The Adoption Files

The Adoption Files

By Ande StanleyScienceSocial Sciences
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The Adoption Files episodes

  • Transracial Adoption, Racism and Suicidality; a Conversation with Lina Vanegas, MSW

    Please join me as I speak with transracial, transnational displaced person Lina Vanegas, MSW and advocate. We talk about the intersection of transracial and transnational adoption, racism and colonialism and impacts on mental health and suicidal ideation.

    Lina can be found at:

    (12) Facebook
    Lina Vanegas Msw (@linaleadswithlove) • Instagram photos and videos
    Lina Vanegas - @linaleadswithlove : r/abolishadoption (reddit.com)
    as well as on X and other platforms @linaleadswithlove

    Mentioned in the episode:

    Mila | WHO: Adoption Survivors of Color + Global Majority WHAT: “Visualizing Adoption Abolition” Community Building Workshop WHEN: Saturday... | Instagram
    Mila | (This workshop is for BIPOC Adopted People Only.) We are offering an online workshop, “Visualizing Adoption Abolition” in collaboration... | Instagram
    Nos Buscamos – ONG
    Adoption fraud was widespread for many South Koreans adopted into Western countries, AP finds (nbcnews.com)
    Why China Is Banning Foreign Adoptions of Children - Newsweek
    The U.S. history of Native American Boarding Schools — The Indigenous Foundation
    History of Residential Schools | Indigenous Peoples Atlas of Canada
    NABSW_Trans-Racial_Adoption_1972_Position_(b).pdf (ymaws.com)
    Illegally adopted during Chile's dictatorship, they're now reuniting with biological families | AP News
    There are a great many more articles and resources referencing illegal adoptions, the sourcing of children of color from other countries for the purpose of adoption, and the coercive tactics employed by so-called Resource employees, who are hired to procure children for agencies.

    For people looking for lists of podcasts and other media produced by people of color and transnational adopted people, you can visit the site for Intercountry Adoption News, which maintains files and is an excellent source of news about transracial and transnational adoption.

    (13) Facebook

    The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer or mental health professional.

    If you or someone you know is feeling alone in navigating trauma and suicidal ideation, please seek support.

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline | SAMHSA
    Mental health support: get help - Canada.ca
    UK Suicide & Crisis Helplines. Free, 24/7 Chat, Text & Phone (findahelpline.com)
    Mental health and suicide prevention contacts | Australian Government Department of Health and Aged Care
    RAINN | The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization
    Where to get support | Te Hiringa Mahara—Mental Health and Wellbeing Commission (mhwc.govt.nz)
    Thank you for listening!

    1 hr 3 min
  • Deconstruction, adoption and the morass that is American politics

    Growing up, the two topics that were taboo at the dinner table were religion and politics. Which may be a big part of how we ended up in the mess we find ourselves in. Please join Dani Joy and me as we ramble a bit about how deconstruction changed our political perspectives, and how those changing perspectives tie into our thoughts on adoption and family preservation.

    Mentioned in the show:

    TANF

    Welfare benefits or Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) | USAGov
    Saving our Sisters:
    Home - Saving Our Sisters (savingoursistersadoption.org)
    The Family Preservation Project:
    Facebook
    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist or a politician. The host encourages listeners to research the topics discussed and engage your curiosity and critical thinking skills. Let's problem solve together.

    1 hr 9 min
  • The Godly Family: deconstructing from adoption and religious trauma; a conversation with Dani Joy

    Please join Dani Joy and I as we continue our conversation on deconstruction from adoption and religious trauma. Todays episode is a discussion on the Ideal Family narrative. We talk about how the Christian belief system that we experienced created an environment where harm was inevitable.

    Some resources for people deconstructing from religious trauma:

    A Little Bit Culty with Sarah and Nippy.
    Lalich Center
    BITE model (freedomofmind.com)
    Exvangelical Podcast Series - Apple Podcasts
    Considering terminating your parental rights for adoption? Please first consider contacting:

    Home - Saving Our Sisters (savingoursistersadoption.org)
    (20+) Facebook The Family Preservation Project
    (20+) Facebook Mothers of Loss to Adoption

    There are a number of support spaces online for adopted people and for mothers of loss and other family members. You can also find adoptees and mothers on IG, Tiktok and other social media platforms. Quality varies. We encourage people to reach out to form support systems. Reading and listening for a while can be helpful in determining if a space aligns with your needs.

    A few to be aware of:

    Adoptees Connect

    Adoptees United

    Adoptee Rights Law

    The Adoption Trauma Network

    Intercountry Adoption News

    You can find lists of resources on my Wordpress blog page also.

    The Adoption Files – A place to talk about the emotional and physical side of accessing our identities, in addition to talking about the laws regarding access to our documents. (wordpress.com)
    You can reach out to Dani Joy at
    Deconstructing Adoption: One Mother’s Road | by Dani Joy, mother and homesteader | Adoptere: Auditing the Narrative | Jul, 2024 | Medium
    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, our opinions. The host is not a therapist or a lawyer or a cult leader.

    Thank you for listening! Please consider rating the podcast . We appreciate feedback.

    1 hr 26 min
  • Braving the National Council for Adoption conference: a conversation with Katie Nelson Burns and Renee Gellin

    Please join me as I talk the National Council for Adoption conference with Renee Gelin, founder of Saving Our Sisters and fellow board member and founder of The Family Preservation Project Katie Nelson Burns.

    We begin our conversation with an overview of the keynote speakers address, and then dive into the first two sessions attended by Katie and Renee. Renee heard about how CPS and DCFS partners with medical providers to keep an eye out for prospects in medical settings. Katie listened as a lawyer who represents Gladney, is a board member for NCFA, and a member of the Association of Adoption Attorneys presented on how agencies should work to protect themselves against disrupted adoptions(contested adoptions).

    I hope to have them back to continue the conversation, as there is much more to learn about how the National Council for Adoption works to promote family severance.

    The host of the podcast is not a lawyer, or an adoption professional, or a board member of any organization. The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, our opinions. They may be informed opinions, but they are still our thoughts on the topics discussed, and we are allowed to have opinions on our lived experiences. If this bothers you, perhaps ask yourself why.

    Thank you to all the listeners! This podcast is for you. Please takbe a moment to rate the show if you can, as this makes the information more widely availale thanks to the lovely algorithms.

    1 hr 30 min
  • Final Thoughts: wrapping up our reveiw of Conceiving Christian America

    Please join the host as they wrap up the review of the book Conceiving Christian America; Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics by Risa Cromer.

    Mentionedin the episode:

    Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics (Anthropologies of American Medicine: Culture, Power, and Practice) - Kindle edition by Cromer, Risa. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
    ‘Scratching their heads’: State lawmakers take a closer look at personhood laws in wake of Alabama ruling - POLITICO
    Mississippi Code § 41-41-191 (2019) - Gestational Age Act; legislative findings and purpose; definitions; abortion limited to fifteen weeks' gestation; exceptions; requisite report; reporting forms; professional sanctions; civil penalties; additional enforcement; construction; severability; right to intervene if constitutionality challenged :: 2019 Mississippi Code :: US Codes and Statutes :: US Law :: Justia
    13 States Have Abortion Trigger Bans—Here's What Happens When Roe Is Overturned | Guttmacher Institute
    The opinion of the host is just that, their opinion. The host is not a therapist, a fertility specialist, or a lawyer. The host is a former evangelical who spent decades in leadership roles, and is a late-discovery, intercountry adopted person with a background in psychology and education.

    Thank you for listening!

    32 min
  • Supreme Appeal: the run-up to the overturning of Roe v Wade

    Please join the host as they review the interlude Supreme Appeal in the book Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Justice by Risa Cromer.

    Mentioned in the episode:

    conceiving christian america - Search (bing.com)
    Planned Parenthood v. Casey - Ruling, Controversy & Legacy (history.com)
    Planned Parenthood v. Casey - Ruling, Controversy & Legacy (history.com)
    June Medical Services LLC v. Russo | Oyez
    The Case in Depth - Center for Reproductive Rights
    The opinions of the host are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer or a fertility specialist.

    Thank you for listening!

    18 min
  • Deconstruction: a conversation with Dani Joy about examining narratives around racism, adoption and faith

    Please jioin me and guest Dani Joy as we begin a conversation about deconstruction, about asking ourselves the hard questions and why doing so is so important. This is the first in a series of conversations with Dani and others about the intersection of adoption and religious trauma.

    Dani Joy is a mother of loss to adoption who has been on a deconstruction journey from narratives about race, adoption and religion. You can hear more about Danis experience on an earlier episode of the podcast.

    https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/IbncUWObGKb

    There are a number of resources available for people who are working to examine the beliefs they hold about the issues mentioned in the podcast. I encourage people to explore media being created by people of color, by adult adoptees and transracial and intercountry adopted people, by parents of loss to adoption, by former foster youth, and by former evangelicals and others who are challenging dominant historical and present day narratives.

    I also encourage people to create support systems as you move forward. Questioning can be scary, but is ultimately rewarding. Humans like to exist in binary systems of thought, and to categorize people and experiences. Doing so evolved as a survival strategy in a different time. Existing in those spaces can be valuable if used in the right context. Utilizing those structures in other contexts can lead to a stifling of creativity and to disconnection with ourselves and with others.

    Why Communication Matters | Psychology Today
    Being Antiracist | National Museum of African American History and Culture (si.edu)
    When Religion Hurts You: Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion - Kindle edition by Anderson, Laura E.. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
    Transracial adoptees struggle to talk to their White parents about race - Washington Post
    Exvangelical (exvangelicalpodcast.com)
    the above resources are inadequate but a place to begin? Please visit The Adoption Files fb page and add links to resources that have helped you or others to navigate deconstruction.

    Thank you for listening!

    1 hr 9 min
  • A Warm Body: They Just Need a Receptive Uterus!

    Please join the host as they discuss the interlude A Warm Body from the book Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics by Risa Cromer.

    Mentioned in the podcast:

    Amazon.com : conceiving christian america
    Spiritual Bypassing:
    Spiritual Bypassing as a Defense Mechanism (verywellmind.com)
    The opinion of the host is just that, their opinion. The host is not a lawyer or a fertility specialist.

    Thank you for listening!

    22 min
  • Disability and embryo "adoption" Part 2 of our discussion of Chapter 4, Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Justice by Risa Cromer

    Please join Lynn, Lorah and I as we continue a discussion of the book Conceiving Christian America. Today we talk a bit more about disability and adoption.

    Joining me is Lynn Grubb, The Adopted Genealogist, and Lorah Gerald, The Adopted Chameleon. They can be found on Facebook, IG and Twitter.

    Mentioned in the show:

    Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics (Anthropologies of American Medicine: Culture, Power, and Practice Book 13) - Kindle edition by Cromer, Risa. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
    What is Disability Justice? - Disability & Philanthropy Forum (disabilityphilanthropy.org)
    There are many articles online that address the intersection of disability and faith. Because I am not anxious to endorse any of them without time to read and consider them carefully, I can only encourage you to explore how the church, and most especially the Evangelical and Pentecostal churches, view and treat disability. My personal experience was an emphasis on praying the disability away; which will be familiar to anyone who has ever attended a faith healing service. This puts a tremendous burden of shame on any disabled person who appears to lack the necessary faith to receive Gods healing. Shame is the predominant theme of most of the churches I encountered between 1984 and 2015. I'd like to say I just had really bad luck with churches(and this may be true on a grand scale) but at least one of these churches was a very well regarded mega church in Colorado Springs.

    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, our opinions. The host and their guests are not lawyers, geneticists, doctors, fertility specialists , yada yada.

    Thanks for listening!

    59 min

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The Adoption files seeks to provide a place for adoptees and allies to discuss the laws preventing adoptees from accessing their identities, and the emotional and physical challenges adoptees face in…

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