On this edition of #TheDojo with Modise away we invited Pam Tjelele to shoot the shit with. We kicked off the conversation looking at the news on the passing of actor Menzi Ngubane and actress Noxolo Maqashalala and we ponder on the plight of actors in the South African entertainment industry. We segue into a conversation on black pioneers, we discuss the responsibilities and expectations. We speak on the #StopAsianHate hashtag in light of the recent attacks the Asian community has been experiencing and muse on the raising of children to be prepared for the modern world. We look at the alleged accusations of grooming against Sithelo Shozi in regards to her relationship with Andile Mpisane. We ponder on the different expressions of love. We discuss the viral sex video of a prison warder having sex with a prisoner.