"Be More Curious"

Curiosity isn’t just a personality trait—it’s a tool for liberation. This week, we’re diving into why being more curious is essential for challenging the oppressive systems that shape our world.

First, we take you behind the scenes of our decision to leave the U.S. and why Portugal became our new home. Then, we break down some of the week’s wildest headlines—Zelensky at the White House, and Ben Shapiro’s outrageous call to pardon Derek Chauvin (yes, really).

But the heart of this episode is a bigger conversation: Why does curiosity matter in the fight against white supremacy? How does asking better questions help us disrupt harmful narratives? And what happens when we refuse to accept the status quo?

Get ready for an episode that will challenge you, maybe even make you uncomfortable—but most of all, inspire you to be more curious.

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 We’re kicking off a brand-new season with a fresh structure, new ways for you to engage, and even bigger conversations! And what better way to start than by tackling the question we get asked the most—Are all white people racist? Buckle up, because we’re diving into the real meaning behind this question, the reactions it sparks, and what it reveals about race in America. Plus, we break down the week’s biggest headlines, share the personal stories that made us realize it was time to take a break from America, and introduce exciting new ways for you to be part of the conversation. You don’t want to miss this one! 

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This week, we’re talking about the myth of self-sufficiency and why community matters more than ever. From recent headlines to personal reckonings, we dig into how toxic individualism is making life harder for everyone—and what we can do about it.

Also, are we getting a divorce? Maybe. Maybe not. Either way, we’re working through it on the mic. And finally, the age-old debate: Man Flu vs. Woman Flu—who actually suffers more? (Spoiler: One of us has thoughts.)

Tune in for real talk, real laughs, and maybe even some real solutions.

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In this special Valentine’s Day episode, we dive into the intersection of joy, resistance, and the state of the world. From the Super Bowl halftime show to the challenges of celebrating love amid societal chaos, we explore how we can continue to celebrate joy, connection, and humanity when white supremacy is actively tearing the country apart.

We’ll reflect on the ways that the media, politics, and cultural events like the Super Bowl can distract or unify us, and how we can harness the power of love and celebration in the face of such challenges. How do we hold space for joy while acknowledging the systems of oppression that threaten it?

Join us for a candid conversation on how we navigate these contradictions—keeping love at the center, even when the world feels like it’s on the brink. Let’s explore how joy can be a radical act in a time when the stakes are higher than ever.

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This week, we've seen headlines that prove—yet again—how silence protects harm and power.  These moments aren’t just happening in the news; they’re happening in your workplace, your community, and your home too.

Too often, people choose comfort over accountability. They stay quiet when:

🚨 A Black colleague is interrupted in a meeting.
🚨 A racist “joke” lands, and everyone nervously laughs.
🚨 A qualified Black employee is overlooked for a promotion—again.

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t want to make this awkward”—this episode is for you. Because avoiding discomfort doesn’t make racism disappear. It just makes it easier for it to thrive.

Listen now wherever you get your podcasts, and let’s get uncomfortable for the right reasons.

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We had some audio issues this episode, but... Trump’s first week back in power is already showing us exactly what we feared—escalating authoritarianism, attacks on marginalized communities, and a playbook straight out of history’s darkest chapters. We break down what’s happening and what we need to be paying attention to. Then, we shift to Black History Month in the workplace—where performative allyship runs wild, corporate statements fall flat, and real change is often nowhere to be found. Why do so many companies get it wrong? And what does true accountability look like? Tune in for an unfiltered conversation on politics, race, and the workplace.

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In this powerful episode, we explore Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s legacy through the lens of our CACTI model, focusing on Compassion vs. Politeness. We discuss how Dr. King’s approach to justice and humanity emphasized the courage to act with true compassion—speaking hard truths, challenging the status quo, and dismantling systems of oppression.

Join us as we unpack the difference between compassion, which seeks meaningful change, and politeness, which often prioritizes comfort over progress. We reflect on what Dr. King’s teachings mean for us today and how we can lead with compassionate courage in our lives and workplaces.

🎙️ Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation about the transformative power of compassion, the perils of politeness, and the work that still lies ahead.

#MLKDay #CompassionNotPoliteness #CACTIModel #LeadWithHumanity

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In this reflective and heartfelt episode, Ben and Jamesa look back on the year 2024, sharing meaningful moments, personal growth, and lessons learned. Through thoughtful questions and candid conversation, they revisit the highs, lows, and everything in between that defined their year together. Tune in for an inspiring journey through the past year, filled with insights and a touch of nostalgia.

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 In this episode, we dive into the CACTI model—Curiosity, Accountability, Compassion, Transparency, and Insight—and explore how these principles can help you shift from control to connection in both your professional and personal life. We’ll unpack the opposites of each principle, such as Compassion vs. Politeness and Curiosity vs. Judgment, to show how small shifts can lead to profound changes in relationships and leadership. Whether you're striving to build trust at work or deepen personal connections, this episode offers actionable steps and reflections to guide your journey toward authentic engagement and meaningful connection. 

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 This holiday season, let’s trade the stress of keeping up with traditions for the joy of slowing down and connecting more deeply. In this episode, Ben and Jamesa get real about choosing connection over control this holiday season, from ditching toxic positivity and embracing real emotions to shifting focus from consumerism to authentic connection. We’ll explore how slowing down, being intentional, and creating space for inclusion can transform your celebrations into something truly meaningful. Join us for an honest, thoughtful, and heartwarming conversation about making the holidays a time of healing and togetherness! 

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