On this episode of #TheDojo, we are joined by friend of the show Pam Tjelele, we kick things off with our updates on the Senzo Meyiwa trial and our feelings around defense attorney Adv. Teffo getting struck from the roll. We dissect the scathing letter by sent by the principal of John Ross College to parents complaining about the poor conduct and discipline of the pupils of the school. We ponder how socio-economic dynamics effect the involvement of parents in the schools and the discipline of the kids. We give advise on our 1st Sis Dolly of the season, we ponder if a mental affair is deeper than the sexual affair. We wrap up the pod by answering the question “Would men know how pick men who are not deadbeat if they were in the position of women?”.