He wasn’t loud. He wasn’t cruel. He listened. He cared — or at least, he sounded like he did.

But somewhere between the deep conversations and “I understand,” you started feeling smaller.

That’s the thing about The Good Guy Complex — it’s not toxic in the obvious way. It’s tidy. It’s emotionally aware. It’s the kind of manipulation that hides behind calmness and care.

In this episode of Her Revision Podcast, Jasmine Lashae breaks down how emotional fluency can turn into control, why “nice” doesn’t always mean safe, and how to recognize when someone’s using self-awareness to protect their image, not your heart.

Because peace without honesty? That’s not peace. That’s performance.

Listen now to “The Good Guy Complex: And Why It’s Still Manipulation” — streaming everywhere you get your podcasts.

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