On this episode of #TheDojo, we kick off the episode with a lengthy discussion around friendships between men and how men handle conflict between themselves. We move on to discuss how often folks contact home and the sort of things they report on when contacting family especially if home, is not in the same province as place of work. We segue into a conversation of how much involvement should family have in ones romantic relationships. We ponder if men seek for their mothers in women they get involved in romantically. We very briefly answer listener given questions of whether outside validation is important to relationships and if men prefer crazy woman. We speculate on Khanyi Mbau and her Dubai trip. We round off the pod lamenting on the unemployment in the country in light of the recruitment call made by "Buns Out" and the turn out it received.