The Adoption Files

The Adoption Files

By Ande StanleyScienceSocial Sciences
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The Adoption Files episodes

  • Exploring the Intro to Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics by Risa Cromer.

    Please join Lynn and I as we discuss the Introduction to Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics by Risa Cromer. If you haven't picked up a copy of the book yet, you can order it from Amazon or your local bookseller.

    We try very hard to behave like adults while talking about this very emotional issue. The implications of frozen embryo adoption are profoud for many intersecting communities, as can be seen in the recent law in Alabama, declaring that embryos are persons. We attempt to remain true to Ms. Romers work while also interpreting it through the lens of adopted persons, persons with female bodies, and persons with female children or grandchildren. So buckle up! it may be a bumpy ride.

    Mentioned in the show:

    Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics by Risa Cromer

    Conceiving Christian America (Anthropologies of American Medicine: Culture, Power, and Practice): Cromer, Risa: 9781479818594: Amazon.com: Books
    ART: Assisted Reproductive Technologies
    What is Assisted Reproductive Technology? | Reproductive Health | CDC
    Alabama Supreme Court Decision on Personhood of Embryos
    Alabama embryo ruling: state Supreme Court rules frozen embryos are children. Impacts could be devastating, critics warn | CNN

    Saviourism:Ms. Cromer discusses saviourism in embryo adoption quite extensively. Here this refers to White Christian Nationalist Evangelicals belief that they are divinely mandated to save "frozen orphans" . White Saviourism is an established worldview that postions white people as uniquely situated to save people in marginalized communities. Its a problem.

    Nightlight Adoption Agency: the agency that pivoted to promoting frozen embryos as a part of their prolife ideology and their need for income.

    The conservative math of one agency: 20,000 x 15,000 = 300,000,000

    Baby Scoop Era:

    Baby Scoop Era - Wikipedia
    Storage Wars:
    Watch Storage Wars Full Episodes, Video & More | A&E (aetv.com)

    Suspension of Disbelief:

    Suspension of disbelief - Wikipedia


    Thank you for listening! Please consider giving the podcast a rating so we can get the word out.

    The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist, or fertility specialist. They are, however, a late-discovery, transnational adopted person with an attitude.

    40 min
  • Interview with Katie Nelson Burns of The Family Preservation Project

    Please join me as I speak with Katie Nelson Burns, founder of The Family Preservation Project. Katie is a mother of loss to adoption who is passionately committed to preventing others from applying permanent solutions to temporary problems. As the creator of the project and as a board member of Saving our Sisters, Katie devotes a great deal to helping pregnant mothers in crisis.

    Mentioned on the show:

    The Family Preservation Project:

    The Family Preservation Project – Where Moms and Resources Meet
    Saving our Sisters:
    Home - Saving Our Sisters (savingoursistersadoption.org)
    All You Have is Love:
    Home - (allyouhaveislove.com)
    Georgis Alliance for Adoptee Rights:
    Home | Georgia Alliance for Adoptee Rights (gaallianceforadopteerights.org)
    Georgia Revocation Law:
    Georgia Code § 19-8-26 (2019) - Forms :: 2019 Georgia Code :: US Codes and Statutes :: US Law :: Justia
    Adoptee Access to records, Georgia:
    Georgia | Adoptee Rights Law Center
    TANF:
    Welfare benefits or Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) | USAGov
    PTSD:
    Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic
    Stress Response:
    Protect your brain from stress - Harvard Health
    Support for parents of loss to adoption:


    Concerned United Birthparents
    [Birth Mother] First Mother Forum


    If you are experiencing suicidal ideation, please reach out for support.

    NAMI-National-HelpLine-WarmLine-Directory-3-11-20.pdf
    Thank ou for listening to the show!

    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, their opinions. The host is not a lawyer or a therapist.

    1 hr 21 min
  • Interview with Jennifer Trudeau of Parents Partnership
    Please join me and my guest, Jennifer Trudeau as we talk about her new organization, Parents Partnership. We discuss the need for a networking system for parents and grandparents as they navigate the challenges of caring for children in an increasingly isolating, expensive world.
    Mentioned in the show:
    Parents Partnership:
    Parents Partnership | Sign Up Today!
    (5) Facebook
    https://www.linkedin.com/company/parents-partnership-inc/
    The opinions of the host and their guest are just that, our opinions. The host is not a lawyer or an therapist. Thank you for listening! Please rate the show so that we can get the word out on adoptee rights, family preservation and the laws and systems underpinning the family severance narrative.
    1 hr 1 min
  • Conceiving Christian America: introducing a new series on Snowflake Adoption, with Ande Stanley and Lynn Grubb
    Please join me and my co-host as we explore the book Conceiving Christian America: Embryo Adoption and Reproductive Politics, by Risa Cromer. Snowflake adoptions have been on my radar for years now. We are delighted to begin a conversation on the implications of frozen embryo adoptions from the perspective of adult adopted people, with the added wieght this book provides to the discussion. In light of recent decisions such as the Alabama Supreme Court ruling designating a frozen embryo as a person, its a discussion long past due.
    Mentioned in the podcast:
    Conceiving Christian America (nyupress.org)
    Risa Cromer - College of Liberal Arts - Purdue University
    Snowflake adoption:
    Snowflake children - Wikipedia
    Assisted Reproductive Technology(ART)
    What is Assisted Reproductive Technology? | Reproductive Health | CDC
    Video of President Bush thanking Nightlight Christian Adoption Agency for beginning the frozen embryo adoption system: https://youtu.be/JA4-4ZKpLgU?si=irDJAbVcrCDV5jkp
    Thank you for listening! Please rate the podcast so we can get the word out about adoptee rights, family preservation and the need to change the pervasive family severance narrative.
    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, opinions. The host is not a lawyer, therapist, or fertility specialist.
    29 min
  • Interview with Valerie from Washington Adoption Reunion Movement
    Please join Valerie and me as we talk about WARM, the Washington Adoption Reunion Movement. Warm was established in the 1970s to help adopted people reunite with family.
    Mentioned in the show:
    WARM:
    Front Page - WARM (warmsearch.org)
    206-767-9510; applications available via email
    CUB: Concerned United Birthparents:
    Concerned United Birthparents
    Washington Digital Archives:
    Washington State Archives, Digital Archives
    Post | NCAP (ncap-us.org)
    Genealogy Search - Trace Your Ancestry Online (genealogybank.com)
    Historical Newspapers from 1700s-2000s - Newspapers.com
    Ancestry.com
    23andme.com
    DNA and Genealogy Tools to Grow Your Family Tree | GEDmatch
    Search Angel; a search angel is a person who will help you understand your DNA and genealogy connections for FREE. Please seek referrals and assistance with reputable people, as you are giving them personal information. DNA Detectives on Facebook is a good place to seek information and referrals. They are also a good place to find support.
    Where Adoptee Voices Meet – An Adoptee Centric Connect Group (adopteesconnect.com)
    There are many online support groups available also. One to consider is Adoption Trauma Network and its private group on Facebook. I am including a few other groups, but the best way to find a group is to enter your specific interest along with the words adoptee support in the search bar on facebook. There are also adoptees in IG, Tiktok and X, as well as Substack and other platforms.
    IKAA – Ikaa
    Home - Adoptees with Guatemalan Roots (guateroots.org)
    Intercountry Adoptee Voices on Facebook
    Thank you for listening to the podcast! Please leave a rating so others can find the show.
    The opinions of the host and their guests are just that, opinions. The host is not a lawyer or a therapist.
    1 hr 28 min
  • Interview with Beth Steury
    Please join me as I speak with Beth Steury about adoption in Indiana, and the advocacy being done by NAAP, the National Association of Adoptees and Parents.
    Beth is an Indiana adoptee who can be found at BethSteury.com. She is the treasurer of NAAP, a Search Angel, and a writer.
    Mentioned in the episode:
    Beth Steury, Author – Life Matter Publishing – Because Life Matters
    Health: Vital Records: Adoptions  (in.gov)
    Indiana | Adoptee Rights Law Center
    Home | ARC (adopteerightscoalition.com)
    Home (naapunited.org)
    Homepage - Untangling Our Roots
    Severance Magazine
    Adoption Mosaic
    Concerned United Birthparents(CUB)
    The opinions of the host and the guest are just that, opinions. The host is not a lawyer or a therapist.
    1 hr 20 min
  • Virginia's House Bill 550, with guest Rebecca Ricardo

    Please join me as I speak with adoptee and birthmom Rebecca Ricardo, LCSW about Virginias bill that will restore unrestricted access to Virginia adoptees to their unamended birth certificates. As an adoption professional, Rebecca is very well-versed in the way adoption is carried out in the state of Virginia.

    Mentioned in the episode:

    Virginia House Bill 550:

    VA HB550 | 2024 | Regular Session | LegiScan
    Adoptees United:
    Adoptees United | Identity, Citizenship, Equality
    Adoptee Rights Law:
    Adoptee Rights Law Center PLLC
    Capitol Coalition for Adoptee Rights:
    Capitol Coalition for Adoptee Rights | DC, Maryland, and Virginia (capitoladoptees.org)
    Virginia Adoptee Rights Alliance:
    Virginia Action Alert | Virginia Adoptee Rights Alliance
    Georgia Alliance for Adoptee Rights:
    Home | Georgia Alliance for Adoptee Rights (gaallianceforadopteerights.org)
    Bastard Nation:
    Bastard Nation | The Adoptee Rights Organization (bastards.org)
    Please visit the various websites for more information on Virginias HB 550, as well as information about other legislation currently in the works.

    My apologies for the lack of editing on the episode. I discovered i need to learn a whole new editing program, as the platform I have been learning is no longer available.

    The opinions expressed by the host and their guest are just that, our opinions. The host is not a lawyer.

    Thanks for listening!

    1 hr 7 min
  • Forever is not a guarantee
    Basically, this is me, ranting about how ludicrous the idea of forever homes and forever family is in a system that devalues the child and places all the value in the narrative clung to by prospective and adoptive parents. The sound quality is not great, but I am putting this out there, anyway. My opinions are my own. The laws are on the books that allow unsupervised exchange of children on shady websites like Second Chance Adoption and rehomimg sites on places like Facebook and LinkedIn. The language of forever is easily found on adoption agency websites and in pro adoption literature. Academic papers and books on the trauma of abandonment, rejection and displacement can be found in university libraries, public libraries and online. My opinions are my own, but the information is out there and accessible. Thanks for listening!
    17 min
  • Interview with Gaye Sherman Tannenbaum

    Please join me as I speak with Gaye Sherman Tannenbaum, a New York adoptee and treasurer of the Adoptee Rights Coalition. Gaye is a CPA who worked in forensic accounting. She now applies the skills she acquired as a forensic investigator to helping people with their genealogy.

    Mentioned in the show:

    New York adoption law:

    Obtaining Original (Pre-Adoption) Birth Certificate for Adoptees - New York State Department of Health (ny.gov)

    Illinois Adoption law:

    Birth Certificates Available to Adoptees (illinois.gov)

    Kansas adoption law:

    Obtaining a Before Adoption Birth Certificate | KDHE, KS

    California adoption law:

    Obtain Birth Certificate

    Ca AB 1302:

    Bill Text: CA AB1302 | 2023-2024 | Regular Session | Introduced | LegiScan
    California Adoptee Rights | Adoptees United Inc.
    You can submit an opposition letter to AB 1302 by following the instructions at:
    Senate Committee on Health | Senate Health Committee (ca.gov)


    The opinions expressed by the host and thier guest are just that, opinions. The host is not a lawyer or a therapist.

    1 hr 35 min

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