The Girls With The Fruit Tats

The Girls With The Fruit Tats

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The Girls With The Fruit Tats episodes

  • Therapy: Finding the right therapist, setting boundaries, communication techniques and handling conflict

    *We are not professionals or licensed therapists, this is our personal experience with therapy. If you need immediate mental health assistance, the suicide prevention hotline is 800-273-8255.*


    WE ❤️ THERAPY! 10/10 would recommend!!

    Welcome back friends! We are SO excited about this episode, we have known we wanted to talk about this one for soooo long now and Mental Health Awareness Month felt like the perfect time! In this episode we are covering our journeys with finding the right therapist, our best therapy takeaways/what therapy has taught us so far and some resources for how you can get started if you want to talk to someone! 

    Learning to set boundaries, get comfortable with vulnerability and communicate well during conflict are some of the many things we have learned through our time in therapy. We hope that sharing these with you will help break down the stigma around therapy and mental health and bring in some new perspectives for you. 

    We hope you love this episode! If you want to talk about it our DMs are ALWAYS open for you over on Instagram, please don't hesitate to reach out. Please subscribe, rate and review the pod on Apple Podcasts if you're in the mood to make our day! Thank you so much for listening, see you next time! 


    Resources:

    Mindfulness Cards

    Dianna's Friend Gabrielle's Therapist Who Sees a Therapist

    Dianna's Therapy Resources Instagram

    BetterHelp Website and Instagram

    Talkspace Website and Instagram

    Alma Website and Instagram (serving NY, NJ, CT and MA)

    Brianna's Friend Bailey's Anxiety Positive 

    Other Instagrams to Follow:

    The Loveland Foundation

    How Mental

    Inclusive Therapists


    1 hr 13 min
  • Being a Person is Hard: How to Get Out of a Funk

    This week has been a bit ~*rough*~ so we scrapped our original topic and decided to get real about how we're feeling lately (bad). If you happen to be feeling this way too, we're here to tell you you're not alone. Sometimes being a person and alllllll the things that go along with it just gets to be overwhelming. 

    This isn't just a 45 minute vent sesh though; in this episode we share what has us in a funk and what we're doing to get out of it! Just remember, tough times are temporary and joy is around the corner (hint: one of our fav affirmations)!

    We hope you like this episode, please leave us a rating and review if you did, share it with a friend who could use a mid-week pick me up and connect with us over on Instagram for more! Thanks for tuning in!💛

    49 min
  • The Defining Decade: Work & Love for Twenty-Somethings

    Hi friends!

    On today's episode, we are joined by our good friend, Rachel Perry. She has a killer Instagram feed, the best sweaters in the game, and the golden hour light down to a science - so we highly suggest you check out her page (@rachelizabethperry). Rachel is also a lover of all books AND a twenty-something, so she was an obvious choice for this episode's guest.

    We dive into our thoughts about our book club pick, The Defining Decade by Meg Jay. We share some of our personal experiences and perspectives when it comes to things like careers and relationships in the twenty-something years. Whether you've read the book or not, we hope this episode gives you something to think about and maybe inspires you to pick up the book if you haven't already. 

    As always, subscribe to the pod and give us a review if you liked this episode, and follow us on Instagram for more! Thanks so much for listening!

    XO, GWTFT

    1 hr 18 min
  • Career Clarity: Changing Industries and Redefining My "Dream Job"

    Your twenties can be a pretty stressful time when it comes to your career. This week Bri will be riding solo to talk about her career journey post-grad and what she's learned through all the ups and downs.

    Figuring out what motivates you, what you want in the short term and long term and what you're passionate about are all important steps towards making decisions that will ultimately effect your career path. When you can, it can be helpful to get some professional opinions and of course the opinions of the people closest to you.

    We hope you feel less alone in whatever career struggles you might be facing right now, and we hope you took some tips away from this episode that can help you take the next step! Follow us on Instagram for more, and as always please share, rate and review our show! Thanks so much for listening, see you next time!


    Resources:

    Amanda Thibert coaching and her Instagram 

    Emily Durham (Career Coach) on Instagram 



    32 min
  • Turning 25: Advice We'd Give Our Younger Selves
    Raise your hand if you're having a quarter-life crisis!!!! 🙋‍♀️ (kidding... mostly)
    Dianna turned 25 last Friday, and Brianna only has about a week left of her ~*youth*~, so the girls decided it was the perfect time to reflect on their biggest learning moments from 20-25 and give some advice to their younger selves. From setting boundaries to putting off paying rent for as long as humanly possible to wearing more off the shoulder tops, they share the things they feel could have really made a difference if they knew then what they know now. Hopefully you can get a helpful tip or two from this episode and/or relate to the trial and error that is being a twentysomething. 
    Speaking of twentsomethings, don't forget to keep reading The Defining Decade by Meg Jay for our Birthday Bookclub Episode coming out March 31st! If you feel like you can't read it in time, it also just came out as an audio book on Audible! 
    Last but not least, follow us on Instagram and share this episode with a friend (younger sister? cousin?) you think would like it! Thanks for listening, see you next week!
    53 min
  • A Beginner's Guide to Thrifting: Where to shop, What to look for, Tips & Tricks
    Hi friends! Today Dianna goes solo on the pod to share her secrets about one of her favorite passions: thrifting.
    Many of you might be familiar with her thrift hauls shared on her personal Instagram (@diannacolontonio). In this episode, Dianna answers her FAQ's related to thrifting such as where to shop, what to look for, and how to make a plan to find the hidden gems! Her tips and tricks come from countless hours spent digging through clothing racks, tons of treasure hunts to furnish her apartment on a budget, and exploring thrift stores local to New Jersey and beyond. 
    We hope this episode inspires you to shop secondhand more often and slowly replace fast fashion with the habit of thrifting. Not only is it better for the environment and your wallet, but its such a fun activity to do solo or with friends without breaking the bank! If you enjoyed this episode, leave us a rating and review on the Apple Podcast app and connect with us on Instagram for more content. Thanks for listening! 
    XOXO, GWTFT
    47 min
  • Birthday Banger: Truth or Drink

    Happy March!!🥳 We both have March birthdays so we decided this month on the pod had to be extra special! Not only are we posting an episode every Wednesday, but we are kicking it all off with the juiciest episode to date!

    We are spilling👏 the👏 tea👏 in this episode. From stealing cars to getting kicked out of bars, we're showing a new (slightly less desirable?) version of ourselves. Maybe we'll regret it later, but for now it is all out there for you to enjoy! 

    This episode really speaks for itself, so all that's left to say is follow us on Instagram for more fun and don't forget to pick up The Defining Decade by Meg Jay to join in on our bday book club (March 31st). See you next week! 

    53 min
  • CHIT CHAT: Life Update, Netflix/Hulu Recs + GWTFT Book Club

    We're back baby!! After having 2 amazing guests on the show, we are excited to be back recording together! This is the first episode of a series we're calling CHIT CHAT where we will occasionally be popping in with a more casual, low-key vibe to just catch up and well... CHAT!

    This CHIT CHAT covers the ebbs and flows we've had over the past month (duh), what we've been watching on Netflix & Hulu (but mostly Hulu) and we announce the book we've chosen for the GWTFT Book Club (spoiler: it's a good one). Thanks so much for listening and a big welcome to any new listeners, we're so excited to have you here with us! Follow us over on Instagram, subscribe to the show and write us a review over on Apple Podcasts - we might even read it on the next episode! See you next time! 

    Shows we mentioned:

    Hulu

    • The Bold Type
    • Broad City
    • New York Times Presents: Framing Britney Spears 
    • Netflix

      • Peaky Blinders
      • Pretend It's a City 
      • Amazon

        • The Wilds
        • GWTFT Book Club Book:

          The Defining Decade by Meg Jay, PhD 

          **try to buy your book from a small/local bookstore, you can buy through small shops online at bookshop.org**

          41 min
        • Relationships: It's Okay to Break Up!

          Hello friends, welcome back to Girls with the Fruit Tats! Today Dianna took a little break, and Brianna has a very special guest on the podcast! 

          Bri's boyfriend Dhimitri joins her to chat about all of the ups and downs they've endured over their 5+ year relationship. Some of the things they cover in this episode are:

          • being in a long distance relationship
          • being in an open relationship
          • working through co-dependence
          • breaking up a few times
          • moving to Europe
          • learning to communicate more effectively
          • how they got to the stable relationship they have now
          • and so much more! 

          • We hope you enjoy this episode wherever you are in your life right now. We hope that you can take something away from our stories, or at least fulfill your curiosity about the inner workings of a relationship. If you liked this one, please share it with someone you think would like it too, maybe even your partner! Follow us on Instagram to see more from us or to share your thoughts on the episode, and of course, Happy Valentine's Day! We love you so so much, thanks for listening! 



            1 hr 24 min
          • #MHS Fuckery: Sweet Sixteens, Homecoming & High School Shenanigans
            Hi guys! Today, Dianna is joined by Madison Mullins, one of her oldest friends to share their best and worst memories of the glory days. There was never a dull moment at Morristown High School, that’s for sure. We hope this episode leaves you feeling nostalgic and maybe you’ll want to call up an old friend to chat about the raspberry smirnoff days together too. Thanks to everyone who submitted their responses on instagram!
            Be sure to follow us @girlswiththefruittats and @madisonmulllins if you want to connect :)
            1 hr 5 min

          About The Girls With The Fruit Tats

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          Hi friends! Put on a face mask, pour a glass of wine and join us every other Wednesday to chat about all things lifestyle and friendship. From long distance relationships, to career advice,…