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References

The Naked Relationship Podcast http://thenakedrelationship.com/

Monogamish Pod https://monogamishpod.com

Urban Swingers https://www.instagram.com/urbanswingersxls/?hl=en

Facebook Fuckshit: Confessing same sex fantasy vs. Death

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Show notes

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Podcasts referenced:

Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/

Livin the suite life podcast:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtJtcyhQvtAedjaWAIiDFbw

Average Swingers:

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Expansive connection:

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Casual Swingers:

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Colette in the news: https://youtu.be/JZgObYNhryo.

Hitlist

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Topic of the day: PCAP encore Recap!

Facebook Fuckshit: Homicide by face sitting

Bombers Bougie Broadcast: Black folks who aren't just interested in Black spaces

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Podcasts referenced:

Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/

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Hitlist

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Podcasts referenced:

Bedroom Bliss https://hubhopper.com/podcast/bedroom-bliss-a-swinger-podcast/116183

Livin the Suite Life https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-livin-the-suite-life-podca-47834483/

Hitlist

Felicia Pearson

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Topic of the day: 5 reasons we don’t play with vanilla couple friends

1. Friends could be unfamiliar with crucial LS knowledge and norms

2. A bad play session with friends can start to erode even the best of friendships

3. Jealousy could complicate your friend’s relationship, especially if the play is only good for one of them.

4. The line between intimacy and sex can get blurred with people you have a trusting friendship with

5. Future hangouts may come with new unwanted expectations and pressures to play

Facebook Fuckshit: Being in a poly relationship with one’s parents is not poly.

Bombers Bougie Broadcast: The undeniable diversity of judgement free zones, and what they all have in common

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Monogamish marriage blog:

Black N Kinky adventure:https://themonogamishmarriage.com/2021/06/24/big-black-cock-fantasy/

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We sit down with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers to talk about diversity at Hotel takeovers. Check out her podcast at http://www.swingingdownunder.com/

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Bomber and Belle share their views on race play in BDSM.

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Films/Videos

Kinky: The Documentary - https://vimeo.com/414266410

http://www.darkconnections.com/library/index.htm

Support

Kinky Activists Support Fund

Readings

http://www.darkconnections.com/history/history01.htm

To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave by Vi Johnson

Black Men in Leather by Cain Berlinger

Black Leather in Color Magazine

The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, & Pornography by Ariane Cruz

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Bell and Bomber talk the rare occasion where someone might change their mind.

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