The Confident Charismatic

I'm going to show you how inflation could work to your benefit in a way no one is talking about. This inflation strategy will change your life, if you follow the process.

Let's talk about how to develop a self care routine, for men. It's like putting on your oxygen mask on the plane first. Men, you have to make sure you are cared for, physically, spiritually and psychologically and then you are your best self to care for others.

I've been looking forward to discussing style and we are finally here! Gentlemen, much of what we discuss here is what you do internally to build your confidence and enhance you charisma. Now, we're going to get to some of the external work when it comes to developing confidence. When it comes to the clothes you wear, think about this question, what is your style?

Every young male child has at some point or another tried to tease a girl, because he liked her, whether it was consciously or subconsciously. As we get older, some of us grow and change and we are much more serious with women, some of us mature quicker and it's not really our style anymore, and some of us simply lose the innate ability to connect with a girl through banter. Banter is an art form.

One of the biggest challenges to confidence, self-worth and self-esteem is listening to other people who don't live your life, dream your dreams or walk in your shoes. People are living in your head and you're not getting paid for it. You're not pursuing dreams, losing out on money, missing out on opportunity costs and allowing negative talk from someone else to influence what you're doing right now.

Have you ever started dating someone and just randomly wondered one day, what are we doing here? You almost feel like you're in an episode of the twilight zone and you don't know how you got here or what happened to get you to this point. This happens often. We have to start dating with purpose.

The reality is, if you're a nice guy, I hate to break it to you…you finish last. It's really unfortunate…not. It's not unfortunate at all! Let's dig in to get clarity

Gentlemen, we have all heard the expression, "How can I get with her?" It could be in reference to dating an actress, dating a model, dating a singer or celebrity, or simply someone that's attractive to you. The fact is, we often stumble when we consider how to date someone we think is gorgeous, and to make things more difficult, we feel we don't have access to them. Even when we have access, sometimes we don't know what to say, we get nervous, and we just don't know how to take next steps. Let's assume you get the number, then what?! How do we move forward with the "model-type?" I needed to get to the source, so I asked my friend (who happens to be a model), Fariyal to come through and talk about her journey.

Ok, if you're out in these dating streets, this mindset is killing you, bro.  I mean, literally, it's killing your dating life. Stop trying to compete with other men for women. This is an exercise in futility.

You know, one of the saddest parts of my job as a relationship coach is when I talk to women and they read me the texts a guy sent them. The text game out there is really bad, fellas…I mean, really…really bad. That's ok…because we're changing that. The same confidence that is one display when you talk to a woman in person is the same confidence you have to exude when you're talking women in texts.