The Aftermath: The Epidemic of Divorce, Custody and Healing

Heidi Dunstan is a grief expert and talks with Mick and Kindra in this episode about experiencing grief during a divorce, creating a space for grief, and what grief can entail. Plus so much more that we experience everyday, all around us. Heidi shares tips and ways to support yourself and others while grieving with simple, practical ways to grieve with grace. 

The episode precedes her bLU Talk at Harvard University. Heidi has also spoken at various summits, podcasts, and networking sessions. 

You can contact Heidi at: 

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Websitewww.heididunstan.ca

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Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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Parent-child relationships are so important and especially after divorce. In this episode, we discuss the 17 primary strategies of parental alienation, 5-factor Baker model, the research behind it, how the court system addresses parental alienation and why its not listed in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual).

Dr. Baker is a nationally recognized expert in parental alienation, and parent-child relationships, especially children of divorce, and emotional abuse of children. She has a Ph.D. in developmental psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University. She is the author or co-author of 10 books and over 120 academic articles on topics related to children's well-being. 

Amy offers many services including telephone coaching for targeted parents, telephone clinical case consultations, and in-person and virtual trainings for legal and mental health professionals.

Dr. Baker can be reached at: Dr. [email protected] and (201) 321-9874

What is parental alienation?

Parental alienation is the term to describe the overall problem of children being encouraged by one parent - the favored parent -- to unjustly reject the other parent -- the targeted parent. The specific behaviors that they engage in are referred to as parental alienation strategies. Parental alienation often but not always occurs in divorced families.

Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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Esteemed author and advocate David Shubert delves into the heart-wrenching details of Parental Alienation, getting readers to understand, cope and move forward from this painful issue. After experiencing it personally, David has spent years researching and interviewing other parents and finding solutions for families. In this interview with Mick and Kindra, David explains what parental alienation really is, the motivators, the warning signs, who can alienate, how it's connected to mental illness and more.

Shubert sheds light on the intricate dynamics involved in Parental Alienation, where one person attempts to emotionally manipulate and distance a child from the targeted parent, causing lasting emotional scars for the child involved. He bravely portrays the aftermath of these disturbing scenarios, highlighting the devastating effects on both the child and the alienated parent.

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Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

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If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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In today's episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the inspiring journey and insights of Kortnee Graves Alarcon. Kortnee is an accomplished individual with a wealth of knowledge and experience in the legal industry as related to divorce and custody.

Kortnee's expertise and passion have led her to make a significant impact in her endeavors. As we delve into her story, we will uncover the key challenges, advice, and triumphs that have shaped her family and legal knowledge.

Kortnee Graves Alarcon is a renowned legal advocate and mom who has made a name for herself through her exceptional work in the custody and divorce field. With an impressive background and a deep understanding of the legal issues Kortnee has become a go-to expert in her domain.

Through her dedication and perseverance, Kortnee has achieved remarkable success for her own family and has consistently demonstrated her commitment to help others. Her unique insights and innovative approaches have earned her recognition as a thought leader and influencer in the divorce process.

Beyond her professional accomplishments, Kortnee is known for her passion for helping others in the courts and through custody issues. Her multifaceted approach to life has contributed to her well-rounded perspective and has helped shape success in political issues for both her personal and family court endeavors.

In this episode, we will uncover the pivotal moments that have shaped Kortnee's story during her divorce and custody trajectory, the lessons she has learned along the way, and the valuable advice she has to offer others who feel they are alone in their struggle. We will also explore her vision for the future and how she envisions making a lasting impact in the law and politics.

So, without further ado, let's dive into this enlightening conversation with the remarkable Kortnee Graves Alarcon. Get ready to be inspired, motivated, and empowered as we explore her story and uncover the valuable insights she has to share.

Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

To get a copy of our ebook, Survive Your Divorce, providing tips on working through a divorce, handling the children, finances, and healing afterwards, email [email protected]

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Susan Shofer, a certified divorce coach, due to popular demand returns for an unprecedented third episode and engages in a compelling conversation with Mick and Kindra about the profound impact of parental alienation on children and the crucial steps to support them during their adult years after reunification. In this episode she references the 17 ways an alienator can alienate identified by Amy J. Baker and her encounter with Dr. Steven Miller on how to deal with an alienator.

Susan Shofer, a distinguished TedEx speaker, expert in parental alienation, divorce coach, and accomplished author, possesses a wealth of knowledge and experience in this field. You can easily connect with Susan on various social media platforms such as Twitter, Instagram, and Clubhouse by searching for her handle @susanshofer.

Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

For more captivating discussions and valuable insights, visit our podcast page at https://www.podpage.com/the-aftermath-the-epidemic-of-divorce-custody-and-healing-1/.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

Allow us to introduce your hosts, Mick Smith and Kindra Riber, who are fervently fighting to put an end to the excruciating pain caused by divorce, parental alienation, custody battles, and the disintegration of families. Their mission is to equip you with the necessary tools to heal and recover from the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

In this episode, meet Alicia Krasko, an experienced and empathetic speaker who has emerged as a guiding light for stepmoms facing challenges and seeking to build a fulfilling role within their families.

Alicia's journey began just like many others, searching for answers on how to navigate the complexities of stepmotherhood. Determined to find a solution, she embarked on her own "Google University" adventure, hoping to discover the secrets to success. Yet, amidst the sea of free resources, she realized that the scattered advice was like throwing spaghetti at a wall—nothing seemed to stick.

Her frustration and tears soon transformed into a passion to help others facing similar struggles. Over the course of more than a decade, Alicia has honed her expertise, and she now stands as a guiding force for countless stepmoms in their journey.

Alicia's approach is different from the rest; she knows that what stepmoms truly need is not just more advice but clear direction and tailored support. With a wealth of experience and an understanding of the hurdles stepmoms face, she has successfully assisted women in overcoming hopelessness and being overwhelmed. Her focus on building confidence and setting boundaries has proven to be transformative, guiding her clients through their challenges one step at a time.

Today, Alicia stands before us as an empowering speaker, ready to share her wisdom and insights with all who seek to gain confidence and reclaim their place in their blended families. Whether you're a stepmom or someone eager to support and understand this unique journey, Alicia Krasko offers a beacon of hope and a pathway to a brighter and more fulfilling future.

To contact Alicia or find out more, visit:

https://aliciakrasko.com/

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For more captivating discussions and valuable insights, visit our podcast page at https://www.podpage.com/the-aftermath-the-epidemic-of-divorce-custody-and-healing-1/.

If you find yourself entangled in a high-conflict divorce or experiencing the heart-wrenching alienation from your children, we encourage you to share your story with us. Reach out to us at [email protected] and let your voice be heard.

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 Joe Cordell, a renowned attorney based in Missouri, is the Co-Founder of a prominent company specializing in domestic relations. With a nationwide presence spanning 42 states and a team of 300 highly skilled attorneys, Joe primarily focuses on representing male clients, comprising approximately 96% of his clientele. He has established online platforms like dadsdivorce.com, mensdivorce.com, and mensrights.com, providing invaluable resources to individuals navigating divorce and men's rights issues. These platforms offer diverse content, including a YouTube channel featuring "Tips to Be a Better Co-Parent" and a comprehensive guide on "Back to School Co-Parenting."

Insights from Joe Cordell shed light on the challenges faced by men in the legal system. While advocating for gender equality, he emphasizes that the current landscape tilts unfavorably for men. Courts possess the authority to redistribute financial resources, altering the dynamics of divorce proceedings. Many male clients mistakenly assume that their financial capacity guarantees them primary custody. However, the reality is quite different. Today, the process is primarily administrative, involving a division of responsibilities, often resulting in the transfer of financial resources from men to nurturing mothers. Paradoxically, a man's financial success can be a detriment rather than an advantage in custody battles.

The most critical decisions in custody disputes revolve around physical and legal custody. Legal custody entails the authority to make crucial decisions regarding a child's well-being, including health, education, and religion. Achieving a 50-50 parenting arrangement, which may seem straightforward initially, can prove more intricate. Judges may conclude that co-parenting is not in the child's best interest, leading to alternative custody arrangements.

Although sexual abuse was once a weapon frequently employed in divorce cases, its prevalence has diminished compared to the 1990s. However, obtaining an Order of Protection remains an effective means of ensuring safety, with less evidence required for its issuance. In some instances, relying on a guardian ad litem may not yield desired results, as they may exert undue influence over children's treatment.

Through his expertise and dedicated advocacy, Joe Cordell strives to bring awareness to the complexities of divorce and custody battles, fostering an equitable legal environment for all individuals involved.

Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

Learn more about Mick Smith:

Get Mick's Book: Burning America: Amazon.com: Burning America: In the Best Interest of The Children?: 9781956353259: Smith, G Mick: Books

Listen to his podcast: The Doctor of Digital™ GMick Smith, PhD | Podcasts on Audible | Audible.com

Learn More About Kindra Riber:

Meet Kindra | Speak Life Into Strife (kindraspeaks.com)

If you are going through a high-conflict divorce or a custody battle, please reach out to us at:

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In this engaging episode, hosts Kindra Riber and Mick Smith delve into the captivating high conflict custody case of celebrities Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger. Even within the glitz and glamour of Hollywood, divorce and parental alienation cast their dark shadows.

Are celebrities spared from the complexities of divorce, custody battles, and parental alienation? Not even the Hollywood elite can escape the emotional turmoil associated with the custody industry. Ireland Baldwin, the eldest daughter of renowned actor Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, gained notoriety when her father left a voicemail at the tender age of 11, referring to her as a "rude, thoughtless, little pig."

Born on October 23, 1995, Ireland has since embraced her identity as an animal lover and an influential figure, often sharing distressing text messages from her father about her relationships and potential pregnancy on social media. Although she played a younger version of her mother's character in the 2013 film "Grudge Match," her most prominent public relationship to date was with New York rapper Angel Haze, who identifies as pansexual and agender. Following their breakup in 2015, Ireland experienced emotional trauma, seeking solace in rehab as she navigated the darkness of anxiety. Subsequently, she developed a romantic interest in UFC fighter Ronda Rousey, attempting to woo her through Instagram. Presently, Ireland is in a relationship with surfer Noah Schweizer since December 2015.

The strained relationship between Ireland and her father, Alec, is a lasting consequence of the infamous voicemail incident. Alec, who has fathered multiple children with his current wife Hilaria, acknowledges the deep impact it has had on their bond, stating that it is a scab that never heals due to constant external scrutiny. He laments that his daughter has been permanently hurt by the incident.

What exactly did Alec say in the voicemail that caused such turmoil? He unleashed a barrage of criticism, stating that Ireland lacked intelligence and decency as a human being, dismissing her age and labeling her mother as thoughtless. The voicemail further revealed Alec's frustration and embarrassment, vowing not to make a fool of himself again.

Amidst these challenges, signs of hope emerge for Ireland. The yoga enthusiast has found inspiration in her stepmother Hilaria, a yoga professional, as she engages in yoga practices during her vacation in the Bahamas. Ireland openly discusses her body image struggles in lengthy Instagram posts, encouraging herself to work harder. She candidly shares her guilt about eating pizza while posting a video of herself dancing in front of a mirror, wearing a bra and thong.

Before achieving fame, Kim Basinger had a colorful dating history, including relationships with model Tim Saunders, photographer Dale Robinette, and football player Joe Namath. Following her marriage to makeup artist Ron Snyder-Britton on October 12, 1980, Basinger developed agoraphobia after experiencing a panic attack in a health-food store, confining herself to her home for six months. The couple divorced shortly before Christmas in 1989, and Basinger paid Snyder-Britton $9,000 per month in alimony for eight years. Snyder-Britton penned a memoir titled "Longer Than Forever" in 1998, recounting their time together and shedding light on Basinger's affair with Richard Gere, with whom she co-starred in films like "No Mercy" (1986) and "Final Analysis" (1992). During her initial divorce proceedings, Basinger had romantic involvements with hairdresser/producer Jon Peters and musician Prince, who contributed to the Batman soundtrack and produced her unreleased 1989 album "Hollywood Affair."

What is parental alienation? Today we dive deep and the tables are turned when Kindra and Mick are interviewed by investigative reporter, Julie Lokun. Learn their stories of parental alienation and what they are doing to make a difference.

This episode, we switch roles and Julie Lokun interviews Mick and Kindra to explore their stories of parental alienation in more depth and their knowledge on the subject.

I am absolutely thrilled to tell you about Kindra Riber, an exceptional legislative advocate who tirelessly fights for the rights of children and parental access to their children. With boundless passion and unwavering dedication, she channels her energy into battling injustice from every angle. Kindra Riber fearlessly speaks out against inequality in family court. Her efforts have not only shed light on important family court issues but also ignited transformative awareness during custody and parental alienation. 

Additionally, I can hardly contain my excitement about G. Mick Smith's extraordinary book titled Burning America. This impactful novel is a profound indictment of the village court landscape that has shaped family court decisions and harmed children. Smith dissects key scenarios and extraordinary challenges that prevail in family court in order to prompt readers to critically reflect on our present corrupt system. 

The combination of these two remarkable figures—Kindra Riber's passionate advocacy work and G. Mick Smith's enlightening book—ensures that their contributions will forever leave an indelible mark on family court as we strive towards a more just world for America's children.

Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

To get a copy of our ebook, Survive Your Divorce, providing tips on working through a divorce, handling the children, finances, and healing afterwards, email [email protected]

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Mike Todrzak is a songwriter and has dealt with the tragedy of losing his daughter to parental alienation. His gripping, emotional story will touch your heart and how he has turned his tragedy over to God's healing grace. 

Mike wants other people who are going through this tragedy to know they are not alone. This is evil and we can do something about it. We need to stand up and say this is wrong. Let's do better for our children.

"The focus is how to heal from trauma and how God has helped me. How I parent through a cell phone. How I handle alienation from my child. How I balance the needs of my other special needs daughter, the alienated child, my job, and life. The negative impact separating a child or children from a father."

Learn more about your hosts Mick Smith and Kindra Riber. They are waging the war on ending the pain of divorce, parental alienation, custody battles and the break-up of families. Their purpose is to give you the tools on how to heal in the aftermath of family trauma and drama.

To get a copy of our ebook, Survive Your Divorce, providing tips on working through a divorce, handling the children, finances, and healing afterwards, email [email protected]

This has been a Mediacasters Production.