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In this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos.  KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard tools used as a Spanker to include hair brushes, spoons, belts, paddles, and don’t forget the ever-favorite - hands. She provides insight to the Spankos mentality and how it differs from BDSM. Lady Dee was surprised to hear that penetration was not necessary after a good spanking, in fact, it takes away from the experience for KentuckyGirl. While Master Nick decided that he can show a very sexy way to remove a belt. KentuckyGirl discusses the national events available for Spankos and begins detailing out what the events look like and some things that occur.  This is part one of a two-part episode.  

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Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss a common meeting set up by local kink and BDSM communities which are called a slosh or munch. Slosh is when alcohol is involved and it is typically at a bar, while a munch is at restaurants. This is an opportunity to meet other like-minded individuals at a safe, public space.  In this episode, they discuss attending an LNK (Louisville Network of Kink) slosh called Cocktails and Conversations where they provide a breakdown of the event. They also announce their attendance at the Indianapolis IN Leather and Kink Weekend on 9/12 to 9/14 as well as Kinktasia 2025, where they will bring their podcast equipment, in November. 

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As a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness to show all listeners what it’s really like living with her. Still discussing Day 1 from the A Frayed Knot 3-day Self-Tying Summit, the final two classes with RedHoneyRopes and Dirt Queen were detailed out.  RedHoneyRopes instructed the class on a chest harness as well as the Futomomo leg tie. Dirt Queen then provided the fundamentals of lower body harnesses, by having participants tie single columns on all areas of the legs and then taught a booty basket.  Day 2 of the self-tying summit was impressive with every mat and every station having a suspension rig. Mika and Lilith were forced to take point on the discussion of the classes from the second day when Master Nick heralded in the crickets.  Snapped Ginger did an amazing job covering the basics of self-suspension safety, hardpoints, where to buy equipment, rating of equipment and tying an upline.  After attendees suspended backpacks and bags, Air then covered the next step of tips and tricks for self-suspension allowing the class to interact, ask question and get feed back before suspending. This was followed up by the class from RedHoneyRopes who ties an Agura in partial suspension - Lilith was impressed with the beauty and strength of this tie. Although they were unable to attend Dirt Queen’s class on Self-tie synthesis: transitions through levels, they did hear about the class and saw picture of Dirt Queen and Air’s suspension results from labbing it out. Sit back and enjoy this episode unedited with bloopers as they happened.  

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Master Nick wakes up from his nap and engages with Lilith, Mika and Lady Dee who finish the introduction of the Share Bears including how daddy issues, family issues and other trauma brought them into the kink world before moving onto the topic of the day – AFK 3-day Self-tying Summit. Together they walk through some of the classes from the first day before running out of time (again).  Master Nick expresses his gratitude for the breakfast provided during the event. The first class discussed was led by Snapped Ginger getting everyone warmed up for the day and reconnecting the movement of the body with the mind, Captain Leviathan’s class was next which provided a much-needed review of the basic knots, and afterwards is Air’s class about being creative with rope and ties – it’s all about free-form. The DOM Life episode dives into single column, risk profiles, safety and using a pocket knife to cut rope.  Just say NO.  

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This episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on the job. Lilith & Mika are queer platonic partners, who live life strongly in the kink and BDSM world. Lilith & Mika are both submissives, but Lilith is exploring her switch side. Lilith, a sadomasochist, can take a ton of pain and says she feels giddy at others pain; while Mika identifies as a little and a good girl with an affinity for rope.  They attended the AFK Self-tying summit and will help give a run down after this meet and greet episode. Don’t miss the many sounds of giggles from the submissives this episode.  

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After leaving you hanging last week from Master Nick's question, Sir Dante explains his reasoning for not using his dominance to end a relationship disagreement. Together they discuss what they feel are the best ways to solve miscommunication and misunderstanding while still being in a Dom/submissive relationship. Master Nick and Sir Dante discuss their past experiences with Dom Space but are still eager to learn more from others who can describe the feelings of it. They also talk about their perspective of Primal/prey play, and surprisingly they both have different ways of looking at it. 

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Do you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding personal knowledge and understand different perspectives. A good Dom should always ask questions, gathering as much information as possible. Today, Master Nick and Sir Dante kick of the first episode of Dom Discussions. The discussion covers what makes a good Dom, what does a good Dom do in a BDSM scene which includes the prep, the buildup and immersing yourself in the mind of a submissive. Once it begins you must be prepared to make sure it flows well without interruption or distractions. Dante does spill the beans on his all-time favorite scene with Zorra as well as a potential punishment that she would hate!  Right when Master Nick and Sir Dante get into how to live a 24/7 D/s Relationship it’s time to end the episode.  

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Master Nick and Lady Dee take a moment to discuss their new Social Media/Marketing Manager Jess, and improvements to The DOM Life podcast which include finding content, camera upgrades, and event attendance.  They discuss the A Frayed Knot (AFK) 3-day self-tying summit’s five amazing rope performances which were split with 3 on Friday and 2 on Saturday night. While not a play-by-play, they discuss their thoughts, feeling and try to describe the performances by SnappedGinger, SubtextSadie, Air, RedHoneyRopes, and DirtQueen. Watch for future episodes which provide the breakdown of the education and classes during the same 3-day summit. 

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In Part 2, Lady Dee and Zorra spend a hot minute during The DOM Life podcast getting into their past BDSM relationships and the differences between each. They discuss how being in a 24/7 dynamic while in a relationship versus a purely D/S dynamic sometimes impacts the actual power exchange. Lady Dee opens up on how she failed as a full-time Dominant, while Zorra discusses how her contract with Sir Dante differentiates between sassing and bratting.  Both Lady Dee and Zorra express a desire to do a high protocol dinner event with submissives serving, a Mistress coordinating and overseeing, with the Dominants being served.  

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Lady Dee and Zorra sit down for an intimate discussion on their past relationships that involved BDSM and how it helped and sometimes hindered their current relationship. The end goal is by reflecting on their pasts they might strengthen and improve their understanding of their current relationships.  

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