An urge, as you know, is a strong desire or impulse. And all-too-often we are victims of our strong desires or impulses—our urges—which take us down the wrong path and cause trouble. We all have them, so I simply want to point out some urges we need to be aware of and by God’s grace, resist.
1. Resist the urge to let your emotions and enthusiasm launch you into unwise action.
I begin with this one because I recognize that too often this has been my modus operandi. I get a bright idea, an emotional urge, and I think it must be the right thing to do because I feel so strongly about it. And then, without proper thought or consideration or prayer, I plunge headlong into a project or start trying to do something that is either unwise or poorly planned.
Certainly we want to be people of action; we don’t want to sit on the sidelines talking about what we might do, handicapped by fear of making the wrong move. Walking by faith will take us outside our comfort zones and lead us to attempt things that can only be done with God’s help. Following Jesus is never a risk-free life. But at the same time, the Bible tells us that God does things decently and in order, and we need to be cautious when we move too quickly based mainly on how we feel about something.
Feelings are not always to be trusted, you know. Someone has said that feelings have zero IQ, meaning they may be strong but they’re not necessarily smart. Allowing your feelings to drive your actions is not being brave and courageous so much as it is being foolish and naïve.
Here is one thing I’ve learned that has helped to curb my tendency to launch into something prematurely and ill-advised, and it’s pretty simple: Just sleep on it. It may look like the greatest idea you’ve ever had today, but a good night’s sleep could totally change your perspective. That may mean literally wait until tomorrow, or it may mean keep sleeping on it until you have clearer thoughts and plans.
Proverbs 15:22 gives us very good advice: “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” If your idea or plan is of God and it is good, it will stand the test of time. So, seek counsel from the right people, and of course, mainly seek God’s counsel. Pray much and ask God for guidance from his word. We can save ourselves a lot of unnecessary trouble and avoid wasted time if we resist the urge to launch into something based solely on our emotions.
Here’s another common urge that can get us into trouble:
2. Resist the urge to wait for everything to be perfect before you take action.
I just reminded you to resist the urge to launch into something based solely on your emotions or enthusiasm. Well, this is the flip side of that urge—and that is the idea that we can’t possibly make a move or get anything going until all of our ducks are in a row and we have every resource we need to make it happen.
Whether it’s on your job or in your personal life, seldom will everything fall perfectly in place as you pursue something new or challenging. Sometimes we set up preconditions for moving forward that are either unrealistic or simply an excuse for staying put! I can tell you that no matter how much homework you do, no matter how careful your planning process is—and it should be—things will not go exactly according to plan. And most often you have to get going before you have everything you think you need.
I am now in the midst of guiding a project that needs careful planning. We’ve already done tons of planning, including a detailed strategic plan, lots of counsel with wise people, educating ourselves in many ways. But I can tell you that God has already made it clear that we make our plans, but it is God that guides our path.
Proverbs 19:21 says: “Many are the plans in a person’s heart,