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This week in the Yoniverse, we are bringing a conversation to light that we have been seeing lately in the Divine Feminine spirituality spaces in social media - a conversation which seems, quite frankly, anti-Trans and Transphobic. To add additional depth, color and relevance to the conversation, we have Lady Veronika Mirage on the show with us. Veronika is a Transgender adult content creator, as well as a top phone sex actress on NiteFlirt. Additionally, Veronika is an accredited Hypnotherapist and Past Life Regression Therapist. Finally, Veronika is the Leading Lady of the House of Mirage, a safe space for Trans Women in all stages of their transition.

Today we dive into…

• Understanding more about Veronika, her life and journey to where she is today; 
• The conversations we started seeing sprout up predominantly on Instagram around taking a stand against using pronouns, and standing with “truth”, which these individuals define as the biology you are born with; 
• The rhetoric around Trans people having a condition of psychosis that needs treatment feeling very similar to the long history of societal structures using hysteria and psychosis to undermine, sterilize and lock up women; 
• How Veronika feels about the state of things for Trans people in this U.S.; 
• The parallels between what we’re hearing here and the agenda of trans-exclusionary radical feminists (TERFs); 
• Our clear and unequivocal position at TFY and SlutSisters :: Transgender woman are and forever will be welcome at our table. We stand for expansion, inclusivity and kindness.

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Loves, we’ve got a little smorgasbord for you in this one. Fun announcements, gratitude for you - our amazing audience and supporters, dreams that make you go hmmmmmm….and revisiting the mamas in our lives with some updates after our Mother Wound episode a few months back. So jump on into the Yoniverse, snuggle in, maybe even grab some tissues, and listen to your favorite girls gab it up! 

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Hello loves! We are so excited to be back with you again this week, this time recounting some salacious moments from recent weekend fun. We hope you enjoy the shares of our more kinktastic explorations…

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Áine’s first experience at a dungeon…and how she prepared from what she would wear to what she was open and available for. 
• The initial sense of overload at all the sights and sounds taking in the dungeon, but then settling into what was drawing her in and piqued her interest to explore further. 
• Walking through the details of an impact scene - including explorations of the tools and implements first, to the consent conversations that need to happen before anything moves forward. 
• The experience of a tandem impact seen with a cherished SlutSister - the bonding, but also the differences between how each of them handled the impact play. 
• Scarlet’s Saturday night slutting events with a dear SlutSister, as well - play is just more fun when Sisters are with you! Especially when you can match in lingerie sets from Nip Slipped Lingerie (use the code “SALACIOUS” for 7% off!)! 
• Scarlet recounts another night last week when she got out for some fun at her favorite spot in Houston. If the walls and the furniture in this place could talk…
• Additional updates and changes in SlutSisters - don’t forget that we have opened up SlutSisters to a FREE tier! On top of that, we are going to be offering monthly ticketed events (SLUTbag Roulette, State of the SLUT Union, and SLUTposiusms!) that we cannot wait to share with you! 

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We are back and ready to wrap this amazing conversation on Human Design with HD expert extraordinaire Taylor Khoury! If you haven’t gotten a chance to listen to that yet, do yourself the favor of not only listening, but pulling your own HD chart here, and then jump back into this episode with us!  

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Is there a specific place in your HD chart where your sexuality and expression of it is addressed?
• In order to fully experience your design and learn your inner compass, you have to be “in your body” - connected to the body’s experience. And pleasure (self-pleasure or partnered) is one of the easiest ways to connect into your body! 
• Which energy types have the main “channel” of sexuality? And does that mean if you don’t have it you aren’t a sexual being? (HINT :: um, absolutely not)
• Sexuality also comes through our Sacral and Identity (G) centers - the Sacral chakra is literally the home of our sexual energy in our bodies, and the G center is where we develop our sense of self and connection with self. 
• What function does sex serve in Human Design? 
• All the myriad ways that our conditioning impacts our understanding of bodies and our sexuality. 
• A fast and easy way to check in with our bodies each mornings so that we CAN feel more connected and embodied, and in tune with our wants, needs and desires. 
• HD as a permission slip to be your full self in the world.

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It’s time for another little life update! We have been working hard at bringing amazing conversations to you all each week, and we haven’t given you, our dear listeners, an update on us and our lives in a hot minute. Before we hit record on this one, we were in the depths of a conversation about the seasons of life that we find ourselves in, and we decided it was time to capture the goodness for all of you…

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• The seasons of life - how they mimic the seasons we experience in nature - and the seasons each of us have been in for the last six months since our last life update. 
• The different ways in which we heal - privately and in the dark, or more openly in community. 
• How to support one another and loved ones in our lives when we are in different seasons from one another. 
• In these changes that we are experiencing, we are learning that we have new paradigms of relating and relationships that we are shifting into. 
• We know there is no one optimal way to relate to others in our lives - personal, professional, partnership, etc. But do our relationships need rules, and if so…what are they? 
• Scarlet’s current obsession, Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships, by Meg John Barker. 
• How our relationships can be drastically impacted by co-dependent and people-pleasing tendencies…and how when you are cognizant of them, learning to relate differently takes a lot of work. 
• Regardless of the relationship containers people choose, there is no substitute for coming with care, respect and the best communication we possibly can. 
• The importance of safety in relationships, and our one main takeaway each from our latest seasons and lessons.

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We met today’s guest through one of Scarlet’s close friends, and we are so incredibly happy to introduce Lex, of Talk Sex with Lex, to the Yoniverse. Lex was motivated to become a certified sexologist after discovering loads of false information and bad advice posted online. This motivation turned into a burning desire and passion to be a safe space for women and their partners to receive guidance with discovering their very own unique codes of pleasure.

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Hear about our first SlutSister gathering - and come join us in the SlutSister Sanctum!! Link below to join. 
• Lex’s mission within the sexology and coaching - to help people sexplore, and alleviate fuckstration. 
• The intense work of going through a divorce, being a single mother of 2, working 2 full time jobs, AND pursuing and getting her certification through the Pleasure Master Institute. 
• How coaches can help us work through shadows and blockages to live more fulfilling and whole lives. 
• Lex shares her deeply personal, vulnerable, and traumatic story of polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), weight loss surgery, pregnancy and birth, and how the medical system failed to listen to and protect her best interest and the best interest of her unborn child.
• The institutional racism baked into our medical system, and the extreme rates of maternal morbidity experienced particularly by black women in this country. 
• Lex informs us of what “sleeping orgasms” are, and we think it sounds like a damn treat!
• The work that Lex is doing in her practice right now and the courses she is offering. 

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Friends and lovers, we have a very special treat for you today and we can barely contain ourselves. Scarlet’s sexual health practitioner, Maggie White, FNP, is here in the Yoniverse talking all things sexual health, STIs and testing, and HIV prevention. Maggie brings 12 years of experience in community health and HIV primary care and research, and is certified by the American Academy of HIV Medicine as an HIV Specialist. Her other clinical interests include Hepatitis C, sexual health and gender affirming care.

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• How Scarlet found Maggie after searching for a better solution for her regular STI health testing and overall sexual health;
• Maggie’s background in sexual health, and how she entered into public health and specialized in HIV and HIV prevention; 
• How femme representation is lacking in the patient population that is being treated for HIV prevention - and why that is;
• When pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) came on the scene (a decade ago), and how stigmatized and misunderstood it has been; 
• Scarlet’s personal and empowering decision to step into PrEP treatment to care for herself and any of her sexual partners;
• Distinguishing between oral and injectable PrEP, and how PrEP works; 
• STI testing gone wrong - how healthcare providers do not always ask the questions they should to provide the best tests for the individual; 
• Dental dams..let’s be honest - is anyone using them?!; 
• Questions from the audience!

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We’re going deep again, and personal. As an extension of a conversation that we were having casually the other night, we decided to address some changes for each of us in our own Slut-styles, as we are embarking on building the SlutSisterhood. We always share that our definition of SLUT is Sexually Liberated, Unshamed and Transformed, and that all femme-identifying folx are welcome at the never-ending table. But what does that mean…for each of us, and collectively?

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Acknowledging that pretty significant changes have taken place for us since meeting, and that along with those changes there is a bit of a sadness; 
• Reiterating the expansive definition of SLUT for our listeners - there is no one-size fits all and sluthood looks different for all individuals;
• How society has cast aside and shamed sluts; 
• Áine walks us through her journey to get to know herself as a solo individual, and how she had to come to terms with the fact that she didn’t know what her own desires were; 
• How tendencies toward codependency and people-pleasing can impact our ability to know our “yes’s” and “no’s”; 
• How energetics work for each of us - whether energy leads, or follows intention; 
• Scarlet describes her hedonistic, insatiable style of play, but how it has changed in really nuanced ways in recent years; and
• How kink fits into both of our styles; and 
• A message for our Trans Sisters.

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Loves, we could not be more thrilled to bring you a conversation this week with sex and relationship coach Catherine Drysdale. In October 2018, Catherine started an Instagram account focused on mental health + mindset, which turned into becoming certified as a life coach and eventually a certified sex coach. Throughout her journey, Catherine experienced many twists and turns, including a sexual assault she navigated publicly. Catherine has been a friend of TFY and SlutSisters for some time now, and we are so grateful she chose to come on and speak with us for today’s episode. 

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• How Catherine took her struggle with mental health difficulties and transformed her life and her career path.  
• How Catherine utilizes the good, the bad and the ugly as a tool for relating to others in her coaching practices. 
• Surviving sexual assault trauma, and navigating the reconnection to self, pleasure and sensuality. 
• Working with women to help them understand that their pleasure matters. 
• Becoming Multi-Orgasmic!! 
• The difficulty and grief that comes from having your bodily autonomy and reproductive health freedoms stripped from you.   

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• Twitter: @urpleasurepath

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Whew…it’s been an intense couple of weeks in the Yoniverse, and we are wrapping it up this week with the final installment in the Triple Wound Series…the Witch Wound. This Wound, like the Mother and Sister Wounds, is an inherited and collective trauma for femmes. This particular wound has its origin in the witch hunt and trials that began in the 15th century - and this “gendercide” reportedly took the lives of an estimated 13 million women throughout Europe and North America alone. Ultimately, the Witch Wound manifests as a fear of being seen, speaking up, and stepping into your full magic and power. 

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• How the Witch Wound has materialized in each of our lives…from as early as adolescence up through current days and how we show up in our families of origin.  
• Even in our awareness of this wound and how it shows up for us, we are still impacted by desiring to show up in our full authenticity…but we use pseudonyms because we know that this world is not kind to sexually empowered women, and other aspects of our lives need to remain protected.
• Healing the Witch Wound - do we choose to live in fear, or mindfully make a different choice? 
• Limiting beliefs about embodying our fullness, and claiming the words and identifiers that describe us. 
• Ultimately, this wound is about separation from Self, and healing it is unsurprisingly about union with Self and claiming and stepping into your full authentic power. 

The Trinity Wounds: The Witch Wound, article by Jade Eby

The Witch Wound, blog by Becca Clegg

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