You know, when I get to heaven one of the first people I want to talk with is the Apostle Paul, because I want to ask him if he was serious about some of those verses he wrote. In particular, the one which says, "Be anxious for nothing" (Philippians 4:6), and this one we're looking at today, "Be kind to everyone.” That verse is found in 2 Timothy 2:24, which says, And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.
As they would say in the old west, that's a "mighty tall order," don't you agree? If we're kind to everyone, that would include strangers, people who irritate us, people who don't do what they're supposed to do, people who are slow, people who don't appreciate any kindness we show them and never return it, people who don't deserve our kindness.
You know, it's no great thing to be kind to people who you like, who are kind in return. Even the hardest heart can usually do that. Jesus said in his Sermon on the Mount If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? (Matthew 5:46). But be kind to EVERYONE? Is that possible?
I remember an occasion where a fellow believer was most unkind to a certain person. The reason was simply because she didn't like certain types of people because of prejudices from childhood and from some unpleasant experiences of her own. So, when this person walked in the door, she truly was unkind to her. However, moments later when another person came in, more to her liking, she was very gracious and kind to her.
It bothered me a great deal to see this happening within the Body of Christ; and yet you and I know it happens very frequently. We're kind to those who suit us, but often unkind to those who, for whatever reason, we don't feel inclined to be kind to.
It wasn't many days after this that I found myself doing the same kind of thing. I was checking into a hotel and the clerk was not efficient. She was taking far too long and was very nonchalant about everything and it irritated me. After all, I thought, I'm the customer here. She's inconveniencing me. Why can't she just do her job and get me checked in without all this unnecessary delay?
And as I stood there, though I did not say anything inappropriate, the look on my face, the tone of my voice, and my whole body language sent the message loud and clear, and it was not a kind message. I could sense that she was aware of my unkind attitude.
As I walked away, the Holy Spirit let me have it. Why couldn't I have been kind to her? All it required of me was a different look, a few nice words, and I could have shown her some kindness. But just because she didn't perform the way I thought she should and I was inconvenienced one slight bit, I was unkind.
As is so often the case, I was irritated because my rights were violated, my schedule was very slightly interrupted, my plans were minimally delayed.
Then I realized that perhaps the people I find it most difficult to be kind to are strangers, people I don't know and with whom I have very brief interactions. Sometimes it's simply because my mind is so preoccupied with other things, and I just don't take time to be kind. Sometimes it's because I don't like what they're doing. But whatever the causes, there are no legitimate excuses. The servant of the Lord must be kind to everyone.
I was reading in Mark 6 where Jesus was trying to get away with his disciples to a solitary place to rest. As it was, they couldn't even find time to eat because so many people were coming and going. So, they got in the boat to escape the crowds, but that didn't work. The crowd followed them, and when the boat landed, they were there already, waiting for them. When Jesus saw them, we read that he "had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So he began teaching them many things" (Mark 6:34).
I thought, “Lord, you're amazing. You were exhausted,