Tenaciously Being

This just might be my most touching episode yet, I had a little tear in my eye when I finished. 😅

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about “My Purpose” in Life and where my passion for Creativity meets the way I feel about the shit-show of current “modern” civilization. I basically dive into all the ways Political Correctness ruined me (and I believe pretty much everyone’s) ability to think for myself. It goes a lot deeper than that, but let’s just say that I’m pretty over trying to fit into any boxes, so saying goodbye to trying to be PC is part of the journey of Tenaciously Being.

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This episode of the Tenaciously Being podcast is actually a direct reading of a children’s picture book titled, “The Little Soul and the Sun” by Niel Donald Walsh.

This book was brought up in conversation and recommended to me by a dear friend (and fellow Empress) who also listens to a lot of Lorie Ladd, homeschools her kids and follows a non-western-medical methods of healing and wellness. In an ironic twist of fate, we had almost met when I first finished Health Coaching school and signed on to sell a certain brand of products that is no longer available. When we finally met in person and made that connection it became very clear that we had contracted prior to incarnating to show up for each other in specific ways. I’m grateful to that friendship, as well as for introducing me to this beautifully illustrated and well-told story.

I’ve spoken before about this “God-spark” that exists in all of us, and this story explains that concept simply and eloquently… it’s too good to not just read ver-batim as I have. I hope you enjoy the story and that it reminds you of the light within yourself and that is also in everyone else. It’s not always easy to remember in today’s crazy world, but when we live from that place of LOVE, we are aligning with our higher consciousness and ultimately God (or Goddess, Universe, Source, Self… whatever word you prefer to use).

This is a link to the book on Thrift Books: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/the-little-soul-and-the-sun-a-childrens-parable-adapted-from-conversations-with-god_neale-donald-walsch/251883/?resultid=65fcc8d0-0f45-46be-a0d6-0af97a4ee804#edition=2314128&idiq=3963933

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Cyclical Living was completely new to me 6 years ago when I was first introduced to it. It blew my mind. And then it blew my partner’s mind. It took a lot of practice, attention, communication, dedication, and very quiet listening in order to fold it into our lives. And I can say, without a doubt, that it is a foundational component to living our best life. Everything has a cycle - we live in a cyclical world, not linear. The linear way of thinking keeps us trapped, thinking we’re behind, not enough, or we missed our opportunities. What if we shifted our perspective? What if, instead of seeing only the beginning and end of things, we begin to see how beautifully life spirals into and on top of itself… constantly growing, evolving, cycling through so we can learn from our experiences and create the life we want. It takes some time, and it takes tuning into your body, and I believe it’s worth every second of time and energy to do so. This episode explains why.

The beautiful and eloquent Kate Northrup can be found here: http://katenorthup.com

I follow her podcast on apple, here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/plenty-with-kate-northrup/id1160960959

Alisa Viti was the first interview I heard on this subject 6 years ago, her website: https://floliving.com/

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In this episode, Rather dives into her family’s decision to homeschool… and then not. It gets a little personal when these discussions come up because we are social creatures and most of us learned our social tendencies through the school system. We hear a lot of “I went to public school and I turned out fine” sorts of comments when in discussion. This episode is meant to discuss those types of comments and also to explain more of WHY we chose homeschooling in the first place. Ultimately, it’s a personal decision of our family’s, and it has never been intended to insult or undermine what other families choose to do. If phrases like “systems falling” and “we choose not to participate” are triggering for you, may we invite a little open dialog about what this means for society as a whole? What can be learned from a falling system? What can be used in the future systems that will replace the dying ones? What do we get to Create for the future of our families and society as a whole?

This episode hits the “Back to School” vibes with a recap of our trip to Disney World, with a surprisingly “esoteric” twist from the teachings of Lorie Ladd.

A few notes that I jotted while listening:

Nope, not on YouTube yet… anyone want to help me out with graphics for my intro?

Standby for homeschool episode, it did get recorded that afternoon and will be Episode 15.

Did my favorite linguistic joke go over your head?

Wow, I really love Lorie Ladd’s work 😆🤷‍♀️❤️

Awareness, Accepting and becoming the Observer - check out this episode where she poses the question that helped our trip to Disney be better than ever: https://www.youtube.com/live/xNvD6zEwGVw?si=G-4Kb6SPe44Pl-Ch

I hope you enjoyed this episode and its takeaways: Can you see the light within yourself? Can you see the light within the people you encounter throughout your day? It’s ok if the answer is no, we are all incredibly unique and in perfectly different places on our journey. Thank you for being here with me. I’m so glad you’re here.

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My Artist Website:

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All right, Tenacious Beings. If you have been waiting anxiously to discover what it is that I actually do in my life to keep myself closer to “health and happiness”, then this is the episode for you. I've linked a ton of stuff down below for your reference.

Please reach out on social (http://instagram.com/tenaciouslybeing) if you have any questions about any of these products.

Also, if you have any kind of expertise in any of the stuff that I listed out or talked about in this episode, reach out because I'd love to just chat further… recorded or not, I just love hearing more on these things I already know and love. So, if you've got anything to add, I'd love to know that too. Enjoy the episode. Thank you.

**In a rare turn of events, there are very few affiliate links here - this is more of just a list of things I like to use. I am an affiliate for Purium and PBX, which means that I may receive a small compensation when you order through my link or use my code. If you have any questions about any of these products, please find me on social and let’s get them answered!

Things I find locally, but it’s easier to show you on Amazon:

Te’Chino Coffee substitute (comes in a tea bag as well!):

https://a.co/d/gvbgUsD

Intramax - multi mineral/vitamin:

https://a.co/d/dyeWhNo

Apple Cider Vinegar (get this from your local grocery, I like this brand best):

https://a.co/d/c0faUaH

Almond Cow: https://almondcow.co/

Food Babe’s rant on plant based milks: https://foodbabe.com/what-are-the-healthiest-non-dairy-milks-to-drink/

Powdered Coconut milk: https://drbenkim.com/sunshop/index.php?l=product_detail&p=94

Zach Bush’s take on glyphosate: https://zachbushmd.com/knowledge-gmo/

ION (also Zach Bush’s company) can be found here: https://intelligenceofnature.com/

PBX is the naturally derived Zeolite: https://ratherbecreative.thegoodinside.com/

I also like TRS and find this lady to be a wealth of information about that brand and all things detox: http://instagram.com/cleanheavymetaldetox

Purium - for the Biomedic (glyphosate cleanser) and other great supplements: http://ishoppurium.com

Use code RATHERBECREATIVE for $50 off your first order.

(I take the Biomedic and Super Aminos regularly, I do like their fulvic/zeolite blend and tart cherry juice as well. Their meal replacement/powdered juices are of super high quality and sourced responsibly, I keep a variety on hand - the “Epi-Genius Family” is the “chocolate milk” that also includes the biomedic for the kiddos. I especially like that they’ve eliminated all the single use plastics from their brand.)

Welcome to the first guest appearance on Tenaciously Being - the podcast where we promise to get real about what it looks like to live your best life. My friend from the Gunnison Valley, Travis White, has joined me to chat about what it looks like to live a “healthy life” right now. We talk about how easy it is to find ourselves in a state of dis-ease, and ultimately how everyone’s approach to how to deal with that is going to be different.

The only real notes that I made when I listened back on this episode are:

We use adult language - please be cautious if your ears are sensitive or you have young ears around.

We are SO unprofessional… and that’s more than OK!! I almost want it to be this way, at least for now. I don’t want a chat with me to be intimidating in any way, and I think this conversation flowed nicely (even though I didn’t give him a ton of time to talk).

He mentioned birds and birdwatching, he even sent me a pic of the Cardinal nest in the windchime and I’m going to share it on social - are you following me there? http://instagram.com/tenaciouslybeing

And that’s it! I hope you enjoy this episode. As this podcast continues to grow I look forward to connecting with lots of friends in this simple (unprofessional) way. If you feel inclined to chat with me - about anything, it doesn’t have to be health related - please reach out. You can leave a comment here on the podcast app or you can message me on social or reach out via text or call if you have my number. I truly want to connect with friends far and wide, so if this idea tickles your mind in any way let’s make it happen!

With love, always, thank you so much for listening.

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Welcome to Season 2 of Tenaciously Being, the place where we’re exploring what it looks like to simply BE in this world. Season 2 begins to dive into the Health and Wellness, beginning with a quick synopsis of how and when I got to where I am now… a certified Health Coach that doesn’t really want to talk about “Health and Wellness” anymore 🤷‍♀️😆.

Sometimes the things I want to talk about are interesting to you, sometimes they may seem repetitive or boring because you think to yourself, “I already know this”. When I find myself thinking this way, I choose a Marie Forleo reframe: “What can I learn from this?” If you’re not familiar with her work, check her out and get ready to be inspired (with a hot dose of sass😘).

In this episode I discuss how important BioIndividuality is to the conversation and how frustrated I’ve always been with “diet culture”. We talk about how our tendency to fix everything might be impeding our ability to actually heal. I also give up my favorite trick to being able to eat less processed foods and more whole foods every day (it’s surprisingly easy!). A few of the places I mentioned learning from are below with links.

Ultimately, I’m looking forward to opening up this conversation with friends and followers who feel called to chime in. As Season 2 unfolds, I want to get into the nitty gritty of what it looks like to be a thriving human in today’s day’n age. It’ll take a good dose of vulnerability from me and I’m willing to bring it if it helps us get through this evolution together.

Thank you for being here, thank you for listening. Please remember how easy it is to share/like/comment/subscribe. Grassroots efforts start small, and I appreciate your participation in spreading these words far and wide.

This conversation is just getting started, please follow along on Instagram: http://instagram.com/tenaciouslybeing

Youtube video that I shared with friends: Barbara O’Niel talking about Salt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBuK73K7t_0&t=1548s

The concept of “eating whatever you want, just cook it yourself” came from Michael Pollan, probably from the “Cooked” Series on Netflix, but it could have been a documentary, either “In Defense of Food” or “Food, Inc”. Check them out here: https://michaelpollan.com/documentaries/

Check out this clip of a young Zach Bush talking the basics of the microbiome:

https://zachbushmd.com/knowledge-gut-health/

I totally understand that I’m talking about some major paradigm shifting stuff here - it’s not easy to tell the human population that we’ve gotten the whole picture of how to be “healthy” wrong. This collection of information is essential to the paradigm shift that I believe all of humanity needs to be making. If you didn’t check it out when it was being released, you can still get the information from The End of Covid here: https://theendofcovid.com/ref/696/

Phew, we did it! This is the final episode of what I’m calling “Season 1” of Tenaciously Being. All of these episodes were recorded prior to receiving any feedback - completely secluded in my own head and my own experiences. From here on out, I’ll be coming from a place of having received comments and critiques, you might notice a difference?

In this episode we briefly review what was talked about in episodes 1-9 and I reiterate (over and over again - because it’s that important) how I’m not here to tell you how it is. I’m here to share how it looks for me and my life. I hope that my experiences, stories and thoughts assist you in your life in some way, but I am not trying to “teach” anything. I’m simply sharing my perspective and lenses through which I see the world.

A big part of this podcast going forward is connection - connecting to you - listener and friend who is also Tenaciously Being in your world. We’re all navigating it differently, but we’re all experiencing this evolution at the same time. It’s wild. And I want to hear from you! Reach out on social (or if you know me, you likely still have my phone number, it hasn’t changed) if you’d like to chat - recorded or not, I’d love to hear from you!

With so much love in my heart, I am grateful for you being here. Thank you for listening.

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Perhaps a little bit of friendly tough love in this episode. I break down my beliefs about how no one has the exact answer to what ails you. We discuss the beautiful paradox of this being freeing and crippling at the same time. A lot is changing in the world and it seems to be happening rapidly. Seeking answers from Old World paradigms, boxing myself into diagnosis’ and labels, and living as a victim to any conditions are NOT the ways I’m choosing to proceed. I have a lot of hope in the body’s resilience, in our natural capabilities to heal when given half a chance. In order to do that we have to see the conditioning that has kept us feeling sick, depressed and in need of answers. We have the answers within. We are designed to heal. Only YOU really know how to do it.

** I was feeling very adult in my language when I recorded this episode, prepare your ears and please be wary of younger ones who may be listening.

I almost added the song I quoted at the end, and I’m kinda surprised I didn’t sing it. If you’d like to have it stuck in your head now too (in a good way) it’s called “Cowboy Mambo” by David Byrne, on the Uh-Oh album (post Talking Heads era). The quote is one of the verses about half way through.

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