The Flaming Yoni

Happy Valentine’s Day loves…and more importantly…Happy SlutSisters™ Pre-Sale!! It launched on Galentine’s Day, which is sure to be the official SlutSisters™ holiday from this day forth! 

Next up in the Triple Wound Series is….The Sister Wound. What could be a more perfect conversation as we are set to embark on this new paradigm of Sisterhood?! The Sister Wound shows up in some way for all women, and what better way to help heal it than bring it out of the shadows and talk about it?

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• The Sister Wound…born out of patriarchy, and how it continues to be perpetuated by it today. 
• The pain and distrust that we, as women, experience as we relate to other women with jealousy, insecurity, cattiness, comparison and fear. How other women are a “threat” to our happiness and security.  
• Sister Wounds can show up anywhere at any time - whether in a personal or professional relationship.   
• Áine shares some of her personal experiences with the Sister Wound, and how she has worked through healing these difficult wounds of separation and protectionism. 
• Watch Scarlet walk Áine through as she has a somatic breakdown as she recounts her own Sister Wound stories, and holds the space for her to continue showing up. 
• Why Sisterhood - and particularly SlutSisters™ - is such a crucial step toward healing this wound in our world. 

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Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

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• Instagram: @sssanctum_
• Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_

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As we embark on launching SlutSisters™ this month, we thought it would be most prescient to bring a series of 3 conversations to the Yoniverse that we have been unpacking together for some time. We are calling this series the Triple Wound Series, and this week we are starting off with The Mother Wound.   

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Introduction to the Triple Wound Series :: The Mother Wound, The Sister Wound and The Witch Wound. What are these, and where do they come from?  
• Understanding the significance of the Triple Goddess in connection with the Triple Wounds. 
• By diving into these wounds that women carry, it is not a license to blame those who have walked before us - it is way to bridge the gap of healing for all of us, and to hold space for one another as we do so. 
• Scarlet share’s her heartfelt story of how the Mother Wound has shown up in her own life, and how she has worked through it and found healing
• You may have a Mother Wound if…

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SlutSister Mailing List

Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

Follow SlutSisters: 

• Instagram: @sssanctum_
• Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_

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This month brings the dawning of a day that we have been preparing for for more than a year…we are finally launching SlutSisters™! For those of you who don’t know, SlutSisters™ is an embodied community built for women & femme-identifying individuals who seek to deepen their process of Sexualchemy™. Our mission is to create a safe and supportive space for Sisters to deepen their connection with their authentic sexual expression. We believe that feminine sexual empowerment is the medicine our world needs. 

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• The SlutSisters™ prelaunch! Starts on Galentine’s Day (February 13, 2023) and runs through the end of February.  
• We walk through the reclamation of the word SLUT - retiring the old paradigm of slut as a promiscuous woman, and embracing the new paradigm of Sexually Liberated, Unshamed and Transformed femmes.  
• We discuss myriad traditional judgements and myths about sluts; 
• We unveil our vision of the future of Sluthood and Sisterhood - 
• Consent - embodied, and as a language we all need to speak fluidly; 
• Gender fluidity - let’s embrace all expressions at the table; 
• Sacred sexuality - in addition to our salacious good times, let’s broaden the conversation around conscious relating; 
• Intersectionality - in order to have a safe community for all, we need to educate ourselves on and walk in awareness that all people have unique experiences. Let’s deepen connection by understanding what marginalizes our brothers and sisters. 

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Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

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Loves, if you’d had the opportunity to be in the “studio” with us as we recorded this week’s episode, you would realize how deeply touched and turned on we were by this guest. It is our sincere pleasure to introduce the Yoniverse to Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they). Ley is an author, board-certified sexologist, and LGBTQIA+ and BDSM educator, coach, and consultant. She is the founder of Transentience Coaching, a podcaster on the MŌN app, and LGBTQIA+ Curriculum Coordinator for the Sexual Health Alliance. She is currently based out of Las Cruces, New Mexico, where she watches a lot of horror movies with her cats.

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Ley’s origin story, and her grand rising into her authentic self in more recent years. 
• Blazing trails as the first “out” transgender woman to receive tenure at a Texas church-based university. 
• In her coaching business, Ley explains how she is not afraid to show up in her authenticity, which provides a more trusting and expansive container for her clients to transform within. 
• Ley describes how, for much of her life when she was trying to live from the societally expected “masculine”, it felt like she was walking around with her shoes on the wrong feet with shards of glass in them.
• Challenging all of us to look at transgender issues from a whole person perspective, rather than a pronouns and genitals perspective. 
• We go deep…talking existential crisis associated with capitalism, and the resulting alienation we feel from ourselves.  
• Inkless tattoos as a form of kink…or…rather, is it an extension of a mindfulness practice?  

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Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

Follow Ley:

• Website: http://www.transentiencecoaching.com/  
• Patreon 
• Instagram: @transentience.coaching
• MŌN: @leydelliette

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This week in the Yoniverse, Scarlet and Áine sit down on Christmas Day to wish all of you a VERY Happy Holidays, discuss some recent forays into new realms of kink, and 2023 intention setting!  

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Happy Holidays from Áine and Scarlet; 
• Scarlet’s pre-holiday play session that included Shibari - a beautiful form of Japanese bondage - and how it was part of her fulfillment of a 2022 intention to dive more deeply into other forms of kink; 
• Áine’s similar experience with Shibari a couple of months ago, which she has been fascinated with for a couple of years;
• Walking through a couple of cards that Scarlet and Áine pulled from Oracle and Tarot decks…and how they will be bringing the immaterial into the material with The Flaming Yoni, SlutSisters, and more in 2023!
• 2023 personal intentions for both Scarlet and Àine - their process for setting them, including a walkthrough of intentions set for 2022 and how those have gone.  
• If you have not yet signed up for the MŌN App - you should!  Áine and Scarlet love to host candid and sometimes spontaneous conversations over there. 
• The Flaming Yoni website is LIVE!!! Go see what we’ve been putting together for you, and this is also where you will see all the latest news about SlutSisters.   

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Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

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This week in the Yoniverse, we have an amazing treat for you! Dr. Evelin Dacker sat down with Áine six months ago at the beginning of the Sexualchemy hiatus, and the conversation feels just as fresh and potent today as it did then.

Dr. Dacker is a Board-Certified Integrative and Holistic Family Physician who specializes in sexual health and consent. Her unique approach to wellness incorporates pleasure as an important aspect for healing trauma and illness - which feels revolutionary in our society today. 

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• The complications of entering into the holiday season; 
• The beautiful support and feedback we’ve received from Episode 2 of TFY; 
• Why sexuality medicine doesn’t actually “treat” anything or contribute to sexual health;
• Dr. Dacker’s background in medicine, and why she started focusing on sexuality, pleasure and sexual health in addition to her primary care practice; 
• How the old school safer sex elevator speech turned into STARS; 
• STIs as the perfect metaphor for our internalized sex negativity; 
• The mind-body disconnect the majority of people experience with sex; 
• How inspiring it is to see younger people talking about sex in a more positive and attuned way; 
• The magic of being a woman in her Crone years - and the path of traveling from Maiden to Mother to Crone; and 
• How to have the “scary” STARS talk - Sexual Health, Turn Ons, Avoids, Relationship Expectations and Intentions, Safety Needs.

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Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

Follow Dr. Evelin Dacker:

• Instagram: @sexmeddoc
• Twitter: @evelindacker
• Website: evelindacker.com

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Now that you are all caught up with your girls this season, we thought it would be fun to let you in on a conversation we have been having about labels.  While labels can feel restricting and unnecessary, they can also be useful as a point of reference in certain settings. As we processed what it means to lose our previous “titles” from when we were partnered, we  bounced around ideas of what new identities we might want to play with…until one stuck. 

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Exploring the value of labels and constructs as “robes” that we wear.
• The intersection of labels, identity, and sexual expression.
• Why the label of “Unicorn” does not strongly resonate with Áine and Scarlet
• How the symbol of The Queen Cobra materialized for Áine and Scarlet individually and jointly.
• The snake as an abiding spiritual and mythological incarnation of feminine sexuality.
• The snake’s ability to move how they want to move - unrestricted and unrestrained - and the importance of embodying that same freedom and sovereignty as unpartnered femmes in the world.
• The importance of boundaries as you navigate sexually open spaces.

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Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

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• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

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This conversation has been months in the making, loves, and we are here with our hearts on our sleeves, showing you the depths of our souls. The journey we have both been on in 2022 has been one that we never anticipated, and the synchronicities have been unfathomable. Yet holding each other in sisterhood and care has strengthened our bond in ways we could equally never have imagined. 

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• What 2022 has looked like for both Áine and Scarlet; 
• The unwinding of each of our relationships; 
• When your partner is unable to meet you emotionally and spiritually;  
• The call into the mission and vision of sisterhood, healing and self-love;
• What it means to allow things to come to an end in our lives; 
• Discovering deeper intimacy within ourselves; and 
• What it does to us to sacrifice ourselves for others. 

Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @Salacious_Scar

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The inaugural episode of The Flaming Yoni is here, and we are wasting no time getting into it!  

In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:

• Why the break and rebrand? 
• Learn more about Scarlet - and why is she soooo Salacious?!
• What will Sexualchemy become? 
• Why The Flaming Yoni - what does it mean? 
• The paradigm shift that is calling for the Divine Feminine to rise. 
• What our intentions are for TFY, and what you can expect from us moving forward.

In coming episodes, venture with us into our own deep explorations of our femme sexual expressions from the salacious to the sacred - and hear the journeys and facets of our amazing guests.

Follow Áine:

• Instagram: @priestessaine
• Twitter: @PriestessAine
• TikTok: @priestessaine

Follow Scarlet:

• Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
• Twitter: @SalaciousS

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Sexualchemy continues to be at work in our lives, and in this new phase the show is transitioning and receiving an upgrade - we have a new face, a new name, and a new energy! Welcome to The Flaming Yoni - a place for femme sexual expression and empowerment.

Yoni is a Sanskrit word that has been interpreted to mean the "womb", or the "source". For yoni-bearers, the yoni also is the anchoring point for the root chakra, where our kundalini - or life force energy - lies coiled like a serpent. When our Kundalini is activated through sexual energy, a fire is lit deep within that illuminates a profound understanding of the Yoniverse.

Join us as we explore the uniquely feminine experience of sexual empowerment rising from the ashes against all odds. TFY celebrates the beautiful & unique expressions of female sexuality - from asexual to megasexual, from life-long monogamy to relationship anarchy, from deep spiritual bonds of sacred union to spur-of-the-moment flings - it is ALL infused with Yoni Energy.

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