Over the past 35 years(?), I have counseled many couples who were contemplating divorce.  The one scripture that always comes to my mind is Gal. 6:7. “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.”  God gives us real freedom, but we are never free from the seeds we plant.  The pain and brokenness of divorce follows us and our children for a lifetime. When the Bible says that “God hates divorce,” it’s because He knows the pain that divorce causes.  I know that you cannot make your spouse reconcile.  But you can reach out for help.  Call a pastor, a counselor, a friend; read a book.  Discover your options and don’t forget that God is the God of miracles.