The Black n Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast

Show notes

Topic of the day: Orgasms on the dance floor, belle goes commando and other PCAP color pop madness.

Belle and Bomber talk about what they learned after attending Podcast-a-Palooza for the third time.

Facebook Fuckshit: What happens when your husband leaves you for your sister.

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Urban Swingers Cabin Fever Linktr.ee/urbanswingers

PCAP content creators referenced:

Wanderlust swingers: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

Monogamish Marriage: https://themonogamishmarriage.com/the-monogamish-marriage-podcast/

Average Swingers:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/average-swingers/id537110554

Casual Swingers:

https://casualswinger.com/

4 our play: https://4ourplay.com/

2 Hot Wives: https://2hotwives.com/

Bed hoppers: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Swinger University: https://swingeruniversity.com/

Life of Spice: https://www.tiktok.com/@life_of_spice?lang=en

Tequila that you can sip: https://tequila3030cristalino.com/

Hitlist

Stephanie Hsu https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3513533/

Joel Kim Booster https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5527841/?ref_=tt_cl_t_1

Topic of the day:

Bomber and Belle talk about where podcast-a-palooza sits in the limitless lifestyle events you might be considering attending. They also go into the gray areas of consent in the lifestyle and beyond.

Hitlist: June Diane Raphael & Alexis Floyd

Show notes—

Episode shoutouts:

Tribe Chat: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCosg3Ug0sTKTF8XW9nmhLNw

Wanderlust Swingers: https://beacons.ai/wanderlustswingers

Ask: Building a culture of consent by Kitty Stryker

We gotta thing podcast: https://wegottathing.com/

S.T.O. The Smoker’s Lounge: https://anchor.fm/smokethisova

Swinger University: http://swingeruniversity.com

Swinger help survey: surveymonkey.com/r/JK55M2F

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PCAP https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BNK

Past PCAP RECAPS

https://soundcloud.com/bomber-belle/episode-63-podcast-a-palooza-encore-recap?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing

https://soundcloud.com/bomber-belle/episode-58-pcap-recap-cake-farting-and-just-for-dinner?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing

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Topic of the day: Bomber and Belle talk about their house party experience with the Two Hotwives podcast and have a chat with Urban Swingers about their lifestyle parties in Detroit.

Diary of a Mad Black Woman scene

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OT8IJX6yZj4

Come with us to PALM SPRINGS FOR PCAP!!! Purchase your tickets here-- https://podcast-a-palooza.com/BNK

Episode shoutouts:

Two Hot Wives: https://2hotwives.libsyn.com/34-house-parties-revisited

Urban Swingers: https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Furbanswingers&e=ATOLDkyod6XKlsaBcgQlswUrYGUEt2QLMzyhhInb59h9j0uXO7EmMbHbfkKRShgxbB4HtlcxjjyKCLtT&s=1

Amour getaways: https://www.amourgetaways.com/

Monogamish Marriage shopping in Cap D’ Agde buying fruits with t*ts out. |https://twitter.com/Monogamish1/status/1508482158884708355?s=20&t=ppVY6P2X9pF99qUqLBP0iw

Livin the suite life: https://livinthesuitelifepodcast.buzzsprout.com/

Wanderlust Swingers Cap D’ Agde review https://www.swingingdownunder.com/podcast/podcast-capdagde/

https://www.spicymatch.com/events/28349/

Bulls & Queens podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-bulls-queens-swinger-podcast-doc-8qrIaQNe9u7/

We gotta thing podcast: https://wegottathing.com/

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Topic synopsis:

Belle and Bomber talk about Desire Riviera Maya, reflecting on the experience, culture and demographics. They also lend their perspective to the question of why Black people are not occupying this luxurious resort.

Hitlist:

Simone Joy Jones

Zoe Kravitz

Podcasts referenced:

By the bi podcast Desire Episodes

https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/27764/btb-136-desire-resort-full-recap-part-1-by-the-bi/

That couple next door Desire episodes

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-29-desire-riviera-maya/id1106517231?i=1000404716197

Podcast-a-palooza

Desire RM https://www.desire-resort.com/?gclid=CjwKCAjwoduRBhA4EiwACL5RP9bSrK9HFdkdwVhedFFnFvctwn7UJEH02-SthrMcZiHTZkVOClSgbRoCjnEQAvD_BwE

Desire Forum http://desiremexico.com/phpbb/index.php

Temptations https://www.temptation-experience.com/

Cap d’Agde nude town in France

https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2015/aug/27/naked-city-cap-agde-sun-swingers-shoplifting

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Twitter

Doc Chocolate & Karamel are a professional black married couple based out of Las Vegas, Nevada … who have been exploring the swinging and open relationship lifestyle since 2016.

In this dynamic duo, Doc is the goofy half & Karamel is the sexy half, as they have fun & laughs twice a month with their co-hosts, exploring the kinky side of the bull, hotwife, cuckold & black lifestyle world.

Twitter @bullsandqueens

website https://bullsandqueens.com/

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Meshai is dually licensed and certified in both Trauma Therapy and Sex Therapy. She believes in the power of living as one’s authentic self, and the freedom that comes from changing perspectives. She loves putting the puzzle pieces together of a individual or couple's sexual energy and aiding them in positive and explorative movement.

Her coaching work implements creative synergy, openness, self-expression, and the confrontation of challenges through self-determination. She helps individuals from diverse populations move forward with their goals while being fully aware of how trauma can affect the whole person.

Meshai works with a coaching practice called Expansive Connection. Which is a team of coaches that are ready to support individuals, couples, and more-somes on their life journey. Where we seek to support you as you grow mentally, physically, and emotionally. We bring a variety of experience to provide an integrative, holistic and collaborative approach to relationship coaching...free from judgment and focused on goals.

Meshai's relationship and mindfulness coaching and consulting does not fall under the scope of her license.

Website: www.expansiveconnection.com

Instagram @expansive.connection.coaching

Twitter: @expanconnect

J.A.

J.A. is your spicier version of a closeted lover of all things dating, sex and…filth. She aims to bridge the gap between those who are curious about topics that have been considered taboo, for too long, and the very people who lead lives that might include activities of which the masses may be afraid. You can hear her pretend (devilish chuckle) to be unaware of topics like swinging, bdsm, dating practices and more on I Hearddd Podcast which can be found on Apple, Spotify, and most other platforms that offer podcasts.

Instagram: @iheardddpodcast

website: Ihearddd.com

Buy your tickets to Podcast-a-palooza: https://podcast-a-palooza.com/

Duchess Cashmere, The Griot Erotica. Producer of The Cashmere Room Podcast & "Pillow Talk The Live Experience", and along with her husband, "Deuce The Mister", is the co-founder of The Cashmere Room LS Collective. Together they hosts Lifestyle Parties in/around the MS Gulf Coast that specifically cater to a POC audience and that are BDSM friendly.

On her podcast Duchess tells sexy stories, pussy poetry & milf monologues….aka Tha' Female Dolemite. The podcast and live performances are NSFW but perfect for pillow talk with your favorite lover. Duchess usesher real life adventures being a bisexaul, polyamorous, kinky sex goddess and Femdom to fuel her imagination to produce one of a kind erotica. You can listen to the podcast everywhere podcasts are streamed or watch performances & interviews on YouTube. You can even book Duchess Cashmere for your sex positive conference, poetry showcase, or Lifestyle, event

Social Media

Podcast: https://linktr.ee/Duchess

Instagram: @Duchess_Cashmere and @thecashmereroom

Twitter: @DuchessCashmere

Email: [email protected]

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Wanderlust Swinger Episode on Rule Breaking

"We Broke Our #1 Swinging Rule" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wanderlust-swingers-swinging-lifestyle/id1023334577?i=1000549272088

About Jhen:

Born in Kingston, Jamaica, Jhen is a pansexual and polyamorous Black woman who hosts the Monogamish Pod, a podcast exploring non-monogamy and polyamory through a Black Caribbean lens using pop culture and interviews. Engaged in polyamorous practice for the past 10 years, Jhen is sharing stories and creating a deeper understanding of the different facets of non-monogamy and polyamory that BIPOC experience.

Where to find The Monogamish Pod:

Monogamishpod.com

Instagram - @monogamishpod

Twitter - @monogamishpod

TikTok - @monogamishpod

Facebook page

Youtube - Monogamish Pod

Patreon - patreon.com/monogamishpod (18+ so has to be typed in that way of course)

Where to find her

Twitter - @haveyoumetjhen

Instagram - @haveyoumetjhen

References

Monogamish Pod https://monogamishpod.com

Promescent.com

More about Jeff Abraham

A dynamic, once-retired business professional looks to the sexual wellness space for his encore career. Jeff beat all odds, growing up in a poverty-stricken town in Pennslyvania, moving to California in hopes of better opportunities, and striking gold through his wit, relationship-building skills, and relentless work ethic.

Jeff retired in the early 2000s after years of recruiting some of the best semiconductor engineers for tech and manufacturing companies for the likes of Applied Materials, Lam Research, AMD, Motorola, and other Silicone Valley tech giants. In the midst of his career, he was instructed by a multi-billion dollar car manufacturer to discriminate against women and people of color during the hiring process. Subsequently, Jeff sued – and won the nearly impossible feat – going up against a giant corporation funded by personal assets. After all was said and done, Jeff scored a resounding victory, and Hyundai was forced to change its hiring practices.

Ethics and doing the right thing prevailed – a mantra that Jeff lives his life by every day.

In 2009, a close friend and neighbor, Dr. Ronald Gilbert approached Jeff knowing about his business acumen with a new, innovative product developed for premature ejaculation. After giving what is known now as Promescent Delay Spray a 'test-drive', Jeff immediately knew what was in store for the future of the company. He quickly invested millions of dollars of his own money into the venture becoming a majority stakeholder. Tragedy struck a few years later in 2013 when founder, Dr. Gilbert, was murdered in a case of mistaken identity in Orange County, CA.

A year prior to that, Jeff was asked to become CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals (makers of Promescent®) and was on the precipice of having the company sold to a large multi-billion dollar conglomerate – the ultimate goal at the time for everyone involved. The same day as Dr. Gilbert's tragic murder, Jeff sent Dr. Gilbert a text mentioning the good things to come.

The months, and the years that transpired thereafter, are nothing short of a miracle.

Jeff moved Promescent to Las Vegas, NV so that he could focus on growing the business to give Dr. Gilbert a legacy and to also provide for his family. He needed a place that didn't remind him of Dr. Gilbert every time he pulled into his garage – they were neighbors after all. The multi-billion dollar conglomerate that was acting as if they were going to buy the proprietary formula and company subsequently, and at the time inexplicitly, pulled out of the deal. Some months later Jeff came to find out that this company ended up purportedly stealing trade secrets and acting maliciously to develop a product of their own after explicitly stating concerns about the total market size. A gruesome 6-

year legal battle has transpired and is coming to a head in January of 2022 where Jeff will finally get his day in court.

Above all else, under the leadership skills of Jeff, the once close to the bankrupt company has been able to thrive. Year over year revenue growth has been pegged at nearly 100% for the last 4-years straight with forward-looking projections to match this for the next couple of years. The Promescent brand transformed from a single product brand to a leader in providing premium sexual wellness products for a variety of needs.

Now backed by over 2000 healthcare professionals in the US alone and with over 1,000,000 bottles sold to couples seeking to enhance their intimate lives, Promescent has captured a loyal audience to their brand.

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