The Be Ruthless Show

The Be Ruthless Show

Download on the App Store

The Be Ruthless Show episodes

  • Ditch Your Sh*t

    Chaos comes in all forms - 

    Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show discusses he importance of decluttering your emotional chaos! We’re talking Ditch Your Sh*t! With Kate Evans! 

    Kate is a psychologist and decluttering coach who helps people overcome the mental and emotional barriers to clutter in their lives and homes to create sustainable change. Her first book Ditch Your Sh*t: Declutter Your Mindset to Declutter Your Home will be out this October. Kate lives in Chicago where she maintains her own sustainable life and home with daily routines and yoga principles. She lives with her husband and two calico cats, none of whom will allow her to psychoanalyze them or declutter their toys. 

    Connect with Kate at 

    soulfulspacecoaching.com

    https://www.facebook.com/share/16BYNu6v2c/?mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://

    www.instagram.com/katesevans.coaching?igsh=enQ0MDU4dWYwNnA2


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    s[email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    33 min
  • Growth Looks Good On You

    Growth comes in many forms - some of it consciously, some unconsciously, and some even comes from others. 

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss  how even the messy parts - the rumors, the gossip, the hate — can actually fuel growth. Without realizing it, those who try to tear us down are the very people building our resilience, patience and strength. 

    Because growth doesn't always come wrapped in pretty packages. Sometimes it comes from the fire, the struggle, and yes — even from the haters.


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    36 min
  • When the System Fails

    What happens when the very system meant to protect us fails instead?

    Neglect?

    Stigma?

    Financial Inequality?

    On today's episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss what ti di when the system fails - because professionals make mistakes, too! Me included!
    Remember that you can reach out anytime:s

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    Get your FREE tickets to the 2nd annual VISIBLE event at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1564332794499?aff=oddtdtcreator





    30 min
  • Nothing is Safe

    Today, I’m talking about something that no one wants to think about—but everyone needs to hear. Because what you don’t know CAN hurt you. And in 2025, addiction doesn’t look like what it used to. Even prescription pills like Adderall are being laced. Even household items are being misused. If you think addiction ‘couldn’t happen in your house,’ I need you to listen harder!


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]


    Learn more about the 2nd annual VISIBLE event at samantharuth.com/events


    34 min
  • Traverse City Strong

    This isn't your typical episode of The Be Ruthless Show. I'm not coming to you just as your host or as a Psychologist. I'm speaking not just as a gruef expert, but as a member of the Traverse City Community.

    Yesterday something unimaginable happened at our local Walmart. First responders swiftly apprehended the suspect and saved the eleven victims with bravery and skill.

    This episode is for those who were there. For those who weren’t but were also shaken. For all of us trying to navigate this world where going to the store turns into a tragedy. And for the first responders who run towards tragedy while everyone is running away.


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:
    [email protected]
    Join the Griefhab Community:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7
    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!
    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6
    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:
    [email protected]
    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!
    [email protected]
    Join us at Meet Griefhab:
    <https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1427977100949?aff=oddtdtcreator

    34 min
  • Medicate Me

    Overmedicated. Undermedicated. Afraid to be medicated. There is so much noise around the topic of medication, it’s no wonder there’s confusion.

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I'm diving into a topic that desperately needs more open, honest conversation: medication and mental health!

    Whether you’re taking medication, considering it, or love someone who is - this episode is for you. We're going to break the stigma, talk about real experiences , and explore how to work WITH your doctor to make empowered decisions for your well being. No shame. No judgment. Just truth!


    Remember that you can reach out anytime:
    [email protected]


    Join the Griefhab Community:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7


    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!
    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6


    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:
    [email protected]


    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!
    [email protected]

    38 min
  • Fighting Fairly

    What if the way you fight is doing more damage than what you're fighting about?
    We live in a world where we’re not taught that fighting fairly is a thing. We’re not always going to agree, but that doesn’t mean we can’t get along. Communication doesn’t equal confrontation!
    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I educate listeners on the difference between healthy conflict and destructive communication - especially in the digital age. I offer tools to fight fairly while preserving dignity, integrity, and relationships.
    Remember that you can reach out anytime:
    [email protected]
    Join the Griefhab Community:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7
    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!
    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6
    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:
    [email protected]
    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!
    [email protected]

    42 min
  • Big Things Come In Small Packages


    400 Episodes. Little ‘ol ME!!! 

    It doesn’t seem possible. 

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss celebrating how far you’ve come - versus focusing on how far there is to go! 
    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    46 min
  • Letters to Zachary

    July is National Bereaved Parents Awareness Month - an invisible awareness month that everyone should know about!

    On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, bereaved parent Jason Tuttle shares his story of living with pain and surviving loss.

    Jason is a married father of two kids with multiple mental and physical disabilities (some rare). He was a Stay-at-Home Dad for 12 years until his son suddenly and unexpectedly passed away from issues related to his needs on 01/28/22. Since the day his son passed, Jason created a website, FB blog, and community (Letters To Zachary) on grief that details his raw, unfiltered and open grief journey from a male's/father's perspective. It is a place where men can feel vulnerable enough to share their emotion, empower women to help the grieving men in their lives and see that it is OK to share vulnerability through Jason's example. Jason's community is open to allgrievers.

    Connect with Jason at www.LettersToZachary.com

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552174684952I

    https://www.instagram.com/letterstozachary2022/

    https://www.tiktok.com/@letterstozachary2022

    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]


    45 min
  • Lucky Number Seven

    Dallas is 7 🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾

    Do you celebrate the day your pets were born or the day you rescued each other? 

    We celebrate both!

     It’s amazing how quickly this little nut changed our world. Sassy and I were in agony after losing Jim. Dallas literally brought joy, happiness, and life back into our home and hearts. 

    Because Grief Hurts!

    Emotionally. Physically. And spiritually. 

    On today’s Episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss 7 ways (in honor of Dallas!) to lessen the physical pain of grief - so you’re better equipped to handle the overwhelming emotional pain. 

    Remember that you can reach out anytime:

    [email protected]

    Join the Griefhab Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/griefhab7

    Join Team Ruthless - for multiple support groups every week and EVERY holiday!

    https://forms.gle/Zw639P7htwg2qFDH6

    Become a Faces of Grief: Surviving Pet Loss Author:

    [email protected]

    Ask me about Griefhab On Demand!

    [email protected]

    55 min

About The Be Ruthless Show

From the publisher's feed

The Be Ruthless Show is a place where we’ll be having the conversations other people don’t. The conversations other people won’t. In order to do that, I’m going BIG and BOLD. I’m anxious, I’m proud, and I’ll shout it for the world to hear.