In today’s episode of Tell Me More, we’ll dig into James 4:1-12, where James challenges us to confront our pride and exchange it for humility. As women seeking to live out our faith, we’ll discuss the dangers of pride, selfish desires, and worldliness, and how they can lead us away from God's peace. More importantly, we’ll unpack the beauty of God's grace and His invitation to draw near to Him in humility. Tune in as we talk about surrendering our pride, resisting the enemy, and finding true freedom and closeness with God.
Opening Question:
Was there a desire that you had as a kid (like wanting a certain toy, or to go somewhere, or have some sort of experience) that you never ended up getting?
Read James 4:1-12 together and discuss.
Was there a phrase or word that stood out to you?
What questions does this bring up? (this is an opportunity for us to be transparent about what we don’t understand, or need to dig into some more, etc.)
Did you do any research about those questions? What did you learn?
How should this passage affect your prayer life and the things you desire?
What does it mean to “have friendship with the world” in the way that James uses that phrase? Why do you think he calls that adultery?
Verses 7-10 give us ten (ten!) commands of what we should do, but it also highlights how God responds to us. What does this tell us about ourselves? About God?
What is something from this passage that is hard for you to obey? How can you grow in obedience of God’s Word (don’t be afraid to get specific!)?
BONUS QUESTION: Did you read the additional resource we linked last week? If not, you can find it here. If so, what did you learn? What helped your understanding of this passage?
Action Step:
Get ready for episode 9 by reading James 4:13-5:6. Write down any questions you have or what stands out to you.
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