The Dervish and the Mermaid

By Pace & Kyeli

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June 30, 2016WCML 102: How to make a big decision? Admit you’ve already decided.
A decision: you’re feeling divided.
You’d like to be lucidly guided.
One way you can know
What to do, where to go,
Is admit you’ve already decided.
Sometimes we agonize for weeks, months, or years over a decision that we’ve actually already decided. Here’s how you can shorten your agony loop!
The “ka-chunk” feeling
reading the writing on the wall
What do I do when my heart and my head disagree?
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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47min
June 16, 2016WCML 101: How to apologize (and how not to apologize)
If you want to learn how to apologize
With a method that doesn’t antagonize,
The first step: undo
What’s expected of you.
Be intentional! Then you can customize.
“I am unharmed”
“I prefer it”
The worst apology ever
What do I get out of being right?
Lying Lester and Honest Hal
Live apology practice
“I’m sorry, but”
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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45min
June 09, 2016WCML 100: What have we learned in the past 3 years?
We’ve stumbled, we’ve triumphed, we’ve blundered.
We’ve held hands, we’ve learned, and we’ve wondered.
Today, here’s the best
of 3 years, all compressed,
To celebrate podcast 100!
How have we grown spiritually over the past 3 years?
How has our business changed over the past 3 years?
Kyeli’s epic healing journey treasure hunt
How has our attitude toward decluttering changed over the past 3 years?
Is there anything we regret about the past 3 years?
How has Kyeli’s “self love through selfies” practice changed over the past 3 years?
How has our use of social media changed over the past 3 years?
Being slomads
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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1h 9min
June 02, 2016WCML 099: Deconflate!
Fear says, “If you were sedate,
you would die.” But let’s get one thing straight.
You still have your good sense
Even when you’re not tense.
They’re two different things: deconflate!
fear vs. good sense
forgive vs. forget
kindness vs. doormat
WCML 025: The Superior Worf Hypothesis
romantic partner vs. one who meets all my needs
good parent vs. helicopter parent
female vs. stereotypically feminine
inherently depressed vs. depressed for an environmental reason
angry vs. hungry
unhappy vs. unhappy forever
having medical insurance vs. being able to go to the doctor
going to the party vs. staying at the party
Patty Newbold’s Third Alternative podcast
Why I hate compassion
your path vs. your Jewel
your calling vs. your business
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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43min
May 26, 2016WCML 098: Shame (and how to heal from it)
If you would like invincibility
from shame, fear, and irritability,
The only way you
Can achieve this is through
Compassion and vulnerability.
Brene Brown
guilt vs. shame
sex
Why I hate compassion
sword theory
how to heal from shame
how to speak in non-shaming ways
moral theory (with examples from Star Trek)
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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55min
May 19, 2016WCML 097: What’s New with Pace and Kyeli? A miraculous dream, a shamanic vision, and an imminent move, for starters…
Due to imminent landlord romancing,
Our location will soon be advancing.
There might be extremes
From miraculous dreams,
But we’re probably moving to…
WCML 056: The cycle of guidance
Kyeli’s miraculous dream
nurashkijerrahi.org
“Don’t let the hurt of the past prevent the growth of the future.” -Ellie di Julio
Kyeli’s shamanic vision
What to do when you get intense guidance but don’t know how to act on it?
Where to live?
Kyeli can drive!
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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1h
May 12, 2016WCML 096: Bigness and Smallness: Why we sometimes feel up to solving problems and sometimes feel daunted by them (and what to do about it)
Sometimes, you can handle it all.
Other times, you curl into a ball.
These lows and these highs
Are both caused by your size:
Sometimes you’re big, sometimes you’re small.
What do we mean by “bigness” and “smallness”?
How to become bigger
How to get a bigger mech suit
Empowerment
Compassion
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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43min
May 05, 2016WCML 095: How to Be You, with Jeffrey Marsh
Jeffrey Marsh is disinclined
To be censored, caged, or confined.
So let’s get unchained
And perhaps entertained.
To start, it is simple: be kind.
Jeffrey Marsh is a beautiful human being who has told millions of people that there is nothing wrong with them. Jeffrey’s new book, How to Be You, is about fanning the flames of the special spark that makes you you.
#DontSayThatsSoGay
#NoTimeToHateMyself
there is nothing wrong with you
self-hate is the root of all humanity’s problems
Whatever you’re told you’re too much of, that’s your spark.
How To Be You (Jeffrey’s new book!)
being kind to others and being kind to yourself
You can find Jeffrey at jeffreymarsh.com and by googling “jeffrey marsh” (:
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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58min
April 28, 2016WCML 094: MasterHeart: Like a mastermind but, you know, heartier.
First, find a good place to host it,
And purchase a butt-ton of post-its.
Your woes that frustrate
We’ll now illustrate
And together, we’ve soon diagnosed it.
Pace and Kyeli pull back the curtain and reveal their MasterHeart process, and how you can create your own MasterHeart group. Then, as an example, we go through Pace’s recent MasterHeart session, where she worked on burnout and identity.
How to create your own MasterHeart
Pace’s MasterHeart: recovering from burnout
the danger of workaholism
the fear of dying normal
“I follow my heart” vs. “I follow my heart, dammit!”
“lack of identity” as an identity (see WCML 063: Wild Crazy Meaningful Road Trip, Week 4 for more about the identity triangle we’re talking about)
What helps me stay at the top of the triangle?
What makes it easier to slide down to the bottom of the triangle?
takeaways: to-do items and reminders
Pace’s MasterHeart board:
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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55min
April 21, 2016WCML 093: Don’t “should” all over yourself: self-love and reducing negative self-talk
With only a slight risk of perjury
We’ll say that this show’s about surgery.
We’ll cut out your “should”
And heal it for good,
With the help of the rad Linda Mercury.
self-love, gender, and non-binary
WCML 083: The future of gender (part 2) with Ealasaid Haas
When you think “I should”, ask, “Who says?”
self-love for non-men
self-love for men
a word of encouragement
You can find Linda at lindamercury.com.
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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52min

FAQs about The Dervish and the Mermaid:

How many episodes does The Dervish and the Mermaid have?

The podcast currently has 287 episodes available.