Avoiding a friend's text for three days because you're afraid of disappointing them? That's actually a nervous system stress response: flight. Walking into conversations ready to fight over nothing? That's fight. Smiling through discomfort until your jaw aches? That's fawn. Can't string a sentence together or feel anything at all? That's freeze.
In this episode of The Body Knows, we break down the four trauma responses you can have when you’re triggered, helping you to recognize when your nervous system has hijacked the control panel and you’re not thinking clearly anymore.
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– Markers for fawn, flight, fight, and freeze responses in your own body
– How to identify your window of tolerance (and what happens when you leave it)
– The difference between being triggered vs. dysregulated
– Why conflict avoidance and workaholism are actually nervous system patterns, not personality traits
– How to spot these responses in the people you love without judgment
– What functional freeze and dissociation actually feel like
– What to do when you’re triggered
Through this episode, we’ll help you build the self-awareness to recognize when your body is trying to protect you from a threat that isn't actually there… before you blow up a relationship, ghost someone you care about, or spend days spiraling over something that could've been a two-minute conversation.
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Previous episodes mentioned:
TBK 5: What somatics helps with, and how to get started.
We talk about: how to know if you’re ready for somatics, the role your nervous system plays in internal resistance, and include some beginner-friendly somatic practices you can try today.
TBK 2: The most misunderstood concept in somatics.
We unpack what true dysregulation actually is, why feeling big emotions doesn’t mean you’re broken, and how to work with big emotions rather than shaming them.
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