On this penultimate episode of #TheDojo we kick off the Pod talking through a sms conversation between a guy and girl that went viral and speculate on the dynamics that may have been at play. We ponder on the question of whose responsibility it is to disclose one's HIV status when engaging in casual sex. We discuss the ever developing story of the Tembisa 10. We then segue into a conversation on leading a double life. We look at YWBN Bank and mull over how the MD of the would be bank, Nthabeleng Likotsi, has been handling the messaging around the bank and what the bank is trying to achieve. We lament on the latest bouts of loadshedding and deliberate on how SA and its people would have turned out had we been a military led state. We close of the Pod showing Mbali some love on her birthday week.