On this episode of #TheDojo we kick the discussions off with our comments on the release of Flabba's murderer Sindisiwe Manqele and the public reactions to her getting parole. We share our thoughts around the abuse of Namhla Mtwa, ponder possibilities of making domestic violence a case against the state and the difficulties and complexities of opening crime cases with the police. We answer the question of whether there would be improvement to public governance should more black professionals join politics. We enter the Sis Dolly segment where we advise a listener in a romantic relationship with a woman who already has baby daddy, who seems to be getting attached. We advise a listener dealing with her feelings around two men, one her ex, who she has love for but a stable relationship seems elusive and her current partner, where the prospects of a stable relationship are there but are threatened by her feelings for her ex. We answer three rapid questions 1. would we take a finger up the bum for sexual pleasure? 2. When do gents want to spend money on a woman? 3. Ways to navigate the women in your family disliking the woman you dating? We close off the Pod advising listeners on how to navigate existing a job.