This week we’re talking about gift giving – it’s Biblical, you know!  But how do you manage it without being immersed in the commercialism of a secular holiday, while glorifying God and having fun together? We’ve found that being more intentional and deliberate in choosing gifts and even in how we open them together, and encouraging our children to think of people rather than stuff at Christmas, has great benefits!

The wise men who brought gifts to Jesus – Matthew 2:1-11

We described how our family keeps up with everyone’s “wish list” – not just at Christmas, but all year long! Here’s the basic framework – each person’s section of the family list is divided into price brackets, and it’s the responsibility of each person to keep their list up to date. And when the shopping happens, gift-givers quietly delete items so others don’t duplicate their gift!

Updated: (be sure to make a note here when you make changes to your list!) 

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Making Biblical Family Life Practical with Hal & Melanie Young

Thanksgiving is one of the few holidays that still says what it means—giving thanks. But how do we move it beyond food, football, and stress, and turn it into a joyful, Christ-centered family tradition?

In this episode, Hal and Melanie share how you can reclaim Thanksgiving as a time of purposeful remembrance, gratitude, and witness to your extended family—without losing the fun or the feast.

Why Thanksgiving is worth “reforming”

How Thanksgiving is uniquely suited to be a God-centered holiday in modern culture

The biblical pattern of feasts and memorials (like Passover) as models for our celebrations

Why Christians should be known for joyful feasting, not just “saying no” to everything

The real story behind the first Thanksgiving

The suffering and “dying time” the Pilgrims endured their first winter

God’s providence in Squanto’s story and the empty land where they settled

Why reading William Bradford and Edward Winslow in their own words gives a truer, richer picture than the typical school version

How the character of the Pilgrims and Puritans still shapes the American mindset: conviction, courage, and willingness to do hard things

Making Thanksgiving Christ-centered at your house

Why hosting the celebration yourself lets you set the tone, pace, and priorities

Using history, Scripture, song, and simple traditions to turn the day into a living testimony

How these practices can gently impact even very “worldly” or skeptical family members

1. The Thanksgiving Tree

Tape or pin a paper tree trunk to the wall

Put a basket of paper “leaves” and a pen on the table

Every time you sit down to eat, everyone writes one thing they’re thankful for and adds it to the tree

Over time, the tree fills up and helps your family see just how much God has done—even in hard seasons like job loss or uncertainty

2. Five Kernels of Corn Tradition

To remember the Pilgrims’ real hunger and God’s real provision:

Place five kernels of corn on each person’s plate

Have the youngest confident reader read the poem “Five Kernels of Corn”

As you eat, each person shares five specific things they’re thankful for—one for each kernel

This tradition humbles us, reminds us of what our ancestors endured, and helps us appreciate God’s daily mercies

3. Reading and Singing Together

Bring back the old, good traditions:

Read from primary sources about the first Thanksgiving (Bradford, Winslow, historic proclamations from Washington or Lincoln)

Share the story of God’s providence in the Pilgrims’ lives in their own words

Sing classic hymns of praise and thanksgiving as a family after the meal

Don’t be surprised when even very “sophisticated” or non-religious relatives are deeply moved—many people quietly long for meaning, ceremony, and reflection

We Gather Together (Thanksgiving e-book) UPDATE 2025: This resource is not titled, “Christ-Centered Thanksgiving”

True accounts and quotes from Pilgrim history

Thanksgiving proclamations

Songs and hymns to sing

Planning pages, charts, and forms for stress-free hosting

Tried-and-true recipes (including how to cook the best turkey ever!)

Scripts and ideas for what to say and do at your celebration

Learn more at: RaisingRealMen.com

Pollyanna (Unabridged Audiobook by Melanie Young)

A pastor’s daughter who always looks for God’s blessing in every circumstance

Perfect family read-aloud or listen-together in the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving

Helps cultivate a “gratitude habit” in your home

Find it at: RaisingRealMen.com/Pollyanna

You don’t have to settle for a holiday that’s all about food and football. With a little planning and a bit of boldness, you can:

Turn Thanksgiving into a family tradition your kids will treasure

Offer a gentle, powerful witness to your extended family

Reclaim a holiday that’s already about thanking God, and point the gratitude clearly back to Him

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Most of our eight kids are adults now and we are so blessed to have good relationships with all of them – and they all get along with their siblings, too!  Some people ask if they’ve always been peaceable, and we have to say NOPE. But we found several things along the way that helped shape the sort of family we have today – that’s the subject of this episode!

Where do wars and fights come from among you? Do they not come from your desires for pleasure that war in your members? You lust and do not have. You murder and covet and cannot obtain. You fight and war. Yet you do not have because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.  (James 4:1-3)

“You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him.You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.” (God, in Leviticus 19:17-18)

“Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. 16 But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.’”

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Christians and Jews are sometimes called “People of the Book” because we rest our beliefs on the written word of God. It’s natural for a new believer to have a new desire to read the Bible — but there are a lot of different versions on the shelf! What makes them different? Which Bible is best for new believers? What would we recommend for young readers? We’ve used many different Bibles over the years, and this episode we’re talking about what we’ve experienced, what we used with our family, and what we’d recommend for someone new to the faith!

Are you a new believer, or do you know one?

You might find our last episode helpful:

Episode 312 – Going to Church for the First Time? 

We visited Washington, DC, and recorded this episode from the Museum of the Bible. If you’re there in the city full of museums, this one is definitely worth a stop!

Episode 308 – The Bible is Reliable

Hal likes Bible App by Olive Tree  and Melanie uses the ESV Bible App by Crossway. Both have reading schedules to help you make Bible a daily habit and keep you on track! Some of our young people like YouVersion, too. All of these are available for Android or iPhone users.

A more complex app (and website) Hal uses for study is The Blue Letter Bible

This free app allows you to choose from more than 15 English translations, the Latin Vulgate, multiple Greek versions, and a large number of modern languages, too — along with links to commentaries and study tools. Really useful for deep personal study, or just to clarify a confusing verse (how do other translations phrase this?)

The best part of a phone app is you always have the Bible with you – and it’s easy to look up references or passages with the search function, too.

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After the shocking and tragic death of Charlie Kirk last month, there was an unexpected tide of people online who found themselves drawn to God in a way they never had. Some had left the church of their childhood years ago, while others had never been in church at all! Suddenly they felt a call to be in church now. And many had questions – how do I approach this? Do I need an invitation? What’s expected of me? This episode, we’ll look at some common questions and give some good news for those whose hearts are strangely warmed!

When You Need to Find a New Church (episode 164) – We talk about some steps we take if the time comes to find a new church, whether due to relocation, a need for different ministries, or some other reason.

Children and “Big Church” (episode 218) – We talk about how we raised our eight children to stay in the main service at church, rather than going to children’s ministry or the nursery. It’s possible, with patience and gentleness, to teach even very young kids when to stay quiet and (reasonably) still, and actually to learn some things from the sermon as well!

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On October 31, 1517, a young theologian and priest named Martin Luther posted a list of debate questions on the door of the university church in Wittemburg, Germany. What was intended as a invitation for scholars and theologians to meet and consider, became the starting point of a sweeping reformation of Christ’s church – and led to a life-and-death decision for the young Brother Martin. Our family takes time each year to remember the heroism of one man who stood up for the authority of God’s word against the challenge of an emperor, when that stand could have cost his life! Join us as we talk about our family’s celebration of Reformation Day.

Resources: https://www.raisingrealmen.com/product/reformationday/

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Halloween and the Reformation may not seem to have much in common. What does Halloween have to do with the Reformation? In this episode listen as you learn about Halloween alternatives.

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Among the secular holidays, Halloween probably is the most controversial … with good reason. Is it just a festival of candy for children in costume, or a throwback to Druidic rites and demonic celebration, or something in between? This episode we talk about how we’ve chosen to mark the season, and its connection with the Reformation that swept Europe in the 1500’s – with effects to this day. In this way, our children enjoy a celebration. A celebration of something we can believe in!

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5 Tips for Reformation Day Fun (from Concordia Publishing House)

Our interview with Luther biographer Danika Cooley (episode 99)

Reformation Day: A Celebration of Heroism (from our blog, Raising Real Men)

All around us, October is filled with darkness, fear, and make-believe — but for believers, this season points to something real and world-changing. Over 500 years ago, a handful of ordinary men and women took a stand on an extraordinary truth: that salvation comes by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone.

This month, we’re separating myth from truth in our Reformation Myth Busters series. Join us as we uncover what really happened in the Reformation, why it matters for our families today, and how we can redeem October 31st by celebrating light over darkness and truth over fear.

Follow along on Facebook and Instagram @raisingrealmen — and download our Reformation Day Celebration Guide to help your family mark the day with meaning and joy!

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Why do our best efforts sometimes breed resentment or even rebellion, when it’s all so well-intentioned? This episode we’re looking at the crucial balance between rules and relationship in our home!

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The Ten Commandments – Exodus 20:1-17, Deuteronomy 5:1-21

Let each be fully convinced in his own mind. (Romans 14:5)

Children obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. (Ephesians 6:1)

So then, my beloved, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.  (James 1:19-20)

The repentance of Ahab – 1 Kings 21:17-29

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If God has called you to teach your children at home, that’s what you need to do! But it’s easier if everyone around you is cheering you on. What do you do if your parents or in-laws or extended family are skeptical? How do you and your family keep on the path when there are headwinds? How do you handle questions, criticisms, or other opposition? And what can you do to find the encouragement you’re not getting from the family?

Census data shows the number of families homeschooling doubled during the pandemic (from 5.4% to 11.1%) and among African-American families, increased from 3.3% to 16.1%

Census Bureau: “Survey shows significant increase in homeschooling rates in Fall 2020” – 3/22/21

Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA)

Search by ZIP code to find support groups (state and local) 

Assume concern is well-intended unless proved otherwise!

Figure out where their concern is focused, then address it with facts and experience

Go ahead and commit to a period of time, like a full school year. That gives kids a more stable educational experience, and it gives both parents and students a chance to adjust to a new way to “do school.” It reduces the temptation of constant second-guessing, too.

Go to a conference! It’s a great way to encourage yourself, and it’s an eye-opener for skeptical family. Even a small conference is likely to be much larger than your family has pictured. And invite grandparents to activities when your kids are involved – whether it’s homeschool sports, a science fair, a talent show – whatever your family is connected to.

Think ahead about “difficult” people – the ones who want to argue with your decision, or the ones who want to interrogate your kids. Coach your kids on the obvious, likely questions – “What grade are you in?” (which is really more like, “How old are you?”) – “What do you like about homeschooling?” – “Do you like to read?” – “What are you learning now?” – “What’s your favorite subject?” Kids sometimes go blank when an adult throws an unexpected question – go head, coach the witness!

Remember, you don’t have to argue and convince everybody (whether homeschool skeptics, or homeschoolers who are taking a different path than you!). Smile, be polite, but be confident. It’s your family, and your kids – not theirs!

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Podcast: Making Biblical Family Life Practical with Hal & Melanie Young

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Hal (former military) and Melanie talk candidly about the tension some believers feel around “God and country.” As Christians, our first allegiance is to Christ and His Kingdom—yet Scripture also calls us to seek the peace and good of the place where God has planted us (Jeremiah 29). The conversation explores our dual citizenship (Philippians 3:20; Hebrews 12:28), how the Apostle Paul lawfully claimed his Roman rights for gospel purposes (Acts 16; 22), and why a government of laws—not personalities—protects liberty for everyone.

You’ll hear practical ideas for passing along the principles of liberty to your kids—reading primary sources, celebrating national holidays as teachable moments, and studying heroic examples (from the American founding and beyond) who modeled courage, self-government, and virtue.

Jeremiah 29:7 – Seek the peace of the city where I have sent you.

Philippians 3:20 – Our citizenship is in heaven.

Hebrews 12:28 – We are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken.

Acts 16; 21–22 – Paul lawfully asserts his Roman citizenship.

Dual Citizenship: Christians belong to an unshakeable Kingdom while still bearing real responsibilities on earth.

Law Over Leaders: “Lex rex” (the law is king) restrains sinful people—including those in authority—and preserves liberty.

Use Lawful Rights Wisely: Like Paul, believers may appeal to lawful rights to advance the gospel and protect justice.

Teach with Primary Sources: Read the Declaration of Independence and other original documents; talk through what they meant then and why they matter now.

Hero Formation: Boys (and girls!) will choose heroes—guide them toward men and women whose courage and virtue are worth imitating.

Global Perspective: Patriotism isn’t chauvinism. Honor what God has done in your nation without despising others; celebrate your own country’s worthy stories, wherever you live.

Read Aloud: The Declaration of Independence; discuss “law vs. man” and the duty to resist tyranny lawfully.

Primary-Source Night: Rotate short readings (Federalist Papers excerpts, founder letters, state constitutions) and ask, “What problem were they solving?”

Holiday as Catechism: Treat national celebrations like family catechism—retell the story, remember God’s providence, and connect past to present.

Hero Studies: Choose biographies (U.S. and international) that highlight virtue under pressure; ask, “What did this cost them?”

Civics Walk-Through: Show teens how to contact representatives, read a bill, and attend a local meeting with respect and purpose.

Independence Day Celebration Guide – Recipes, music, links to founding documents, and more: raisingrealmen.com 

Hero Tales from American History – Dramatized stories by Theodore Roosevelt & Henry Cabot Lodge (including “Battle of Trenton” and “Kings Mountain” tracks).

Note: This is a replay. Time-bound announcements, travel notes, and event dates reflect the original show broadcast date.

Q1: Is patriotism biblical for Christians?

Q2: How do we avoid confusing faith with nationalism?

Q3: What are simple ways to teach civics at home?

Q4: Why emphasize “law is king” with kids?

Q5: What heroes should we study?

Original Show Notes:With the Independence Day holiday just on the horizon, do we have a Biblical understanding of our “dual citizenship” – where we enjoy a citizenship in the Kingdom of God, shared with all believers from all ages, but also an earthly citizenship in a particular time of history? Do we recognize the blessings of our earthly liberty?  Do we teach them to our children, but avoid the trap of creating a red-white-and-blue version of Christianity? Join us as we open these questions “live” from rural Pelahatchie, Mississippi!

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