On this episode of #TheDojo we kick things off by briefly touching on dudes moving wild in the entertainment industry linked to alleged sexual inappropriate conduct. We segue into a debate around "Ho shobedisa" / "Ukuthwala". We ask if society would be better off if certain controlled substances were to be legalized. We share our thoughts on the prevalence of witchcraft and the growing popularity of Gogo Maweni. We dissect a question asked in a video clip of why men struggle to accept cheating when they are confronted with it but are usually happy and willing participants in the act. We ponder if its appropriate for single matriarchs to have affairs with younger men.