The Art & Skill of Coaching: Get any client any result using trauma-informed coaching strategies

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  • More Clients Won't Fix Your Coaching Business

    Most coaches believe the key to success is more clients, more sales, and more revenue.

    But what if that focus is actually what's keeping your business stuck?

    In this episode, Jess DeMarchis breaks down why client results—not client volume—are the true driver of sustainable and scalable success in a coaching business.

    You'll learn:

    • Why focusing only on marketing and sales creates instability

    • The real metric that determines long-term success as a coach

    • How client results lead to retention, referrals, and revenue

    • The difference between building a business and building a valuable product

    • Why investing in your coaching skill set creates the highest ROI

    If you want a coaching business that grows without constant hustle, this episode will change how you measure success—and how you build it.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    8 min
  • Coaches vs Therapists: The Truth No One Is Saying

    Therapy vs coaching has become one of the most debated and misunderstood topics in the personal development industry.

    In this episode, Jess DeMarchis, licensed therapist and trauma-informed coach, breaks down the real difference between therapy and coaching, why the line between them is often blurred, and what both coaches and clients need to understand to stay safe and effective.

    You'll learn:

    • Why coaching and therapy overlap more than people admit

    • The key differences in training, regulation, and scope

    • How to identify when a client is no longer appropriate for coaching

    • The risks of untrained coaching in trauma and mental health

    • Practical guidelines to protect both you and your clients

    This episode is essential for coaches who want to operate with integrity, skill, and confidence and for anyone trying to decide whether they need therapy, coaching, or both.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    10 min
  • Stop getting friend zoned as a coach

    If you struggle with client's rescheduling, missing payments, not renewing or ghosting you- It is not a client problem, that's a coach problem. And all those issues stem from the same thing, you've been friend zoned as a coach. In today's episode, I break down why this happens and share my biggest 3 tips on how to stop it immediately.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    10 min
  • You're Busy, But You're Broke: Why Coaches Confuse Being Booked With Building a Business

    You're showing up, you're coaching, you're staying on schedule, and somehow you're still scrambling every time a client doesn't renew. That's not a coaching problem. That's a business problem.

    In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between working in your business versus working on your business, and I'm sharing the exact framework I use every quarter in what I call my CEO Weekends to step off the hamster wheel and lead my business like the CEO I actually am.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    9 min
  • High-Achieving vs. Overfunctioning: How to Tell the Difference and Why It Matters for Trauma Survivors in Coaching

    Description: You call it ambition. But what if some of what you've been labeling as high-achieving is actually overfunctioning, a trauma response that's been running your career, your relationships, and your body?

    In this episode, I break down the difference between genuine high achievement and trauma-driven overfunctioning, share the research behind it, give you concrete examples of how overfunctioning actually shows up, and teach you one clean, simple tool to start shifting it.

    My 1:1 coaching schedule closes in April, link to book a consult is in the show notes.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    13 min
  • From Panic Attacks to Promotion: What Trauma-Informed Coaching Actually Does (A Real Client Story)

    Description: If you've done therapy, read the books, and still feel stuck, this episode is for you. I'm walking you through a real client story: Dani, a VP of Marketing who came to me with panic attacks, boundary issues, and a life she was performing instead of living. In 12 weeks, everything changed. I'm sharing exactly what we did, why it worked, and the one thing most coaching misses for high-achieving trauma survivors. Plus, my 1:1 coaching schedule closes in April and doesn't reopen until fall. If you've been curious about working together, now is the time to learn more.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    12 min
  • If You're Successful But Exhausted — Listen to This

    If you're a high-achiever whose income has plateaued, your nervous system may be the bottleneck.

    In this episode, I break down why unresolved trauma — not strategy, not time management — quietly caps income, impact, delegation, and leadership capacity.

    You'll learn: • Why hyper-independence works… until it doesn't • How overfunctioning becomes a trauma response • Why insight alone doesn't create regulation • The difference between coping and expanding capacity • What it actually takes to scale from safety instead of survival

    I'm also sharing the details of my three-month, one-on-one trauma-informed coaching container designed specifically for ambitious individuals who want to increase income and impact without increasing stress.

    This isn't about slowing down.

    It's about cleaning up the nervous system patterns that are limiting your next level.

    If you're ready to stop surviving your success and start leading from regulation, this episode will show you what that looks like.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    11 min
  • Heartbreak, Lawsuits, and IVF — And My Biggest Business Quarter Yet Life Blew Up — My Business Didn't. Here's Why.

    Last year, my life blew up.

    Trial. Engagement. Move. Breakup. IVF.

    And… my business didn't collapse.

    In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I regulated my nervous system in 21 days during one of the most destabilizing seasons of my life — and why my income, health, and leadership didn't suffer.

    We'll talk about: • What actually happens to your brain under stress • Why high-achievers regress during crisis • The trauma-informed steps I took to stabilize fast • How to expand capacity instead of just cope • Why systems and regulation protect your revenue

    This isn't about powering through.

    It's about building a nervous system that can hold pressure without sabotaging success.

    If you want to lead, earn, and grow — even during hard seasons — this episode will change how you think about resilience.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    17 min
  • Why Your Success Feels Exhausting — And How to Increase Your Income and Impact Without Working More

    You're capable of more: More income. More impact. More leadership.

    So why do you feel tapped out?

    In this episode, I break down why high-achieving founders, leaders, and entrepreneurs hit a growth ceiling — not because they lack strategy or time or don't work hard enough, but because they're scaling from survival mode.

    We'll talk about: • Why overfunctioning works… until it doesn't • The nervous system science behind burnout

    • How trauma patterns cap your revenue and leadership capacity • Why slowing down is the fastest way to scale • How to grow your business from safety instead of stress

    If you want to increase your income and impact without increasing your exhaustion, this episode will reframe everything.

    1-1 Trauma-Informed Coaching: www.chatwithjess.com

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    16 min
  • How Indecision Is Costing You Money, Energy, and Opportunities

    You're waiting for clarity before you decide.

    But what if clarity actually comes after the decision?

    In this episode, Jess breaks down the psychology of indecision, why overthinking feels productive but isn't, and how confirmation bias works in your favor once you choose.

    You'll learn how to build decision-making capacity instead of waiting to "feel ready," how to coach clients out of dilemmas and into options, and why decisiveness is one of the most underrated leadership skills in coaching and business.

    If you've been stuck between yes or no, now or later, stay or go — this episode will help you move NOW!

    Learn more about The Art & Skill of Coaching certification:

    https://www.jessicademarchis.com/the-art-skill-of-coaching

    Stay in Touch:

    www.jessicademarchis.com

    IG @jess_demarchis_coaching

    15 min

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If you're a coach, therapist, or individual interested in personal growth who wants to create real client transformation, not just surface-level change, this podcast is for you.