The Enneagram Edge with Host Tracy O’Malley

You've been taught, told, and modeled things that keep you stuck.

From multimillionaires and CEOs, to psychologists, doctors, and lawyers, guilt and shame are the number one thing people say hold them back.

A lot of the time those feelings are handed to us due to a lack of support from those we love the most.

You are no different. And those same emotions can keep you stuck too.

But you get only one shot at this life.

So, how do you take steps to repair the parts of yourself that are holding you back so you can start walking your talk?

Today on the show, I'm walking you through how to build your emotional intelligence muscles.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I share some of the reasons we choose to stay stuck, instead of learning to use the tools that would help us move to the next level life we dream of.

I discuss why the people closest to us sometimes have the most difficulty seeing and supporting us in our vision for our life—and why that cycle needs to end with you!

Listen in to discover the one thing you can change that will move you forward so you can level up your life.

If you've been listening for a long time and you've been feeling the call to do Private VIP coaching with me, NOW is the time! Reach out to me on Instagram or tracyomalley.com apply.

What You Will Learn

Why your level of emotional intelligence determines your ability to walk your talk
The hardest part of reaching your full potential
The 3 keys to building your emotional fitness muscle
Why the greatest legacy of success in life isn't wealth
The #1 biggest responsibility of parents who want to raise self-aware adults
Why it's vital to take a daily inventory to align with your deepest desires
Why people don’t get the genuine, in-the-trenches help they need for the journey ahead

Connect with Tracy

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www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected] n

Resources

Apply for VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

I want to be in the 2% emotionally, physically, and financially.

And I am willing to do what is required, and whatever it takes—I am here for it.

Is it always easy? No, and most of the time, it isn't convenient either.

But if you want to reach the 2%, you will have to walk through conflicts of all types, because true surrender means having no contingency plan.

Today on the show, I'm delivering another (loving) dose of BTE — Big Tracy Energy.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I am walking you through the reasons why most people never make it to the 2% in overall personal development.

I'll discuss the BIG requirements to see real breakthroughs in all areas of your life, including what might be holding you back and what you might need to walk away from.

Listen in to discover why surrender alone isn't enough to move the needle in your life and why treading lightly (with the wrong people) will only keep you stuck and frustrated.

So, if you are ready to dump your fear and jump in to level up your life, listen to learn how to begin making big strides toward the purpose of your life.

Real magic happens when you fully surrender and then act! If you're ready to take your next step, I have ONE VIP private one-on-one coaching spot open. Reach out to me on Instagram or go to my website to apply.

What You Will Learn

The hardest part of reaching your full potential
Why conflict is the real key to your next level of life
Why uncomfortable seasons are cyclical (hint: it has nothing to do with you)
Why new levels of growth always bring about more challenging conflicts
How your Plan B holds you back
Why "next levels" are almost always hidden behind hard conversations and challenging moves
Why diving into self-growth with the wrong guide is worse than standing on the sidelines
Why all that stuff you are running from is where your true greatness lies
Why surrender alone isn't enough to move the needle in your life


Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for the LAST VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching Spot:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

One thing I often hear in my work is, 'it's been on my heart to write a book.’

But it's a very vulnerable process.

And that keeps so many people from following their book-writing dream.

So, how do you overcome the fear of putting your story in a book?

Today, I'm bringing back one of the most inspirational people in my life. Jake Kelfer was on the show to do an Enneagram typing session a few months ago, and I've invited him back today because what he does and how he helps people write their books is inspiring.

Jake Kelfer is a 29-year-old powerhouse entrepreneur, speaker, book coach, and author. He's the author of three books: Elevate Beyond, Elevate Your Network, and The Elevated Entrepreneur. But his real gift is coaching others to help them make their book writing dreams come true.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, Jake shares why he believes 'that there is somebody out there that is waiting for you to give them your message in your voice ... and 'the most important thing you can do is find a way to give them that gift.'

We discuss the one question that put Jake on the trajectory of writing his first book in less than six months at just 23 years old and his passion and the purpose of helping entrepreneurs, executives and experts turn their dream of writing a book into a reality.

Listen in to hear Jake's story of transitioning from his dream of being a sports agent to helping others become best sellers and why he believes life is just one big game and you just have to show up and play.
Plus, what you need to do before you start writing your book!

If you're looking for YOUR true path to making an impact that will change lives in this world, book YOUR Enneagram Kickstart Session today!


What You Will Learn

Why you don't have to achieve something to be able to give something
How Jake has learned to send the right energy out to connect with the right people
Why it's vital to ask the right questions for honest conversation
The advice Jake's dad gave him that helped him overcome his doubts and insecurities about writing a book about career development (at age 23)
Why Jake's bigger mission made him write his second book
How Jake reinvented his dream to help more people make a bigger impact
Jake shares why anybody can benefit from writing a book
The critical reason writing a book will help you stand out to consumers over other options
Jake shares how much information you must have ready to start the book writing process
The 3-prong approach to high-level accountability
Jake shares his 90-day challenge to write his 4th bestseller

Connect with Jake Kelfer

Jake Kelfer:
https://www.jakekelfer.com/
Jake Kelfer on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/jakekelfer/


Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

FREE Training: Write your book in 1hr!:
https://www.jakekelfer.com/booktraining.html
Elevate Beyond:
https://www.amazon.com/Elevate-Beyond-Standing-Discovering-Becoming/dp/1530841011?ie=UTF8&keywords=elevate%20beyond&qid=1460353267&ref_=sr_1_1&sr=8-1
Elevate Your Network:
https://freebook.elevateyournetworkbook.com/free-book1591037648484
The Elevated Entrepreneur:
https://www.amazon.com/Elevated-Entrepreneur-Unlocking-Performers-Entrepreneurs-ebook/dp/B09J2WDJYZ
Use Your Enneagram Type To Write Your Book & Scale Your Business with Tracy O’Malley on the Big Idea to Bestseller Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/use-your-enneagram-type-to-write-your-book-scale-your/id1629775168?i=1000571065973
Apply for the LAST Summer VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching Spot:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

Impact is not one size fits all.

One of the things I often hear from my clients and even in my DMs on Instagram is that you want to make an impact. You want to make a difference and help people.

The truth is whatever impact you want to make is going to require something of you. And we're not all wired the same. What may be right for someone else might leave you feeling drained, out of your depth, and ready to quit.

So how do you determine which type of impact will both light you up and be authentically true for you?

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I'm again breaking out some of that BTE [Big Tracy Energy] to walk you through how you can use the Enneagram to home in on your natural gifts so you can change people's lives without energetically bankrupting yourself.

Listen in as I break down what impact is and how you can use the instinctual variants of the Enneagram to determine how to work in flow with your authentic self and use your God-given gifts to send BIG ripples of change into the world.

If you're looking for YOUR true path to making an impact that will change lives in this world, book YOUR Enneagram Kickstart Session today!

What You Will Learn

Why working in a smaller container can sometimes lead to a more significant impact
How to determine which type of impact is in alignment with your Enneagram type
Why part of the goal of self-awareness is to toggle between the 3 three instinctual subtypes of the Enneagram
How the Enneagram can help you discover more opportunities for more significant impact
Why leaning into your zone of genius is the key to stepping into your flow
Why trying to duplicate someone else's influence will only leave you energetically bankrupt
How to get the right tools to increase your impact no matter your age

Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for the LAST Summer VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching Spot:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Email [email protected]

Most Enneagram Type 3s accelerate all the time, which can lead to high levels of burnout.

But the real gift of the 3 is knowing when accelerate and when to pull back.

When I first met Danielle Langton, I could feel her Enneagram Type 3 Energy from across the room, but then I saw her step back, which impressed me, so I wanted to invite her onto the show.

Danielle Langton spent more than a decade working with brands and retailers, such as the H.J. Heinz Company, Dick's Sporting Goods, vineyard vines, and Lily Pulitzer, on new product development and strategic selling. Now, she is a strategic business consultant and coach who helps her clients "create a life, not just a living."

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, Danielle shares why she walked away from her dream job at a tech startup and then used her grittiness and accountability to sign her first $60,000 consulting contract just 30 days later.

Listen in as Danielle shares the lessons she's learned through the ebb and flow of her business, how she's found fulfillment in the shift, and why leaning into different iterations of what you do can take you closer to the end goal. Plus, her one piece of advice for people who have a big dream but are scared to take the leap.


What You Will Learn

How success without a soul led Danielle to shift her focus on only the goal line
Why relationships are the key to moving ahead in business
Why it's critical to be selective about the types of people you want to serve in your business
How the universe steps in to protect you from what you don't want
The biggest metrics you need to have in your pocket to do your best work
How you can use your past successes to embolden the future when you feel like the bottom is falling out in your businesses
How pivoting can sometimes be the key that unlocks the end goal
The top 3 things you can do right now to take a step toward your calling
Danielle's #1 piece of advice for stepping out of the fear that's keeping you from your dreams

Connect with Danielle

Danielle Langton: https://daniellelangton.com/
Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielle_langton_/
FREE Workshop: 5 Ways to Increase Revenue in Your Online Business, August 8, 2022


Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for the LAST VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching Spot: http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session: http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

Abundance and Manifesting are two of the most [over] used words in the self-growth industry.

Many of you are consuming all the information, taking every course, and hiring coaches and strategists on your quest for more growth.

But are you growing in the way that you wanted to?

So often, we continue to consume because we believe there's something we're missing somewhere.

I'm here to tell you—there's not.

But to make room for the abundance you desire, you must integrate ALL you've learned.

And that's the hardest part.

So, how can you stop beating yourself up, bypass roadblocks and landmines and leave less wreckage behind on your path to abundance?

Today on the show, I'm lovingly delivering a hefty dose of BTE — Big Tracy Energy.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I am walking you through why all the courses you are doing, books you are reading, and even some so-called 'experts' aren't helping you make the most desired changes in your life.

I'll discuss why real change causes disruptions and why poking the bear causes the voices in your head to scream, 'who do you think you are?' But you don't have to stay stuck there.

Listen in to discover why having a partner by your side when you are in the trenches of change will help you finally step into who you were meant to be.

Plus, why the ROI of having [the right] guide with you on your journey to manifesting the life of your dreams is worth every dime you will invest.

I know many of you want more abundance in your lives. If you're tired of consuming and not integrating, I'm your girl! I have ONE VIP private one-on-one coaching spot open. Reach out to me on Instagram or click here to apply.


What You Will Learn

Why the song "The Gambler" is a perfect mantra for making BIG growth changes in your life
Why doing the actions to change is like poking the bear to you and those you love
Why 'manifesting' and 'abundance' are [overused] meaningless words without an action plan in place
How to bypass the roadblocks and landmines on the path to abundance
Why all the podcasts, books, coaches, programs, and even the Enneagram are just rusty tools sitting on a shelf without the work
Why letting go is the real key to the abundance you dream of
Why the ROI of having the right coach is worth every dime you will invest

Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for the LAST VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching Spot: http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session: http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

Even within conflict and dysfunctional families, if people are willing to do the work, we can take something hard and painful and turn it into beauty and have it serve something absolutely incredible in this world.

Whether yours is traditional, more modern, made up of people who share the same blood, or not, we're all part of a family. And it's those relationships that can be the source of our biggest joys.

But they can also bring about our biggest heartaches.

So, how do we use the Enneagram to navigate family dynamics, resolve conflicts, and find compassion for even some of the most challenging, painful things that happen within a family unit?

Today on the show, I discuss how you can break out of generational cycles of dysfunction and find the path to better communication and healed relationships.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I am walking you through how the power of the Enneagram can be used to help each member of your family discover their core and role in your family unit. Plus, I share the types of questions you can ask your family members to narrow down their Enneagram type.

Listen in to discover what can happen in today's families through the gifts and wisdom of the Enneagram.

There is nothing like a strong team, especially the family unit, whatever that looks like for you.
Reach out to me on Instagram or click here to discover a customized coaching package that will work for your family dynamic.

What You Will Learn

How can the Enneagram help you navigate your family dynamics
How you can use the lessons from your family for personal growth
How to teach this generation what healthy communication looks like
Why it's often necessary to set boundaries with family to find healing and growth
How you can FINALLY break generational cycles of abuse and dysfunction
Why understanding your role in your family will reduce conflict and improve communication
Why skipping steps in the grieving process opens the door for a future with 'the same situations, the same package, just different wrapping paper'
How understanding the centers of intelligence brings better communication into ALL your relationships
How to ask the right questions to find out which center of intelligence your family members operate from
Why compassion is the key to healing in all relationships (including the one with the person in the mirror)
Where the real magic happens when using the Enneagram with our families

Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

Most of us grew up not being exposed to personal development.

But things are different today. Now, we strive to harness the power of self-growth for the people in our families and our businesses, too.

I spend a lot of my time in the trenches with high-level leaders of multi-million-dollar corporations or coaching CEOs of smaller companies who want to grow.

So, how can you harness the passion of the right Enneagram expert to take your business, home, or coaching practice to the next level quickly and effectively?

Today on the show, I am walking you through how you can use the power of the Enneagram to become a more empathetic leader, invest in your people, and leverage the internal superpowers of every individual in your life, from your team at work to each family member.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I discuss how you can approach workplace conflict in a way that will foster growth. I’ll walk you through how making sure every person on your team feels understood will not only catapult individual growth but will help you scale.

Listen in to discover how the power of Enneagram coaching can help you channel individual and collective growth for better teamwork and a bigger bottom line.

Do you wish you had somebody on your team that could help you effectively harness the superpowers of every member of your organization or family? I've helped 1000s of people with all parts of their life personally and professionally.

Reach out to me on Instagram or click here to discover a customized coaching package that will work for you!

What You Will Learn

What happens to the bottom line of a business when leadership focuses on their employees
Where is the most measurable growth found
How to approach conflict in the workplace in an empathetic way
The real reason generational conflicts continue for decades
How the Enneagram can help you be a more effective partner in ALL relationships
What's the energy vampire and source of misunderstanding in all relationships
How leaders can leverage the power of every single person on their team


Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

No matter what you know about the Enneagram or how you move through its framework and the centers of intelligence, I want you to know that the body never lies.

We have three centers of intelligence: the head (intellectual), the heart (emotional), and the body (physical).

But the one that should be your main compass is your body. Your body is the house and vehicle for your core Enneagram type.

So how can you learn to tune into what your body is trying to tell you?

Today on the show, I am introducing you to the importance of combining somatic work with emotional intelligence and the Enneagram.

I walk you through my two-and-a-half-year health scare and how 14 different specialists failed to tell me what my own body was trying to communicate.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I discuss what intuition really is and how you can listen to the signs and symptoms your body is sending you and marry that information with the tools of the Enneagram to free yourself from suffering a lot faster.

Listen in to learn how to honor your vessel and heed your inner compass so you can relax and let go of the things that are disrupting your life more quickly, because a body that is calm and in flow can do magical things in this world.

Did you know an Enneagram Kickstart Session is about more than just discovering your type? It's a deep dive into the mind-body connection and learning to listen to your intuition for success in all areas of your life. Click here to book yours TODAY!

What You Will Learn

What is the missing piece in the world of the Enneagram
What your nervous system is trying to tell you
How the body, soul, intuition, and The Divine are all connected
How using the Enneagram with your body's alert system can help you get to the root of your problems
The connection between symptoms in certain parts of our body and stressors in your life
The fastest way to free yourself from suffering
Why it's vital to marry the Enneagram and the somatic work for a NEXT LEVEL life

Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]

"If you aren't happy with your Enneagram type, chances are you've been typed properly."

We all have our own unique challenges that come with our Enneagram type, but just because it looks easy for another type doesn't mean it is.

But what do you do when you resent your Enneagram type and want to be something other than what you are?

Today's show is a Q&A where I am tackling two of the questions, I've recently received on my Instagram page. I'm discussing how each type can use the tools of Enneagram to become more comfortable in their own skin—because we are who we are!

I share examples of some experiences from my life journey to show you how to use the Enneagram when the rubber meets the road in your own life.

On this episode of The Leadership Formula, I also discuss how you can stop resenting your type and start leveraging who you are. Plus, I'm offering tips on using the tools of the Enneagram to meet someone with compassion even when you are fed up with their unacceptable actions (including yourself).

Listen in for tips on how each Enneagram type can use their growth number to take contrary action and shift out of emotions such as fear, insecurity, shame, and guilt that keep you stuck and into who you were designed to be.

Being typed properly is a huge part of the Enneagram equation. If you want to be sure and seen, click to book an Enneagram Kickstart Session. If you're ready to empower all areas of your life and have me on speed dial as your guide, click here to apply for 1:1 Enneagram Coaching.

What You Will Learn

How each Enneagram type can use its growth number to shift into a different place emotionally
How contrary action can lead you out of the resentment over the downfalls of your Enneagram type
Why more play and less rigidity is the key to overcoming insecurity for Enneagram type 1s
How taking a spa day can help Enneagram 2s show shame to the door
Why focusing on creating processes will shift Type 3s out of stress mode
Why a day spent organizing a closet is just the structured activity a Type 4 needs to lose the feelings of guilt
Why booking a trip or applying for that job will help an Enneagram 5 shut down their fear of change
How having a little faith will help an Enneagram 6 see the bigger picture instead of getting stuck in the emotions of the current moment
How taking a solo vacation can help Enneagram 7s gain the focus to bring their big visions to life
How picking up the phone and reaching out can help an Enneagram 8 shift from ego into love and grace
Why it might be beneficial for a stressed-out type 9 to express their feelings to a trusted confidant instead of burying their head in the sand

Connect with Tracy

tracyomalley.com
www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley
www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley
twitter.com/TracyOMall
www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/
Email Tracy [email protected]

Resources

Apply for 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:
http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/
Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582
Email [email protected]