We’ve all heard the saying, ‘You can’t love someone until you love yourself.’ Well, today on the Self Love Breakfast Club, Chrystal challenges this statement by suggesting that you absolutely can love someone else even if you don’t first love yourself, but it is so much better when you do. Chrystal opens up about her own journey with self-love and explains how her ability to love herself has affected her relationship with her husband over the past 10 years. She explains how, when we feel that we are not worthy of love, we tend to fall into unhealthy behaviors, often looking to someone else to fill the holes in ourselves with their love. She breaks down some of the unhealthy behaviors that often arise in relationships; such as abandoning our friends, hobbies, interests, and the things that bring us joy, as well as needing constant attention, compliments, or approval from the other person. She then gives us some practical advice on how to cultivate self-love when you are in a relationship. Tuning in, you’ll hear about the difference between support and dependency in a relationship, and the dangers of getting involved with narcissists. Find out how to take that love that you so freely give to other people and turn it inward, today!