The Dervish and the Mermaid

By Pace & Kyeli

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November 17, 2016WCML 112: It’s okay to rest
“Get out there and give it your best!
Your friends are all being oppressed!”
What if I’m too stressed,
Or madly depressed?
What if I need to just rest?
WCML 109: First, become okay. Afterward, you can deal with everything else.
WCML 059: Self-care is a form of social justice, with Marsha Philitas
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That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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23min
November 03, 2016WCML 111: Making new friends
An endeavor on which much depends
Is the process of making new friends.
So let’s deconflate
And recalibrate:
First, figure out what one intends.
First, get clear on exactly what you’re looking for. Second, figure out where and how to ask. Third, ask.
Hangoutability
Heartconnection
Favoraskability
The surprising power of “New in town”
WCML 049: Wild Crazy Meaningful Friendships, with Kylie Bellard
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That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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44min
October 20, 2016WCML 110: Moving shenanigans!
Due to all of our movin’ and panickin’
We have the brainpower of mannequins.
So here are the tales
Of the trips and travails
Of our Lansingward moving shenanigans.
The tale of our move to Lansing and all the hijinks that have ensued, along with our hard-learned lessons.
WCML 058: Technically accessible but not really
Video tour of our new house
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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46min
October 06, 2016 WCML 109: First, become okay. Afterward, you can deal with everything else.
When you’re losing your shit in the fray,
You must throw your perfection away.
Let go of tough stuff
And embrace “good enough”.
Priority One: be okay.
Our shortest podcast ever, with a simple but important message!
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That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

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10min
September 22, 2016WCML 108: “Talone time”, forking, and spooning
There’s two people in the same room,
Each toe-tapping to their own tune.
Here in New York,
We call that a fork,
And together time, we call a spoon.
being intentional with your time
The Power of Now
Finnish and Japanese
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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27min
September 08, 2016WCML 107: What Kelly learned from living with us for a year (and vice versa)
Our friendship never has wavered
Though we lived even closer than neighbors
Soon we have to adjourn
So let’s share what we learned
From our time together here at the Wayward
Ever wanted to live with us for a year? Well now you can – vicariously through Kelly! All 3 of us will share what we’ve learned from living together during 2016.
#thewaywardhouse
Muji
Bullet Journal
Bundle and Stow
Quiver
You can find Kelly at kellykingman.com.
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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1h 9min
August 25, 2016 WCML 106: Applied Pathfinding: Our hunt for a new home
Do you go with your logic so capable,
Or trust in your faith that’s unbreakable?
What we do and say
Is to ask and to pray
For the signs to be made unmistakable.
Here’s an update on our house hunt, and what we’ve learned about guidance, logic, and love in the process.
Also, Project Runway.
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!

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45min
August 11, 2016WCML 105: High-demand groups, part 2 of 2 (with Emma and Kelly)
Emma, with whom we’ll consult,
Is a lovely and awesome adult.
And if you’re concerned,
She’ll share what she learned
From spending six years in a cult.
(And Kelly I rashly insult.)
A high-demand group is a group that makes high demands on your time and attention, also sometimes your money, your beliefs, or even your body. Some of them are cults. Some of them are business development programs. Some of them are relationships. Here are four stories of very different high-demand groups, how to spot one, and how to get out.
WCML 104: High-demand groups, part 1 of 2 (with Emma and Kelly)
Emma’s story: meets Hinduism
Kyeli’s story: A high-demand relationship
Kelly’s story: Being raised a Jehovah’s Witness
Pace’s story: A business development program
A common feature of high-demand groups is an intro workshop in which they need your full attention for several days
Domestic violence and abusive/codependent relationships are often a high-demand group of size 2
Pursuing a non-traditional path leaves you vulnerable. How can you step away from the mainstream without getting caught up in an unhealthy high-demand group?
“The truth can take the heat of your direct confrontation and questions.” -Emma
Trusting doesn’t make you weak or a sucker. But faith doesn’t have to be blind faith.
Resources:
Dr. Robert J. Lifton’s 8 Criteria for Thought Reform
Influence by Cialdini
Janja Lalich
International Cultic Studies Association
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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1h 14min
July 28, 2016WCML 104: High-demand groups, part 1 of 2 (with Emma and Kelly)
Emma, with whom we’ll consult,
Is a lovely and awesome adult.
And if you’re concerned,
She’ll share what she learned
From spending six years in a cult.
(And Kelly I rashly insult.)
A high-demand group is a group that makes high demands on your time and attention, also sometimes your money, your beliefs, or even your body. Some of them are cults. Some of them are business development programs. Some of them are relationships. Here are four stories of very different high-demand groups, how to spot one, and how to get out.
Emma’s story: meets Hinduism
Kyeli’s story: A high-demand relationship
Resources:
Dr. Robert J. Lifton’s 8 Criteria for Thought Reform
Influence by Cialdini
Janja Lalich
International Cultic Studies Association
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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1h 29min
July 14, 2016WCML 103: Addiction
When you’re thinking about an addiction,
You think of a common affliction
Like smoking or booze.
You can also abuse
Control, or tattoos,
Or paddling canoes,
Or visiting zoos,
Or watching Tom Cruise
On Netflix, or news,
Or cooking great stews,
Or futzing with hues,
Or looking for clues,
Or standing in queues,
Perusing reviews,
Intent to amuse,
Victimhood, shoes,
Anxiety, blues,
Or reading historical fiction.
The Six Stages of Change (according to Changing for Good)
1. Precontemplation: just gather information
2. Contemplation: taste, examine blocks
3. Preparation: plan
4. Action: do it!
5. Maintenance: reward, appreciate, improve
6. Termination
WCML 098: Shame (and how to heal from it)
a webcomic about depression
Mary Lambert “Secrets”
Thanks for listening to Wild Crazy Meaningful Life! If you enjoyed this episode, please review us on iTunes and send your friends to WildCrazyMeaningfulLife.com.
That’s also where you can download my free eBook, Find Your Path Now. It’ll help you stop living on autopilot and start living the wild, crazy, meaningful life you were meant to live!
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55min

FAQs about The Dervish and the Mermaid:

How many episodes does The Dervish and the Mermaid have?

The podcast currently has 287 episodes available.