On this episode of #TheDojo with Dez and Mbali not present, We kick off the episode catching us up with what they have been up to, conversation segues into some musing on couple's retreats, couple behaviors and comparisons. The guys address the reactions to #TheDojo video clip we posted up earlier in the week. We ponder on life's contradictions. The conversation then moves to the guys giving their speculations of the ever growing prevalence of SA women dating foreigners especially foreigners from other African countries. We move on to give our thoughts on Freedom day and the significance of the holiday in light of where the country is. We give a listener, dealing with an unmotivated man, some advice, on our Dojo "sis dolly" segment. We touch on Mihlali getting outed for dating a married man. We close off the Pod giving another listener, dealing with a partner who has gained weight, advise.