On this edition of #TheDojo we got Pam Tjelele back to come kick it with us once more, The pod begins on a somber note touching on the passing of DMX and Prince Philip. We ask each other which celeb death touched us deeply. We move on to discuss the phenomena entrenched in courting and social interactions between men and woman of gifting and acceptance of gestures in social settings that allow for one to have access to another, we look at rules, expectations and dangers associated with all this. We expound on being a gracious loser