The Be Ruthless Show

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  • The Power of Prayer

    I’m perplexed - and so unbelievably grateful. On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss the power of prayer - because somehow, Dallas’s tumor disappeared. 

    The oncologist is equally perplexed. 

    We’ll be discussing all of these healing modalities at Griefhab’s 3rd annual Healing Together Through the Holidays. And the pre event begins today. 

    If you haven’t registered - this should make you consider. The power of prayer. Affirmations. Community. Connection. Thank you all ❤️ 


    Register today for Healing Together Through the Holidays here:⁠

    https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1948742173299?aff=oddtdtcreator⁠

    You can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Family:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday! Including Thanksgiving!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Preorder Griefhab's 2026 Awareness Calendar :

    https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/ticketing/griefhabs-shop


    44 min
  • Do it for Dallas

    I can find 100 reasons that I wanted to stay under the covers this morning. I can give you one reason I didn’t.

    On today's episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss finding our purpose in the pain. Finding our why. Griefhab's 3rd Annual Healing Together Through the Holidays is less than 2 weeks from now. Exactly two weeks from now, Lil Bo's (in Traverse City) will be hosting Benefit Bingo - in honor of National Grief Awareness Week.

    I'll be Do(ing) it for Dallas - who is dealing with a mass that we're seeing a specialist for next week. Join us - and Do it for You!


    Register today for Healing Together Through the Holidays here:⁠

    https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1948742173299?aff=oddtdtcreator⁠

    You can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Family:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]



    26 min
  • The Me First Movement : Healing Ruthlessly

    We’re 3 weeks away from Griefhab’s 3rd Annual Healing Together Through the Holidays Event - in honor of National Grief Awareness Week. And as I’ve been planning this week of interactive healing, LIVE in Traverse City, Michigan (streaming virtually everywhere) it’s occurred to me that this event really shouldn’t ever end. 

    Because there’s not enough grief or mental health support in this world. 

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I share The Me First Movement: Healing Ruthlessly - Griefhab”s year of healing. If you know me - you know I come up with these things pretty whimsically - FOR YOU. Tune in to learn all about how you will continue connecting with everyone you meet at the event, including the speakers.


     And register today for Healing Together Through the Holidays

    here:⁠

    https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1948742173299?aff=oddtdtcreator⁠

    You can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Family:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    30 min
  • Healing Happens Together

    It's ALLLLLL Happening. It’s why I moved back to Michigan. Griefhab has SO much going on - and it all starts this December with our 3rd Annual Healing Together Through the Holidays Event.

    RETREAT STYLE!!!

    On today's episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I share our venue, sponsors, and more! TICKETS ARE AVAILABLE and beds are limited!

    Join us for National Grief Awareness Week. An interactive healing event featuring all kinds of loss - and all different ways to heal!

    Tune in for all the details!

    And register for Healing Together Through the Holidays here:

    ⁠https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1948742173299?aff=oddtdtcreator⁠


    You can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Family:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]



    36 min
  • Embracing Change


    Bumps in the road. Hiccups. Changes can cause all kinds of confusion. They also lead to truly amazing things. Caterpillars become butterflies. Storms lead to rainbows. 

    But the in between can be stressful! 

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss embracing change - and I discuss Griefhab’s 3rd Annual Healing Together Through the Holidays as an example!! 

    This year is going to be RETREAT STYLE!! 

    So thank you for understanding that the venue and tickets will be announced next week. LIVE!! Tune in today for all of the other excitement - no matter where you are, because we’re only 12 minutes away from the airport! So anyone, anywhere can join us!! 

    Scholarships available!! 


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Pre register for Healing Together Through the Holidays 

    https://mailchi.mp/6ba0911aecfb/92dv5u9dkj

    49 min
  • Seasons Change

    If you’ve been feeling more tired, foggy, or emotional lately — you’re not imagining it. Science shows that seasonal changes can intensify grief, depression, and anxiety. A University of Michigan study found that on high-pollen days, suicide deaths rose by 7.4%, and among those already struggling with mental health, that number climbed to 8.6%.

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I unpack how physical triggers like allergies, shorter days, and disrupted sleep impact emotional healing — and how to care for your mind and body when both are carrying the weight of grief.


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Pre register for Healing Together Through the Holidays 

    https://mailchi.mp/6ba0911aecfb/92dv5u9dkj

    36 min
  • Warning : This Platform May Harm Your Menu Health

    California just passed a first-of-its-kind law requiring social media platforms to display mental health warning labels for users under 18 — a move that’s being compared to cigarette warnings.


    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I break down what the law really does, whether it will make a difference, and what actually helps when it comes to protecting young minds.


    This isn’t just about teens — it’s about all of us learning to set boundaries in a world that profits from our attention.


    Because awareness is a start — but action changes everything. 


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Pre register for Healing Together Through the Holidays 


    https://mailchi.mp/6ba0911aecfb/92dv5u9dkj

    39 min
  • Let's Be Real

    It’s not only Taco Tuesday, it’s National Taco Day - did you know??? It’s also Mental Illness Awareness Week, National Inner Beauty Day (a day supporting human trafficking survivors) and Ageism Awareness Day. 

    And so many people hide their stories. 

    On SEASON EIGHT’S first episode, I discuss why it’s important today more than ever to be REAL. In a world with Amazon orders available on our tv's now 😳 and social media portraying everything pretty and horrific - why do so many people “fake it until they make it?” Why is saying “help” so difficult?

    Tune in for the conversation and the tools! 
    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    Pre register for Healing Together Through the Holidays 

    https://mailchi.mp/6ba0911aecfb/92dv5u9dkj

    44 min
  • A World At War

    As we remember 9/11, I can’t help but feel like this world hasn’t come very far. 

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I honor those lost on 9/11 - as well as those lost yesterday.

    Charlie Kick was fatally shot while addressing an audience on the campus of Utah Valley University in Orem, Utah yesterday while a student at Evergreen High School in Colorado wounded two classmates before taking his own life. 

    This is the world we live in.

    There are countless other tragedies that didn’t make the news, and while guns are the issue, hate is the root of the problem. 

    Tune in to hear an important conversation about doing better, communicating better, walking away better, apologizing better, disagreeing better, and just being better.


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    Pre register for Healing Together Through the Holidays 

    https://mailchi.mp/6ba0911aecfb/92dv5u9dkj

    37 min
  • The Cost Of Holding It In

    We don’t learn in school how to talk about what’s bothering us—but we should. Holding things in doesn’t just disappear; it builds until it comes out sideways. Maybe it’s an argument, a mistake at work, or an explosion years later. 

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss why bottling emotions is so damaging, what it does to our health and relationships, and how we can start expressing ourselves in healthier ways.


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    33 min

About The Be Ruthless Show

From the publisher's feed

The Be Ruthless Show is a place where we’ll be having the conversations other people don’t. The conversations other people won’t. In order to do that, I’m going BIG and BOLD. I’m anxious, I’m proud, and I’ll shout it for the world to hear.