The Deep C

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The Deep C episodes

June 03, 2025 The Sibling Experience - A Brother Shares His Perspective Of His Sister's Treatment 20 Years Later
Today I speak with Alex, who was 7 yrs old when his sister was diagnosed with leukemia 20 years ago. We discuss the profound impact of childhood experiences related to a sibling's cancer diagnosis and dive deep into themes of loneliness, emotional neglect, and the long-term effects on mental health. Alex shares his personal journey of navigating his sister's illness, the feelings of being sidelined, and the eventual realization of the need for support and therapy. Our discussion highlights the importance of recognizing the sibling experience in the context of family illness and the lasting emotional scars that can result from such experiences. Alex shares his journey of confronting deep-seated anger related to his sister's cancer diagnosis and the impact it had on his family dynamics. Through therapy, he navigates feelings of abandonment and the complexities of healing relationships with his parents. Our discussion highlights the importance of communication, understanding, and the efforts made to mend familial bonds. Alex's current work in oncology reflects his personal experiences, driving his passion for cancer research and patient advocacy.
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36 min
May 24, 2025 The Golden Moms
Today I talk with five incredible oncology moms who met during their kids treatments and felt the need to create a collective for cancer moms to come together, feel seen, supported and less alone. Katelyn, Sarah, Amanda, Nicole and Lindsay discuss the importance of having a support system of other oncology moms, the emotional challenges they face, and how they found strength in their shared experiences.

Our discussion highlights the birth of the Golden Moms community, the significance of connecting with others who understand our journey, and the role of social media in fostering these relationships. Each mom shares their personal story, emphasizing the importance of community, shared experiences, and the need for emotional support. They discuss the discomfort that often arises in friendships during crises, the healing power of connecting with others who understand, and the necessity of caring for caregivers as well.

To find the Golden Moms, visit their instagram @goldenmoms05, and the Ottawa Golden Moms group @goldenmomsottawa
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43 min
May 14, 2025 Post Treatment Healing for Parents - Oncology Mom Kayleigh on Somatic Healing & Processing Her Trauma
In this conversation, Sam and mindset coach/oncology mom Kayleigh Kennedy explore the emotional landscape for parents post treatment and the profound impact of trauma on our mental and physical health. Kayleigh shares her personal experiences and insights on mending the broken heart her son's cancer treatment left her with, and the ongoing process of healing, highlighting the significance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. One of the ways Kayleigh has approached her healing is through somatic therapy and integrated somatic trauma processing (ISTP).

She discusses the healing power of breath work, the importance of releasing suppressed emotions, and the journey of letting go of control. The conversation highlights the physical and emotional challenges faced during therapy sessions, including intense releases of energy and emotions. Kayleigh emphasizes the significance of trusting oneself and exploring personal healing needs, while also acknowledging the discomfort that comes with the healing process.
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47 min
May 01, 2025 Did I Make It Too Fun? A Fascinating Talk on What it's Like When Your Child Thrives Through Treatment and Doesn't Want it to End
My talk with Lily has really stuck with me. This is a mom who simply refused to let cancer define her family’s life. There was no way cancer was going to interrupt their normal, and there was no way it was going to interfere with her son’s growth and learning and development. Lily was determined to maintain Wyatt’s full and active life, and not only maintain, but better it. Cancer wasn’t something that would stop him, it was something that would make him stronger.

When Wyatt was 5.5 yrs old, he was diagnosed with T cell ALL, and like all parents, Lily was floored when she was told the news over the phone after some routine blood work, But you’ll hear her say Wyatt’s diagnosis completely shifted her perspective and made her even more optimistic and less concerned and worried about the things in life that don’t matter. I’ve had a lot of talks with parents who come to those realizations, maybe after treatment, but for Lily, it was right off the bat, and she harnessed this optimism and perspective into making Wyatt’s cancer treatment an opportunity for growth and something that wasn't going to define him.

One of the areas of our chat that will stick with me forever is when we talk about how Lily made treatment so positive for Wyatt that he legitimately mourned when it was over. This makes so much sense when you hear Lily’s story, but I mean, we can all agree it’s not the most common reaction coming from a little kid who’s just gone through 3 years of gruelling cancer treatment. But port removal and final lumbar punctures were devastating for Wyatt, and we go into how Lily is managing these really honest and deep emotions. We also talk about her other son Jack and how in many ways Wyatt’s cancer treatment was hardest on him. So much insight and deep conversations in this episode.

I love Lily, she is incredible and so is this chat. I know it will stick with you too. So, let’s dive deep with Lily.
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32 min
April 17, 2025 Supporting Families & Siblings in Children's Hospice with Recreational Therapist Samantha Albert
Sam Albert, a recreational therapist at Roger Nielson Children's Hospice, shares her experience supporting families and siblings through treatment and end of life care. Sam shares personal stories of growing up with a brother who had cancer, the impact of grief, and the importance of validating the sibling's experience. The conversation also emphasizes the significance of peer support among siblings and the creative ways they express their emotions.

Sam explores the profound experiences of supporting families in palliative care, emphasizing the importance of creating lasting memories, the privilege of holding space for families during their hardest moments, and the unique emotional journey caregivers undergo. The discussion highlights the beauty found in love amidst grief, the impact of personal experiences on caregiving, and also touches on the examination of belief systems and the diverse needs of families after the loss of a child.

https://www.rogerneilsonchildrenshospice.ca/
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37 min
April 01, 2025 Cancer Dad Scott on His Teen Daughter’s Rhabdo Battle and How Her Love of Hockey Powers Her Fight
In this chat, Scott Walker shares his family's journey through his teenage daughter's cancer diagnosis of rhabdomyosarcoma and treatment. He discusses the shock of receiving the diagnosis, the protective 'armor' parents wear, and the importance of finding moments of release. Scott emphasizes the significance of approaching treatment in phases, coping with the hair loss phase, and the vital role of team sports and community support in their journey. Scott shares the profound impact of team dynamics and community support during his daughter Peyton's cancer treatment. He emphasizes the importance of mutual support within teams, the significance of billeting, and the courage required to let go as a parent. The discussion highlights the role of community in fostering resilience and the emotional journey of navigating treatment while maintaining a sense of normalcy for Peyton. The conversation emphasizes teamwork, resilience, and the power of community in navigating difficult times.

March 31- April 4th is Adolescent and Young Adult Cancer Awareness Week. Here are some links to learn more:
https://www.childrenscancercause.org/ayaweek
https://acpmp.org/aya-cancer-awareness-week/
https://www.uhn.ca/PrincessMargaret/Clinics/Adolescent_Young_Adult_Oncology
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46 min
March 20, 2025 Love Will Keep Us Fighting - How Shara Uses Love to Battle Osteosarcoma, Immigration & Uncertainty
This conversation spans the epic journey of Shara and her wife Karen navigating their son's stage IV osteosarcoma diagnosis while immigrating to Canada. Friends from childhood, Shara and Karen grew up together in the Philippines. Their paths went in different directions, Shara to Canada where she’s a nurse, and Karen to becoming a psychologist, marrying and becoming a mother. Years later, when Karen was a single mom to Tim, still in the Philippines, she reconnected with Shara, and it didn’t take long for these lifelong friends to realize there was more to their connection. They fell in love, and you’ll hear Shara say, falling in love with Karen also meant falling in love with Tim, who was 7 at the time they reconnected.

As many families who are immigrating do, Karen immigrated to Canada first to be with Shara while they worked endlessly to get Tim’s paperwork approved so he could join them. It was one day over a FaceTime call that Tim told his moms that he banged his knee and there was a sore lump. After tests and scans, Shara and Karen were told over facetime from the Philippines that their son had stage IV osteosarcoma. Like all of us, their lives were instantly fractured and they were forced to navigate treatment on the other side of the world.

This conversation emphasizes the importance of hope, community support, and the unconditional love that drives parents to fight for their children's well-being. Shara's resilience and determination shine through as she recounts the struggles and triumphs of their journey, ultimately showcasing the power of love in overcoming adversity.
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1 hr 7 min
February 15, 2025 The Cancer Parents Handbook - Author Laura DeKraker Lang-Ree On Her New & Much Needed Resource For Cancer Families
Today we sit down with author and oncology parent Laura DeKraker Lang Ree to chat about her new book, The Cancer Parent's Handbook - What Your Oncologist Doesn't Have Time to Tell You. Laura shares her journey as a cancer parent, discussing the emotional challenges and the importance of community support. She emphasizes the need for perspective, the role of knowledge in advocacy, and the power of gratitude in navigating the difficult times. The discussion highlights the unique experiences of parents in the cancer journey and the significance of shared stories and resources. In this conversation, Laura shares her journey as a parent navigating the complexities of childhood cancer, emphasizing the importance of self-care, family dynamics, and the need for community support. She discusses the challenges of post-treatment realities, the transformation that occurs after trauma, and the significance of survivorship care. Laura's insights aim to empower parents facing similar struggles, providing them with practical advice and emotional support.
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34 min
February 08, 2025 Identical Twins with Leukemia - Mom Alisha’s Extraordinary Story of Carrying her 2yr old Twin Boys Through Cancer Treatment Together
In this conversation, Alisha and Sam delve into the emotional complexities of parenting twins diagnosed with cancer. They explore themes of self-doubt, the struggle between fear and maternal instinct, and the unique challenges faced by families dealing with multiple diagnoses. The discussion highlights the emotional toll on parents, the dynamics between siblings, and the coping mechanisms that emerge during and after treatment. Alisha shares her personal experiences, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and connection in the healing process. Alisha and Sam discuss the duality of trauma and beauty experienced by siblings, the complexities of navigating life post-treatment, and the longing for the simplicity that comes with a singular focus during treatment. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, connection, and the challenges of reintegrating into normal life after such a life-altering experience.
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50 min
January 25, 2025 An Uphill Battle - Sarah’s Story of Single Parenting Through Cancer & How Hiking Lead to Healing
In today's conversation, Sarah Bailey shares her emotional journey as a single mother navigating the challenges of her daughter's leukemia diagnosis. The discussion covers her life before the diagnosis, the shock of receiving the news, the transition into a new reality, the importance of connection and support, and the complexities of parenting during treatment. Sarah emphasizes the loneliness of her experience and the significance of sharing her story to help others feel less isolated. Sarah discusses the overwhelming responsibilities of being both a medical parent and a regular parent, the emotional toll it takes, and the coping mechanisms she employs. The dialogue explores the importance of maintaining a sense of normalcy, the challenges of navigating the healthcare system, and the healing power of nature and movement. Sam and Sarah discuss how nature serves as a metaphor for resilience and healing, the importance of self-care for parents, and the lessons learned through hiking. Sarah shares her journey of dedicating hikes to raise awareness for childhood cancer and the significance of supporting siblings of cancer patients. The conversation emphasizes the healing power of nature and the importance of community support.

If you would like to follow along with Sarah and Bellamy's hikes, or have one dedicated to your child, you can reach out to Sarah on instagram at @bellamywillwin
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34 min