Bomber and Belle give a recap of their experiences at Secret Hideaways in Florida. They also talk about the greatness of portraying true Black culture in porn and share why they will be ending the show this year.

As part of our Black N Sex, Black History Month series we are happy to feature Black & Kinky DC, who host events, educational classes and safe spaces for BIPOC individuals in the kink community.

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As part of our Black N Sex, Black History Month series we are happy to feature Gabrielle Alexa Noel.

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Full table talk episode on Polyamory: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=904644817023031

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In this episode we sit down with Aspen, a sexy erotic dancer, to talk about pole dancing.

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Heartfeltmovement.com

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We are honored to have Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses on the show to talk about their expo of Black sex positive content creators, educators and performers. They discuss some of the work they do in providing critical opportunities for collaboration in the Black community in Phoenix AZ.

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Topic: Belle and Bomber talk about their sexy highlights of 2022. But this year had some bullsh*t come with it too.

Mentions

Bulls & Queens Podcast

Livin the Suite Life podcast

Wanderlust Swingers

Two hot wives

Check out our Black n Sex series of 2022:

Black Queens Vs. Black Bulls featuring Bulls and Queens Podcast

Duchess Cashmere

Meshai from Expansive Connection

Jehn from Monogamish Pod

JA from the I Hearddd podcast

Belle and Bomber talk about their recent experiences attending two very different Lifestyle Halloween Parties. They also meet up with a newbie couple and realize how rusty they are in popping cherries. Bomber talks about how Black lifestyle parties they have attended have not taken advantage of the limitless Black cultural themes available. The sequel to the classic Black Panther was dope and we talk about how Lupita and Angela out did themselves in terms of acting and overall sexiness.

Mentions:

Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/

Two hot wives: https://2hotwives.com/2hotwives-podcast/ep/

Coastal lovers: https://www.instagram.com/coastalloversdmv/

Wanderlust swingers: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

In this episode the Belle and Bomber discuss their thoughts on why so many Black veterans and military personnel are in the lifestyle. We talk to ATL and Chi, who both retired from the Airforce, on their lifestyle journey.

Hitlist

Tanerelle: https://tanerelle.com/

Steve Toussaint: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0869750/?ref_=tt_cl_t_9

Mentions:

Duchess Cashmere: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cashmere-room/id1519835706

Swinging Flamingos: http://www.swingingflamingos.com/

Urban Swingers: https://www.instagram.com/urbanswingersxls/?hl=en

Topic of the day:

Bomber and Belle share reasons why people dont shoot their shot in the lifestyle.

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Tati Grabrielle: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm6616259/

Tyler lepley: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4495842/

Mentions

The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362

Swinger university: https://swingeruniversity.com/

Monogamish Marriage: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-monogamish-marriage/id1586549659

Duchess Cashmere: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cashmere-room/id1519835706

Swinger help: https://swingershelp.com/swinging-tips-for-shy-women/

Average Swingers: http://www.averageswingers.com/as151-shroomed/

Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/

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Show notes—

Topic of the day: Swinger tunnel vision, multi-orgasmic men and why Black people don’t like “c*ck”

If only we all had the attention scale and span of the Belle. The Bomber certainly does not and he knows he is not alone. Swinger tunnel vision is when you are focused on a single experience or goal in a way that blocks reason, caution and the recognition of alternative opportunities. The Benefit is that you can really get what you want out of a lifestyle experience that you tried really hard to get. The cost is that you may come off rude and may close yourself off from other experiences that could have turned out so much better.

Hitlist:

Usher: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up8ODGFWgFg

May Calamawy: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2790595/ From Moon KNIGHT not Moon Light like I said on the show.

Mentions

Tribe Chat: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCosg3Ug0sTKTF8XW9nmhLNw

The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362

Lovers and Friends Podcast on Male Egos: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS85SGdqTV9ycg/episode/ZTRkNGU0MDEtYmIxMi00NzJiLWJjYmUtNjQ4OWViNDc0ZTVj?hl=en&ved=2ahUKEwi-46Hgv_34AhUsEmIAHWWED6gQjrkEegQIAxAI&ep=6

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