The Adoption Files

The Adoption Files

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The Adoption Files episodes

  • The Odd One: a NAAM episode

    Please join me for a brief episode of the podcast. This is from a blog post I wrote in September of 2021.

    The opinion of the host is just that, their opinion. The host is not a lawyer, or a therapist or an adoption professional.

    Thanks for listening!

    5 min
  • Illegitimate: TJ Johnson, musician, English teacher and adopted person, shares

    Please join me as I speak with TJ Johnson. TJ is a musician, English teacher and Baby Scoop Era adopted person. She writes on Medium as The Onyx Phoenix. She contributed to the anthology Strangers by Adoption.

    The Onyx Phoenix. – Medium

    An Open Letter To My Father. An adoptee writes a letter to her… | by The Onyx Phoenix. | Adoptere: Auditing the Narrative | Oct, 2024 | Medium
    The Onyx Phoenix (@redbyrde1960) | TikTok

    This conversation is part of our effort to amplify the voices of adopted people and others impacted by adoption during the month of November.

    Please be aware that this episode includes graphic descriptions of child abuse.

    Mentioned in the episode:

    Amazon.com: Strangers By Adoption: 10 Adoptees Share Their Stories of Rejection and Abuse: 9780578495743: Sippel, Doris Michol, Musser, Sandy, Sippel, Doris Michol, Musser, Sandy, Sippel, Doris Michol, Yarrow, Patricia Vivien: BooksHome - Saving Our SistersPound Pup LegacyMoses Farrow


    The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist or adoption professional.

    Every state and region had its own child abuse reporting laws and helplines. We are including the link to the national helpline. If you know or suspect that a child is being abused, please report.

    National Child Abuse Hotline - Childhelp

    Thank you.

    44 min
  • National Adoption Awareness Month: Sophi Richman Fletcher shares on finding her father

    Please join me as I speak with Baby Scoop Era, domestic adoptee Sophi Richman Fletcher. Sophi shares with us a piece she wrote on the search for her father, what she discovered, and how her discovery has been pivotal in her own self-empowerment.

    Sophi can be found on Facebook as Sophi Richman Fletcher. Sophi welcomes questions about the search process and on managing expectations in search and reunion. She can be messaged through FB Messenger.

    Mentioned in the show:

    No Apologies for Being Me, a blog by The Adopted Genealogist, Lynn Grubb

    Lynn Grubb (noapologiesforbeingme.blogspot.com)
    The Sunshine Boys:
    Southern Gospel History - Sunshine Boys (sghistory.com)
    National Adoption Awareness Month was established to promote adoption. Adopted people have been working to reframe the conversation centering the voices of adult adopted people in order to shift the prevailing narrative. There are many resources that people can explore to learn more about the deconstruction of the adoption narrative. We encourage listeners to listen to podcasts produced by adoptees, read books and articles, and visit adoptee produced content on IG, FB, Tiktok and X, as well as blogs on blogspot, wordpress, substack and other platforms.

    The opinion of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist or adoption professional.

    Thank you for listening!

    24 min
  • National Adoption Awareness Month 2024

    Hi! As we begin yet another National Adoption Awareness Month, the podcast will be sharing on the history and function of the event, along with the stories and perspectives of some of us who are impacted by adoption.

    Mentioned in the podcast today:

    About National Adoption Month | Child Welfare Information Gateway
    Data and Statistics: AFCARS | The Administration for Children and Families
    https://crsreports.congress.gov/product/pdf/R/R43025/11
    US Adoption Statistics | Adoption Network
    Places you can find information on the experiences of adoptees and mothers who are deconstructing from the adoption narrative:

    this podcast!

    Adoptees of Tiktok

    Adoptees on IG

    Adoptees on Twitter(X)

    The many podcasts hosted by adopted people

    Adoptees United | Identity, Citizenship, Equality
    Where Adoptee Voices Meet – An Adoptee Centric Connect Group
    Adoptee Rights Law Center PLLC
    Adoptees for Justice
    Home | ARC

    There are many state based adoptee rights groups also: California Alliance for Adoptee Rights, Georgia Alliance for Adoptee Rights, Adoptee Advocates of Michigan, Virginia Alliance for Adoptee Rights, Texas Adoptee Rights Coalition, and more.

    Adoption Trauma Network (@adoptiontraumanet) • Instagram photos and videos

    Adoptee Reading: An Adoption Book Catalog - Books Written & Recommended By Adoptees

    Concerned United Birthparents
    The Family Preservation Project – Where Moms and Resources Meet
    Home - Saving Our Sisters
    The opinions of the podcast host are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist or adoption professional. The host is a Late Discovery, Baby Scoop Era, Intercountry, Same Race Adopted person whose identity also intersects with the LGBTQ and the Disabled community.

    Thank you for listening!

    30 min
  • Entitlement in Adoption; a deconstruction exploration

    Please join the host and their guest Dani Joy as we continue talking about the challenges of deconstructing from our beliefs around adoption and religion. This episode, we explore the ways in which entitlement intersects with and is reinforced by the religious and adoption narratives that we were raised with.

    Entitlement: There are a lot of different dictionaries with slightly different definitions of the concept of entitlement. We used the Oxford Dictionary definition. I am also providing a link to another definition. https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/entitlement

    Understanding the Trauma Brain | Psychology Today
    The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade: Fessler, Ann: 9780143038979: Amazon.com: Books
    How to Have Difficult Conversations | Psychology Today

    About RAINN | RAINN
    National Hotline for Mental Health Crises and Suicide Prevention | NAMI
    The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist or adoption professional.

    1 hr
  • Deconstruction and Sexuality: Why its important to talk about sex

    Please join Dani Joy and me as we have a conversation about how deconstructing from religion and the adoption narrative has affected how we perceive sexuality.

    Please be aware that the episode includes discussion of sexual assault.

    (13) Dismantling Purity Culture | Facebook
    RAINN | The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization
    The Trevor Project - Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ+ Young People
    Human Sexuality | Psychology Today
    Reproductive Justice — Sister Song
    The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, a therapist or an adoption professional.

    Thank you for listening!

    1 hr 8 min
  • Adoptee Advocates of Michigan: a conversation with Anna Thompson and Valerie LeMieux

    Please join me as I speak with adoptee rights advocates and community builders Anna Thompson and Valerie LeMieux about what they are creating in the state of Michigan.

    Mentioned in the show:

    Adoptee Advocates of Michigan

    Adoptee Advocates of Michigan Adoptee Advocates of Michigan

    Adoptee Rights Law (Greg Luce)

    Adoptee Rights Law Center – Legal representation and advocacy for adult adopted people
    Adoptee Citizenship Act of 2024
    Congress Introduces The Adoptee Citizenship Act of 2024 (adopteerightscampaign.org)
    Adoptees for Justice
    Adoptees for Justice

    Adoptee Rights Law citizenship page
    U.S. Citizenship (adopteerightslaw.com)


    Reconnecting the Dots:

    Reconnecting the Dots: A Detroit-Based Transracial Adoptee's Story Tickets, Sat, Oct 19, 2024 at 1:00 PM | Eventbrite
    Michiganders! Take Action for Adoptee Citizenship (adopteerightslaw.com)

    Michigan Adoptee Rights Coalition

    Michigan Adoptee Rights Coalition | Home (michiganadoptees.org)
    Grand Rapids Pacific Foundation
    GR Asian-Pacific Foundation (grapf.org)
    Korean American Adoptee Adoptive Family Network
    (1) Facebook

    The opinions of the host and their guest(s) are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist or adoption professional

    Thank you for listening!

    46 min
  • There's no such thing as utopia, and other pitfalls of deconstruction

    Please join Dani Joy and I as we discuss some of the pitfalls of deconstructing from the narratives around race, religion and adoption.

    Dani Joy is a mother of loss to adoption. She can be found on Facebook, as well as on

    Dani Joy, mother and homesteader – Medium
    Mentioned in the show:

    (10) Birth Mom Support And Education | Facebook
    (10) Estranged & Thriving; Support for Adult Children | Facebook
    (10) Dismantling Purity Culture | Facebook
    five-losing-strategies-five-winning-strategies.pdf (moonstonecounseling.com)
    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, a therapist or an adoption professional.

    Thank you for listening!

    57 min

About The Adoption Files

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The Adoption files seeks to provide a place for adoptees and allies to discuss the laws preventing adoptees from accessing their identities, and the emotional and physical challenges adoptees face in…

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