The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing

In this podcast episode, we delve into the second half of the book "Parental Alienation: A Contemporary Guide for Parents, Practitioners, and Policymakers." We explore common mistakes made by parents during divorce that exacerbate parental alienation. The discussion highlights how societal norms and expectations influence these behaviors, often unintentionally leading to harmful outcomes.

One of the key points emphasized is the need to challenge stereotypes and re-evaluate the rules of engagement surrounding separation and divorce. While some behaviors may seem harmless or natural in the midst of emotional turmoil, they can contribute to a pattern of alienation over time. We also take a deep dive into how the legal system plays into the fact that it can make alienation cases worse.

The episode also explores the role of extended family members in mitigating parental alienation. While it's natural for family members to support their own, the discussion highlights the need to prioritize the child's best interests above personal biases. Through empathy, understanding, and a focus on the child's needs, family members can play a crucial role in supporting healthy parent-child relationships amid divorce and separation.

Overall, this episode offers valuable insights into recognizing, addressing, and preventing parental alienation, promoting healthier outcomes for families navigating divorce and separation.

Professor Ben Hine

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Parental Alienation: A Contemporary Guide for Parents, Practitioners, and Policymakers

Kindra Riber, your co-host of this podcast, was interviewed by the ladies on Obsessed. This podcast focuses on the real struggle of parents who are alienated from their children during divorce.

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Tom, a law enforcement officer for 27 years, shares his harrowing journey through a brutal divorce filled with false accusations of domestic violence. He unveils a shocking statistic: nearly 1 in 3 law enforcement officers facing divorce encounter such accusations, highlighting the depth of manipulation during family disputes.

His narrative delves into the hidden vulnerabilities within law enforcement, revealing the adverse impact of domestic violence allegations on officers' careers and finances. Tom reflects on his transition from enforcer to falsely accused, shedding light on the immediate repercussions officers face in such situations.

Amidst discussions about shared parenting arrangements and the importance of presumption of shared custody, Tom's resilience shines through. He recounts his personal struggles navigating the legal system, from unjust restraining orders to enduring incarceration, all while suspended without pay.

Tom's turning point comes with his involvement in Fathers and Children's Equality (F.A.C.E.), a nonprofit supporting parents through custody battles. His journey from victim to instructor within the organization demonstrates the transformative power of turning adversity into advocacy.

Through Tom's story, listeners gain insights into the complexities of family court, the importance of support networks, and the necessity of advocating for reform within the legal system. His journey serves as a beacon of hope for those facing similar challenges, inspiring them to find strength in solidarity and to transform their suffering into meaningful action.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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In this episode of the podcast, we delve into the complex world of family law with Leslie Alexi, a seasoned family law attorney. With over 250 family law trials under her belt, Leslie has extensive experience in navigating the intricacies of post-dissolution custody battles and parental alienation cases.

Leslie sheds light on the challenges faced by individuals in family court, where exorbitant attorney fees often lead many to represent themselves, known as going pro se. She emphasizes how legal battles can extend throughout a child's upbringing, draining financial resources and leaving parents financially vulnerable.

Moreover, Leslie discusses the prevalence of parental alienation and its prolonged impact on families. She highlights the court's role in exacerbating conflicts through emergency motions and ex parte orders, often depriving individuals of due process.

With a mission to empower individuals navigating the legal system, Leslie has developed a comprehensive program aimed at providing foundational legal knowledge. Accessible through platforms like YouTube and Spotify, her program aims to equip individuals with the tools needed to represent themselves effectively.

To find out more about Leslie and her services, visit https://familylawprose.com/

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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In this insightful podcast, Darlene Taylor shares her journey of co-parenting and the lessons she learned along the way, which she also discusses in her book titled "It's Not About Us: A Co-Parenting Survival Guide to Taking the High Road." 

Darlene emphasizes that successful co-parenting requires a shift in perspective, where decisions are no longer about the individual but about what's best for the children. She highlights the importance of communication, trust, and collaboration between co-parents, even in the face of past hurt and grief from divorce.

She stresses the significance of giving oneself time and space to heal before embarking on the journey of co-parenting. Darlene acknowledges that co-parenting challenges, such as communication breakdowns and navigating conflicting emotions, are common but can be overcome with patience and resilience.

Throughout the podcast, Darlene provides practical advice on handling various aspects of co-parenting, including making decisions together, maintaining positivity, setting boundaries on negative talk about the ex-partner in front of children, and prioritizing the well-being of the children above all else.

She encourages co-parents to lead by example, take the high road, and approach co-parenting with humility and grace. Darlene also touches on the role of friends and family in providing support during the co-parenting journey and the importance of setting a positive example for children.

Overall, Darlene's insights offer valuable guidance for co-parents navigating the complexities of raising children in separate households and emphasize the importance of prioritizing the children's needs and fostering a cooperative co-parenting relationship.

Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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Dr. Bill Burnett and the five-factor model of parental alienation.

Dr. Bill Burnett, a seasoned child psychiatrist, shares his extensive experience in dealing with parental alienation, a phenomenon where a child rejects one parent without valid reasons. The five-factor model, comprising contact resistance, previous positive relationship, absence of abuse or neglect, alienating behaviors by the favored parent, and lack of psychopathology in the child, serves as a diagnostic tool for identifying parental alienation.

In an engaging conversation, Dr. Burnett discusses the 17 primary alienation strategies and emphasizes the importance of recognizing true cases versus false allegations. Acknowledging that parental alienation is a complex issue, Dr. Burnett highlights the need for thorough evaluation, considering all factors simultaneously.

As we navigate through the discussion, we gain valuable insights into the strategies employed by alienating parents, such as bad-mouthing, interference with parenting time, and portraying the other parent as dangerous. Dr. Burnett underlines the significance of distinguishing between normal behaviors in divorce situations and the pervasive, intense patterns indicative of parental alienation.

Join us in "The Aftermath," where we peel back the layers of divorce, custody battles, and family trauma, sharing inspiring stories, expert insights, and actionable tips.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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In this insightful podcast with Professor Ben Hine, an expert in parental alienation and affected personally by parental alienation, shares his personal and professional journey that led to specialization in this challenging field. The discussion covers severe cases initiated by false abuse allegations, leading to legal actions and prolonged child separation, influencing a negative narrative about the alienated parent. Legal implications of using physical discipline are explored, emphasizing the potential chain of events in court. The podcast delves into various theories behind parental alienation and their prevalence. It addresses the impact on children, advocating against blaming them, and discusses strategies for approaching reunification. Extreme cases involving gaslighting are examined, questioning their classification as psychological abuse. Lasting impacts on children and how parental alienation affects targeted parents emotionally, financially, professionally, and in relationships with extended family and new partners are also explored.

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Parental Alienation - A Guide for Parents, Professionals and Policymakers

Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

This has been a Mediacasters Production.

Professor Ben Hine, an expert in parental alienation and affected personally by parental alienation, shares his personal and professional journey that led to specialization in this challenging field. The discussion covers severe cases initiated by false abuse allegations, leading to legal actions and prolonged child separation, influencing a negative narrative about the alienated parent. Legal implications of using physical discipline are explored, emphasizing the potential chain of events in court. The podcast delves into various theories behind parental alienation and their prevalence. It addresses the impact on children, advocating against blaming them, and discusses strategies for approaching reunification. Extreme cases involving gaslighting are examined, questioning their classification as psychological abuse. Lasting impacts on children and how parental alienation affects targeted parents emotionally, financially, professionally, and in relationships with extended family and new partners are also explored.

Connect with Ben

https://drbenhine.co.uk/about/

LinkedIn

Parental Alienation - A Guide for Parents, Professionals and Policymakers

Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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In this compelling podcast episode, the host interviews a marketing expert with over a decade of experience who shares a remarkable journey of overcoming adversity. The guest, a military veteran, retired in 2018 and transitioned into entrepreneurship to pursue her passion for marketing. She expresses a deep commitment to helping teen girls build a supportive community, inspired by her own traumatic experience at 17.

Rocki discusses the challenges of being a single mom and a full-time entrepreneur, highlighting the demanding nature of military service. When asked about balancing these roles, she initially admits not knowing how she did it, eventually delving into her past experiences of abuse and the impact on her life.

The conversation touches on her decision to join the military as a way to escape an abusive relationship, only to face new challenges within the military system. She sheds light on the issue of parental alienation, sharing personal struggles with custody battles and the emotional toll it took on her.

Part of the episode revolves around the book series called "Camouflage Sisters," where she shared her story of domestic violence and military service. The collaboration provided a supportive sisterhood, connecting women who had similar struggles.

The conversation takes an emotional turn as Rocki discusses the painful reality of losing contact with her oldest child due to parental alienation. Despite attempts at reconciliation, communication broke down, and she turned to spirituality for strength.

Rocki's resilience and healing from domestic violence, military service, successful entrepreneurship, and ability to navigate parental alienation makes her a success. It's important to stay grounded amid life's challenges.

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Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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Holidays without our children after divorce is hard. But not impossible. Mick and Kindra share some insights on how you can take care of yourself, create new traditions and be the best parent you can be.

Divorce is hard. And the aftermath of healing is a space of strength.

Hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, want to make sure you are not alone during divorce, parental alienation, and custody battles. They bring real people and real stories to you so you can be equipped to heal yourself, your children and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

This has been a Mediacasters Production.