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Master Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit their vendor booth where there will be some Dom Life products as well as podcast equipment on Friday (11/14). Listen in as they discuss obscure and unusual fetishes and practices related to BDSM activities. A few like trampling, macrophilia and crushing fetishes came up in a recent conversation; while others like figging and sounding were briefly mentioned in previous episodes; but a few items like Agalmatophilia and Vore were brand new to The DOM Life team.  Master Nick tells some stories of his early sexual experiences and dark fantasies surprising Lady Dee.  Listen in as he allows listeners a peek into his dark mind.  

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Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick appreciated this at the beginning of their relationship and why as a Dom sometimes paying attention to this will allow you to be a better dominant to that submissive. As always, in a D/s dynamic, open lines of communication is a requirement for a healthy interaction. 

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In this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as it could have a greater implication than just forgetfulness. Master Nick questions why submissives might choose to not use a safe word even when justified or expected. Lady Dee then asks question everyone has been wondering about – did you do it Master Nick???  And finally, we hope you enjoy the brief introduction to sexy AF - Dr Master Nick and crazy as can be - Loony Lady Dee. 

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Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis.  Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and products available at the event, as well as the dungeon play.  Lady Dee and Master Nick explain how the class on clothespins and clamps led to an eye-opening purchase and experience for Lady Dee. They were both so thankful for the opportunity to meet new and interesting people who are part of the Lifestyle. 

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Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outside forces impact your D/s Dynamic.  Lady Dee is back in her chair for The DOM Life podcast where she talks about what happened during the wreck as well as the aftermath including details about her injuries and recovery. Master Nick and Lady Dee provide insight on the loss of their dynamic and how everything changed full-stop but even that did not take away her being a submissive or him a Dominant. Those natural roles still impacted their interactions with each other and others. They discuss how communication has been the saving grace of their relationship and allowed them to be stronger during this difficult time and the small steps they have taken to get back into the D/s Dynamic. 

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Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues during the time sensitive interview with Sparkle Moonbeam, aka Shannon, from LiNK, Inc. discussing Kinktasia 2025.  Shannon tells all, okay almost all, to The DOM Life on the plans in the works for Kinktasia in Louisville, KY and how it expanded to a 2-day event located at 2 different venues. She details out the Carnival night on Friday at Art Sanctury and gives listeners details on some of the vendors, food, performances, games, and possibly artwork up for sale from Art Sanctury artist as they raise money in an effort to move into a new location.  Shannon discusses how, Saturday, day two of Kinktasia brought about some volunteer opportunities to clean up a venue that needed the assistance which will be the location of the classes and the dungeon. She said the plan is to start your day with yoga and end your day with some kink! The dungeon has two floors with an elevator and there will be multiple areas set up with rope rigs, crosses, massage tables, after care areas and other dungeon equipment.  Be sure to buy your tickets as soon as possible.  

FOR MORE INFORMATION/TICKETS:

www.louisvillenk.com

www.kinktasia.com

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Master Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into their kinky lives which include Shibari, open and poly relationships, performances, exhibitionism, voyeurism, birthday spankings, trust, sub-space, D/s relationships, outdoor kink and, of course, they circle back around to where it all began and where it will go for the upcoming 2025 Kinktasia scheduled cabaret performances. Join The DOM Life as laughter rings out about Pumpkin Spice, Eros performing for the ladies, and his cooking skills.  

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Master Nick and Lady Dee are so excited to have the second performer from the Kinktasia 2024 Burlesque performance, Erratic Eros on the show. We take a step back in time to episode 16 where Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about the amazing performance from Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros. The only thing about that episode, we didn't know them!!! After meeting Dan at a comedy event, he made sure to invite Eros to the interview so we could get to know him better. To our surprise, there was a whole kinky side to Eros that we get to discuss. Settle in for this entertaining episode.

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Master Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktasia 2024. Lady Dee selected his burlesque performance as her favorite. In this episode of The Dom Life, Dan will fill you in on how and where to learn Burlesque dancing in the Louisville area.  He discusses that in his mind he is at the French Vanilla level of kink and acknowledges that voyeurism and exhibitionism are areas that appeal to him. While attending local Sloshes and Munches and even an LiNK Dungeon, he has found his community. Master Nick and Lady Dee are awed to hear all about his story of survival, wearing capes and how Burlesque has improved his health. And, the surprise they mention to the listeners… will wait for another week.  

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In Part 2, Master Nick and Lady Dee hear details on some of the national Spankos events including educational classes which have included soaping, strapping 101, negotiations, role playing and even rope. KentuckyGirl talks about an event called Court where there is a “Judge” and how to bring court cases against each other – fun cases. There is a schoolgirl social event for middles which is exactly as it sounds with attitude in a fun way, then there is Detention which was one of the best stories Lady Dee has ever heard during their time recording The DOM Life podcast. Master Nick learns about figging and KentuckyGirl discusses punishment and humiliation as it relates to Spankos. 

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