Teko Bailey sits down with Dr. Clarence Shuler, widely known as The Love Doctor, to talk about marriage, leadership at home, and why many men unintentionally drift from friendship with their wives.Dr. Shuler explains how men often find identity in what they do rather than who they are, which slowly erodes emotional connection in marriage. He challenges the idea that marriage survives on duty alone, emphasizing that oneness requires the same intentional effort after the wedding as before it.

The conversation explores leadership versus control in the home, highlighting servant leadership, emotional listening, and humility as foundations for healthy marriage and family life. Drawing from decades of counseling, Dr. Shuler shares practical ways men can listen better, repair when they get it wrong, and create emotional safety for their wives and children.

They also discuss father wounds, mentorship, and identity. Dr. Shuler speaks candidly about forgiveness, the long-term impact of unresolved pain, and why every man needs older voices who model healthy marriage and faith.The episode closes with a challenge to move from performance to presence and to intentionally build marriages that grow rather than drift.

CHAPTERS:

02:15 The “Love Doctor” story

05:30 Friendship vs duty in marriage

08:15 Leadership vs control at home

11:50 Listening emotionally

16:25 Father wounds and forgiveness

20:55 Mentorship and brotherhood

25:20 Choosing greatness early

30:15 Identity, fatherhood, and legacy

34:45 Final encouragement to men

ABOUT Dr. CLARENCE SHULER

Website: https://www.clarenceshuler.com

ABOUT Teko Bailey

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Teko Bailey sits down with Garry, a South Africa–based businessman and missionary, to talk about integrated leadership — faith, family, health, and business lived as one life, not competing priorities.

Garry shares how his journey through property development and ministry reshaped his understanding of stewardship. Rather than separating “sacred” and “secular,” he explains why business itself can be a calling when led with integrity, discipline, and responsibility. Wealth, in his view, is not about ownership but assignment.

The conversation moves into marriage and fatherhood, where Garry lays out a clear hierarchy of leadership: devotion to God, commitment to one’s wife, and responsibility to children. Drawing from decades of parenting, foster care, and now grandparenting, he reflects on discipline rooted in love, the importance of boundaries, and the long-term fruit of consistency over control.

They also discuss physical health, brotherhood, and personal accountability. Garry challenges men to view their bodies as stewardship, their friendships as essential, and their fears as indicators of where faith is required. He speaks candidly about how overthinking and fear can quietly keep men from stepping into their calling.

The episode closes with a reminder of identity. Men are not performers striving for approval, but sons called to walk in obedience, courage, and trust — one faithful step at a time.

(00:00) Welcome to The Climb

Garry is a South Africa–based businessman, missionary, and mentor with decades of experience in property development, ministry, and leadership. He is passionate about helping men steward their families, health, wealth, and influence with integrity and long-term vision.

Teko Bailey is a husband, father, coach, and host of The Climb Podcast, guiding men toward deeper faith, resilience, clarity, and intentional leadership.

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Teko Bailey interviews fatherhood creator and author Glen Henry about one central truth: you cannot lead your family well until you learn how to father yourself first. Glen explains how many men try to show up strong for their wives and children while neglecting their own inner work, emotional health, and identity.

Glen shares the personal journey that led to his new book, Father Yourself First, including the early years of marriage and fatherhood where unmet expectations, unprocessed pain, and pressure quietly shaped how he showed up at home. Rather than blaming circumstances, Glen describes the moment he realized leadership in the home begins with responsibility for your inner world.

The conversation explores what it means for men to slow down, build self-awareness, and confront patterns learned from their own upbringing. Glen and Teko talk about emotional presence, repairing when you get it wrong, and why consistency matters more than perfection in fatherhood.

They also discuss calling and content creation, where Glen explains why saying one clear thing repeatedly builds trust more than chasing visibility. His conviction is simple: men don’t need more information, they need formation.

Glen closes by encouraging men to stop outsourcing their growth, do the internal work God is inviting them into, and lead their families from a place of wholeness rather than exhaustion.

(00:00) Why fathering yourself comes first

Glen Henry is a husband, father, author, and creator known as Beleaf Mel. Through Beleaf in Fatherhood, he helps men navigate marriage, parenting, emotional health, and identity with honesty, faith, and responsibility. His work challenges men to lead from the inside out, starting with personal ownership and growth.

Follow Glen Henry (Beleaf Mel):

Book: Father Yourself First

Teko Bailey is a husband, father, coach, and guide for men walking the path of faith and purpose. Through The Climb, he’s building a brotherhood of men committed to living fully, leading boldly, and climbing with intention.

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Teko Bailey sits down with Dove Award–nominated writer and producer Derek Winkley for a conversation about obedience, identity, and trusting God when progress feels slow or unseen.

With a background rooted in church music and jazz, Derek brings a rare perspective shaped by creativity, faith, and leadership. In this episode, he shares openly about seasons where following God did not lead to immediate clarity or visible results, and how faithfulness in those moments quietly reshaped his identity and calling.

They talk about the tension many men carry, doing the right things while feeling uncertain, overlooked, or stretched thin. They talk about resilience formed in hidden seasons, the pressure to perform, and why obedience still matters even when outcomes are delayed.

This episode is for men who are still showing up, still trusting, and still walking forward—even when the road ahead feels unclear.

(00:00) When obedience feels costly

Derek Winkley is a Dove Award–nominated pop, R&B, gospel, and Christian writer and producer with Integrity Music. He has worked with artists across genres including Blessing Offor, Rachael Lampa, Social Club Misfits, Tedashii, Liz Vice, Jonathan Traylor, Steven Malcolm, Canon, Jaguar Wright, Ghost-Note, and members of the Miles Davis Band. His work has appeared on major stages and platforms such as the BET Awards, Dove Awards, Passion Conference, Essence Festival, K-LOVE Fan Awards, Good Morning America, and The Jennifer Hudson Show.

Website: https://derekwinkley.com/

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Teko Bailey interviews violinist and innovator Tracy Silverman about two things: parenting without control and keeping string music relevant today. Tracy says you can’t force kids to become who you want—push them and they push back. His goal as a parent and teacher is to help people find their “North Star,” what they truly care about.

Tracy shares how he started young, making his pro debut at 13 with the Chicago Symphony, helped by his dad’s long weekly drives for lessons. He then explains his work with the six-string electric violin and “strum-bowing,” a groove-based style inspired by guitar. He argues strings got stuck in a narrow classical lane while other instruments evolved into jazz and rock, and he believes strings must expand into modern styles or risk becoming irrelevant.

He also talks about raising four kids through tough challenges and the career risk of leaving the traditional classical path after Juilliard. His takeaway on parenting is simple: letting go over time, so kids can make mistakes and still feel safe coming home.

He ends by encouraging listeners to try unfamiliar music more than once, shares where to learn his method, and previews an upcoming project: DBR’s “America to Us,” with performances planned in Oakland in February and Carnegie Hall in October next year.

(00:00) Stop controlling kids
(01:28) Welcome + early career
(02:44) Dad’s sacrifice for lessons
(05:44) Six-string electric violin
(07:33) Wanting to play “now” music
(12:39) Strum-bowing explained
(16:09) Hard seasons and music
(25:48) Leaving Juilliard lane
(30:32) Parenting: lose the ego
(42:53) Programs + what’s next

ABOUT TRACY SILVERMAN

Tracy Silverman is a violinist, composer, and educator known for pioneering the six-string electric violin and developing strum-bowing, a groove-based approach that helps string players perform contemporary styles like rock, funk, and improvisational music. Trained in classical tradition and a Juilliard graduate, he’s spent decades commissioning and performing new works for electric violin while teaching modern techniques to traditionally trained players. His education platform includes books and an online academy focused on rhythm-first string playing.

Books/Methods:

The Strumbowing Method: How to Groove on Strings

The Rhythm String Player: Strumbowing in Action

Online:

Strumbowing Groove Academy (strumbowinggrooveacademy.com)

Upcoming Work: Premiere of America to Us by Daniel Bernard Roumain (DBR), including performances with the Oakland Symphony and a Carnegie Hall premiere next year.

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In this episode of The Climb, Teko Bailey sits down with worship artist and nurse practitioner Dimas Cortez to talk about faith that holds up under pressure, the long road to identity, and what it looks like to keep serving God when your home life is chaotic. Dimas traces his story from learning piano as a teenager after getting plugged into church—despite not coming from a musical family—to slowly building a catalog of songs over the last four to five years by releasing singles with intention. He explains why he keeps coming back to Christian pop: it is joyful, honest, and built to carry truth in a form people will actually replay.

From there, the conversation turns raw. Dimas shares growing up with a father battling alcoholism and schizophrenia, and what it meant to step in and protect his mother and family in moments that should have never been his responsibility. He talks about doubt, trauma, and the hard choice to keep trusting God anyway—learning what perseverance really costs. That pain becomes part of his theology and his music, including the story behind his song “Priceless,” written as a reminder that the Creator of everything still chose the cross, which makes the listener’s worth non-negotiable.

The second half expands the picture: Dimas is also a nurse practitioner serving in a community health center, in the same kind of underserved system his family once relied on. He explains how music and medicine overlap—how a song can shift a room, how prayer can bring calm, and how hope can be clinical as much as it is spiritual. He closes with practical direction for men trying to find purpose: put God first, find mentorship, build accountability, break cycles, and take the first step even if your confidence is not ready yet.

(00:00) Trauma, faith, and meaning

(01:07) Welcome + “Priceless” intro

(01:12) Why he releases singles

(02:01) Church spark, piano start

(03:25) Finding his sound and lane

(04:21) Writing “Priceless”

(06:15) Dad’s illness, fear, and doubt

(11:02) Patience built by trials

(13:32) Identity, mentors, accountability

(17:35) Medicine + music as care

(26:39) Next song + take the step

ABOUT DIMAS CORTEZ
Dimas Cortez is a Christian artist, songwriter, and nurse practitioner whose work sits at the intersection of worship, identity, and healing. He began learning piano as a teen after getting connected to church, later returning to school for music to develop his voice and musicianship. Over the past several years, he’s steadily released new music—often choosing singles to give each message time to land. His song “Priceless” centers on God as Creator and Savior, connecting cosmic power to personal worth.

Outside of music, Dimas serves as a nurse practitioner in a community health center supporting underserved patients—work that hits close to home, since his own family relied on similar services growing up. He is passionate about mentorship, accountability, and helping people break destructive cycles through faith, support, and practical action.

Listen to Priceless

IG: (@dimas_cortez)

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In this episode of The Climb, Teko Bailey sits down with coach and educator Cam Hall to talk about fatherhood, health, and the cost of trying to be “the fit guy” while everything else in your life is on fire. Cam traces his story from growing up in poverty in small-town Canada—with a dad who worked constantly, a mom running split shifts at a coffee shop, and a teenage job in the back of that same restaurant—to the quiet acts of generosity that changed his life. He shares how a cook named Nora secretly fed his family, paid his high school tuition, and opened doors that led to college basketball, teaching, and leadership. All of this was unfolding while he wrestled with identity, responsibility, and what it meant to become a man without a highly present dad at home.

From there, the conversation moves into marriage, kids, and the slow slide into the classic “dad bod” and hidden burnout. Cam talks about extreme dieting, body image, and how becoming a new dad added 28 pounds, stress, and shame to a life already running hot. He explains how a chance encounter with mentor Mark McDonald reframed food as fuel instead of punishment, and how Fight the Dad Bod was born. Then he gets honest about the panic attacks, middle-of-the-night collapse, and doctor-ordered three-month shutdown that forced him to shut his business down and sit in silence. Out of that came a different mission: helping men prioritize health without ego, build “family teams” where everyone carries the load, and find brotherhood instead of dying in isolation.

CHAPTERS

(00:00) Mom’s cancer & identity crisis

(05:10) Growing up poor & owning duty

(10:02) Nora’s kindness, work, and tuition

(15:40) Becoming a dad without a model

(20:55) “If you see it, do it” at home

(25:35) Marriage as a true family team

(31:20) From fit guy to dad bod spiral

(37:45) Collapse, panic, and shutdown

(43:50) Redefining Fight the Dad Bod

(49:30) Brotherhood, health, and legacy

ABOUT CAM HALL

Cam Hall is a husband, father, educator, and men’s coach based in Alberta, Canada. Raised in a small town after his parents left the city for financial reasons, Cam grew up in a loving but stretched home—dad on long construction commutes, mom working split shifts at a coffee shop, and Cam carrying early responsibility for his two younger brothers. A teenage job in that same restaurant became a turning point when the head cook, Nora, quietly mentored him, taught him to cook, slipped “mistake” pizzas to his family, and later paid his high school tuition—opening the door to collegiate basketball, university, and a career in education.

After years as a teacher and vice principal, Cam’s own health story took center stage: yo-yo dieting, the dad bod, and eventually panic attacks and a collapse that forced him into a three-month reset. Out of that season, he rebuilt his approach to health and leadership, founding Fight the Dad Bod and the Dads Making a Difference podcast and community. Today, Cam helps men burn fat and reclaim their energy, but more importantly, step into their roles as husbands, fathers, and leaders with presence, integrity, and a strong “family team” culture at home.

Website: https://www.fightthedadbod.com/

Podcast: Dads Making a Difference Podcast

IG: @dadsmakingadifference

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In this episode of The Climb, Teko Bailey sits down with Dr. John Murray—educator, researcher, musician, husband, father, and soon-to-be grandfather—to talk about late blooming, father wounds, and building a life of purpose when your early years feel like chaos. John traces his journey from a rough neighborhood in eastern Canada, where crime and low expectations were normal, to being the “bookish” kid who escaped through libraries and a free public-school music program that changed the trajectory of his life. All of this unfolded while he watched his father slowly disappear into alcoholism, psychiatric hospitals, and chronic illness, leaving a deep ache for a father figure he never really found.

From there, the conversation moves into academic life, divorce, and the slow, often painful work of becoming who you actually are. John talks about being a “lag behind” who didn’t land a stable career until 32, using academia as both sanctuary and avoidance, and the guilt of leaving a failing marriage with three young children. He shares how meeting the woman he first saw at 23—then rediscovering her 25 years later—became the turning point that finally let his life “flower.” John and Teko dig into red flags men ignore in relationships, the pressure to hide our wounds, why leadership has always intimidated him, and how vulnerability—our scars, not our image—is what truly equips men to serve, heal others, and live the final “grand cycle” of life with integrity.

CHAPTERS
(00:00) Growing up rough & feeling different
(05:12) Seasons, cycles, and late blooming
(10:05) Music school as escape & calling
(15:40) Father wounds & searching for mentors
(21:18) Turbulent teens, study as sanctuary
(27:02) Divorce, leaving & rebuilding life
(33:40) Finding love again, blending a family
(40:22) Choosing wisely: red flags in dating
(46:05) Reluctant leader, learning to serve
(52:10) Vulnerability, wounds, and healing men

About Dr. John Murray
Dr. John Murray is a retired educator, researcher, and musician based in Winnipeg, Manitoba. Raised in a tough neighborhood in London, Ontario, he was the bookish kid who escaped through libraries and a rigorous public-school music program that gave him 11 years of formal musical training. After starting his career as a high school science and math teacher in the late 1980s, John went on to complete advanced study in the history and philosophy of science and build an academic career in Canadian universities. He eventually spent a decade teaching and conducting research in a college of pharmacy and at the University of Manitoba’s medical school, where he continues to hold a research appointment in retirement. A self-described “late bloomer,” John didn’t secure a stable professional foothold until his early 30s, and his adult life has included divorce, remarriage, and blending a family of five adult children. Today, he divides his time between research, music, and service—committed to using his experience, wounds, and hard-earned wisdom to help men navigate purpose, fatherhood, and the later “grand cycles” of life.

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In this episode of The Climb, Teko Bailey sits down with Air Force veteran, medic, recruiter, and mortgage loan officer Don “The Mortgage Medic” Hecker to talk about fear, surrender, and what it means to be a present father when life spins completely out of control. Don walks through the day he thought he was flying to Miami for a bodybuilding show and gender reveal—and instead found himself racing his pregnant wife to the ER, hearing doctors say they might lose one, if not both, of the people he loved most. The flight back to California without his wife and newborn daughter became the hardest goodbye of his life, harder than any deployment to the Middle East or Africa.

CHAPTERS
(00:00) Hardest goodbye: leaving family
(04:08) From Foot Locker to Air Force
(06:49) Miami trip turns emergency
(10:42) Preeclampsia and emergency C-section
(21:14) NICU life and military support
(25:05) Rooted: church as lifeline
(32:27) Fatherhood after the NICU
(38:44) Encouraging fathers in struggle
(43:20) The three Ps: patience, prayer, presence
(45:33) Helping families own a home

About Don Hecker
Don Hecker is an Air Force veteran, former medic and recruiter, and now a mortgage loan officer helping families navigate the path to homeownership. Over sixteen years in the Air Force, he served across the globe and later recruited on the South Side of Chicago. His most defining season came in 2019, when his daughter Camila was born at 30 weeks after a medical emergency that nearly cost him his wife and child, followed by 58 days in the NICU. That experience, and a second high-risk pregnancy with his younger daughter Gianna, reshaped his understanding of faith, fatherhood, and presence. Today, Don uses that same calm under pressure to educate veterans, first-time buyers, and families on how to build stability and generational wealth through owning a home.

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In this episode of The Climb, Teko Bailey sits down with contemporary gospel musician and worship leader Theo Milford to talk about fear, obedience, and finally stepping into your calling. Theo shares the honest backstory behind releasing his debut album after nearly two decades of writing songs in private. Turning 40 gave him a jolt: he realized that leaving his music trapped on a phone voice note would be a quiet form of disobedience. The conversation hits the core tension many people live with—knowing you’ve been given something to carry, but sitting on it because of anxiety, timing, or doubt.

Theo walks through his upbringing in a pastoral home where music and worship were daily life, then traces his path from singing in groups to leading worship and developing his own material. He breaks down what changed for him over time: his focus moved from “Did I perform this right?” to “Was I obedient?” That shift reframed nerves, leadership pressure, and even the way he understands success.

The two also dig into rest and mental overload. Theo explains how his song “Sabbath” came from the lived relief of a weekly reset—stepping out of toil and re-centering on God and family. They connect the dots between anxiety in modern life and neglecting rhythms of rest that are both practical and spiritual. From there, the conversation moves into fatherhood, community, and discernment—how to build a small but trustworthy circle, and how prayer shapes decision-making when not everyone around you has your best interests at heart.

This episode is for anyone who has been sitting on a gift too long, anyone wrestling with fear masquerading as wisdom, and anyone who needs a reminder that obedience creates ripple effects far beyond you.

(00:00) Fear, obedience, turning 40

(01:19) Who Theo is today

(02:41) Growing up in church music

(03:57) Learning to lead worship

(04:39) Obedience over performance

(06:38) Why he wrote “Sabbath”

(08:46) Rest, anxiety, and modern life

(11:08) Fatherhood and priorities

(14:28) Encouraging men to step out

(16:45) Debut album details

(18:19) Staying grounded as a leader

(19:23) Community and discernment

(23:51) Favorite track and closing

About Theo Milford

Theo Milford is a contemporary gospel musician, worship leader, and songwriter based in the Washington, D.C. area. Raised in a pastoral home, he has led worship for nearly two decades across churches and music collectives. After years of writing in private, he is releasing his debut album, Altars and Answers, a 12-track project shaped by scripture, lived experience, and a renewed commitment to obedience. His work includes songs like “Sabbath” and “Rest,” centered on devotion, renewal, and hope.

Website: theomilfordmusic.com

YouTube: Theo Milford

About Teko Bailey

Teko Bailey is a husband, father, coach, and guide for men walking the path of faith and purpose. Through The Climb, he’s building a brotherhood of men committed to living fully, leading boldly, and climbing with intention.

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