust me, it’ll be one heck of a ride.
In her excellent book, appropriately titled, Grit, Angela Duckworth takes on the task of developing the idea of resilience in our children. She advocates for making resilience development a part of kids’ life skills curriculum.
I couldn’t agree more. Our kids need resilience. It’s what allows them to go out and compete, take risks, fail, and try again.
Practice– Practice is what lets us learn as we go. To practice and develop well, we must get assessments and feedback.
Choose something that requires deliberate daily practice.
After Action Your Homeschool Year
Find Lisa at the Life Skills 101 Podcast on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
Check out True North Homeschool Academy
Our mission at True North Homeschool Academy is centered around the Compass, and that’s by design. It’s the heart of what we do, because we are heading True North with the Christian conviction that together our homeschools should transmit a culture of Truth, Goodness, and Beauty, as we are headed True North, rooted in Christ.
True North Homeschool Academy is a virtual online learning experience with a small class size, and dynamic teaching from world-class teachers, with a focus on creating a one-of-a-kind educational experience families will love.
Thank you to our sponsor for the Birthday Celebration: CTC Math.
The post Helping Our Kids Have Resiliency with Lisa Nehring appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.
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