In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, hosts Michael Preston, Michael Barnett, and Dr. Silvina Irwin delve into the intricacies of EFT, focusing on the 'Tango' moves in therapy.

They explore how these moves help couples connect emotionally and create new relational experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of vulnerability, emotional engagement, and the systemic nature of EFT, providing listeners with insights into the therapeutic process and its impact on relationships.

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett and Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites www.michaelbarnettlpc.com or www.drsilvinairwin.com

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

www.michaelprestonlpc.com

For more info on Michael's Tango Course visitwww.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango

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This EFT Podcast Mini episode introduces Dr. Silvina Irwin to the show.

We are so excited to have Dr. Irwin lend her wisdom to the show. She will be joining us as a regular co-host to the show. She has been and EFT Trainer in Los Angels for nearly a decade and helped bring EFT trainings to the Spanish speaking community!

Learn more about her in today's episode!

Leave a comment to join us in welcome Dr. Silvina Irwin to The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast!

Learn More about Dr. Irwin and her work @ www.drsilvinairwin.com

In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, hosts Michael Preston and Michael Barnett discuss the intricacies of the EFT Tango, focusing on moves one and two. They explore the goals and processes involved in these stages, emphasising the importance of understanding the dynamics between partners and the emotional narratives that drive their interactions. The conversation highlights the significance of creating a safe space for clients to explore their emotions and the role of repetition in therapy.

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett visit his

websitewww.michaelbarnettlpc.com

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

www.michaelprestonlpc.com

For more info on Michael's Tango Course visitwww.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango

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In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, hosts Michael Preston and Michael Barnett discuss the intricacies of EFT and its impact on relationships. They explore various techniques and share personal insights to help listeners better understand and apply EFT in their own lives.

LINKS:

To join EFTLCA for their Externship in November check out EFTCLA's website or visit Dr. Silvina Irwin's website

www.drsilvinairwin.com

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett visit his website

www.michaelbarnettlpc.com

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

www.michaelprestonlpc.com

For more info on Michael's Tango Course visit

www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango

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In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy podcast, hosts Michael Preston and Michael Barnett delve into the intricacies of Stage 1 of the EFT Tango. We explore how EFT Therapists use the Tango in stage 1 to help couples identify core emotional processes that organize their negative interaction cycle. Out conversation highlights the profound impact of attachment theory in therapy and offers insights into facilitating deep, meaningful change in relationships. Join us as we unpack the steps to help couples move from distress to secure attachment.

LINKS:

To join EFTLCA for their Externship in November check out EFTCLA's website or visit Dr. Silvina Irwin's website

eftcla.org

drsilvinairwin.com

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett visit his website

michaelbarnettlpc.com

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

michaelprestonlpc.com

In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast, hosts Michael Preston and Michael Barnett explore the intricate process of EFT, focusing on the stages and steps involved in therapy. They discuss the importance of understanding the EFT process model, the role of the Tango, and how therapists can guide clients through emotional experiences to foster secure attachments.

LINKS:

To join EFTLCA for their Externship in November check out EFTCLA's website or visit Dr. Silvina Irwin's website

eftcla.org

drsilvinairwin.com

To learn more about working with or training with Michael Barnett visit his website

michaelbarnettlpc.com

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

michaelprestonlpc.com

Steps as Guideposts for therapeutic progress document:

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In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of vulnerability and attachment in therapy. Join hosts Michael Barnett and Michael Preston as they explore how authentic connections and emotional fluency can lead to profound personal growth and relational healing. Discover how therapy helps individuals embrace their authentic selves, fostering deeper trust and emotional security in relationships. Tune in to learn how these therapeutic processes can create relationships that not only heal but thrive.

LINKS:

To join EFTLCA for their Externship in November check out Dr. Silvina Irwin's website or Michael Barnett's website

www.drsilvinairwin.com.

www.michaelbarnettlpc.com

or.

www.EFTLCA.org

To learn more about working with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit Michael's website.

www.michaelprestonlpc.com

For More Information on joining Michael Barnett, Dr. Irwin, and Michael Preston at the EFTCLA Externship in November visit www.drsilvinairwin.com or www.eftcla.org

Join hosts Michael Preston and Michael Barnett as they delve into the intricacies of Stage Two in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This episode explores the profound impact of addressing attachment fears and needs, and how therapists can guide couples through deep emotional healing. Discover the importance of the therapist-client relationship and the transformative power of vulnerability in therapy.

Key Topics:

Understanding Stage Two in EFT The role of attachment fears and needs Therapist-client dynamics in emotional healing The significance of vulnerability and trust

Highlights:

Michael Barnett shares insights on the challenges therapists face in guiding clients through deep emotional work. Michael Preston discusses the importance of creating a safe space for clients to explore their attachment fears. The hosts emphasize the transformative potential of EFT in fostering long-lasting relationship changes.

To work with Michael Preston for EFT Supervision visit www.michaelprestonlpc.com

To learn more about working or training with Michael Barnett visit www.michaelbarnettlpc.com

Summary

In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast, hosts Michael Preston and Michael Barnett discuss the importance of de-escalation in relationships, the markers that indicate progress, and the significance of vulnerability and emotional availability between partners. The conversation emphasizes the transition to Stage Two of therapy, highlighting the need for stability and understanding before moving forward.

Takeaways:

- Stage One is crucial for building a solid relationship foundation.

- De-escalation involves recognizing and addressing emotional patterns.

- Vulnerability is key to deepening emotional connections.

- Couples often rush to Stage Two without fully completing Stage One.

- Markers of de-escalation include improved communication and emotional awareness.

- Therapists should ensure couples are ready before moving to Stage Two.

- Emotional availability and responsiveness are essential for relationship security.

- Real-life examples illustrate the dynamics of therapy in action.

- Both partners must engage in the process for effective therapy.

- Transitioning to Stage Two requires stability and mutual understanding.

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Welcome to the Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast!

In this episode, hosts Michael Barnett and Michael Preston dive deep into the foundational elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), focusing specifically on Stage One of couples therapy.

Join us as we explore:

• The unique challenges couples face when conflict disrupts their connection.
• The importance of understanding the emotional cycles that couples create.

• The significance of de-escalation and how it serves as a gateway to deeper emotional healing.

Whether you're a therapist looking to enhance your practice or a couple seeking to understand your relationship dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights into the art and science of EFT.

Don't forget to subscribe for more episodes and visit our websites for training and supervision opportunities!

Hosts:Michael Barnett: michaelbarnettlpc.com

Michael Preston: michaelprestonlpc.com

Tune in and take the first step towards a deeper understanding of your emotional connections!