On this episode of #TheDojo, we catch up on what we have been up to and the proceed to get it in recapping the developing news in the rapper AKA murder in Durban, we speak on the CCTV footage, the family press briefing, memorial service and the conversations around the unique family dynamics at play. We segue into talking about funerals and if one's send off should reflect exactly how they lived and we look Vusi Ma R5's funeral and images that were coming from it as an example. We move on to debate Men's weaponized incompetence, we ask if men are really bad at unpaid work? and speculate how men position themselves to absolve themselves from certain responsibilities. We go on to ponder on what influences our money decisions.