The GOOD Influence - HER

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi.
 
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The first agreement is "BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD."

 What is an agreement? Do you even know that you have made agreements in your life that are causing you to SUFFER, to FAIL, to be SELF-LOATHING, and JUDGE YOURSELF as ugly, fat, wrong, and bad?

This is my understanding of the agreements...REASONING AND RATIONALE I ACCEPTED AND ADOPTED  IN MY PAST...THAT I LIVED BY IN MY PRESENT LIFE/REALITY...AND SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE IN MY WORLD...

It starts in all of us as a child...we are sponges for information to learn how to assimilate into the world.  I didn't know I was Black and that it was WRONG and BAD and WORSE OFF because I am aWOMAN that I was NOT going to be as smart, as pretty, AND suffer with horrible hair. My plight in LIFE was going to be "10" times harder. I know what you are thinking, but that was MY TRUTH, my condition...MY AGREEMENTS I accepted as a child that continued through adulthood.  Those agreements were backed up by society with TV shows like, "The Jefferson's"...who were "MOVING ON UP!"

What agreements have you made about yourself, your culture, what you consider to be ugly or beautiful? Have your agreements changed or are you pretty much the same and, this is why you are unable to transform yourself, attain your goals, or just simply be happy?

Consider this.....BEFORE YOU SPEAK, ANSWER A QUESTION, and REPLY ON SOCIAL MEDIA...ASK YOURSELF...IS IT KIND? IS IT HONEST? IS IT NECESSARY? If you can't answer "YES" to at least "2" of those questions, then you have NOTHING to say.  Being "impeccable" with your word is speaking to the Universe and into the world which creates your reality and how others treat you and manage your life.

WORDS CREATE REALITY...Your reality is what you are and what you become!
This is a BIG one to understand and it is so REAL and LIFE CHANGING. This is as INSTANT transformation as it gets! You will discover how much you hurt others and hurt yourself. You will discover that you can STOP that behavior IMMEDIATELY by making this very first agreement. You WILL transform yourself.

LET'S GET STARTED!!! "Be impeccable with your word!"

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"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi.
 
This podcast may contain copyright material not authorized for use by the owner; however, the podcast creator believes that use of this material falls under the "Fair Use" exemption. For more information, please refer to section 107 of the Copyright Act.

The first agreement is "BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD."

 What is an agreement? Do you even know that you have made agreements in your life that are causing you to SUFFER, to FAIL, to be SELF-LOATHING, and JUDGE YOURSELF as ugly, fat, wrong, and bad?

This is my understanding of the agreements...REASONING AND RATIONALE I ACCEPTED AND ADOPTED  IN MY PAST...THAT I LIVED BY IN MY PRESENT LIFE/REALITY...AND SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE IN MY WORLD...

It starts in all of us as a child...we are sponges for information to learn how to assimilate into the world.  I didn't know I was Black and that it was WRONG and BAD and WORSE OFF because I am aWOMAN that I was NOT going to be as smart, as pretty, AND suffer with horrible hair. My plight in LIFE was going to be "10" times harder. I know what you are thinking, but that was MY TRUTH, my condition...MY AGREEMENTS I accepted as a child that continued through adulthood.  Those agreements were backed up by society with TV shows like, "The Jefferson's"...who were "MOVING ON UP!"

What agreements have you made about yourself, your culture, what you consider to be ugly or beautiful? Have your agreements changed or are you pretty much the same and, this is why you are unable to transform yourself, attain your goals, or just simply be happy?

Consider this.....BEFORE YOU SPEAK, ANSWER A QUESTION, and REPLY ON SOCIAL MEDIA...ASK YOURSELF...IS IT KIND? IS IT HONEST? IS IT NECESSARY? If you can't answer "YES" to at least "2" of those questions, then you have NOTHING to say.  Being "impeccable" with your word is speaking to the Universe and into the world which creates your reality and how others treat you and manage your life.

WORDS CREATE REALITY...Your reality is what you are and what you become!
This is a BIG one to understand and it is so REAL and LIFE CHANGING. This is as INSTANT transformation as it gets! You will discover how much you hurt others and hurt yourself. You will discover that you can STOP that behavior IMMEDIATELY by making this very first agreement. You WILL transform yourself.

LET'S GET STARTED!!! "Be impeccable with your word!"

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJL50-vRgBGYJGqBTVUzeLw
http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com
https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER
https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/
https://afsp.org/chapter/give-back-partners
#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast
#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi. 

There is a book that is only about 125 pages and that is all you need to read to being your journey of personal freedom. "The Four Agreements" written by Don Miguel Ruiz is more than a gift; it is a miracle.  When I started practicing the "4" agreements immediately my burdens began to lift off my mind and shoulders. I began to stand tall with goals and the hard work to make them come true. 

Come on, some of you surely have heard of this book as Oprah and Ellen are "HUGE" fans!

THE FOUR AGREEMENTS ARE:

1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

2. DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

3. DON'T ASSUME

4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST.

If you are struggling and you want the quick fix, I really think this is it if you make these agreements and practice. I can't believe I am saying this but I am saying this!

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https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

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#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

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"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi. 

There is a book that is only about 125 pages and that is all you need to read to being your journey of personal freedom. "The Four Agreements" written by Don Miguel Ruiz is more than a gift; it is a miracle.  When I started practicing the "4" agreements immediately my burdens began to lift off my mind and shoulders. I began to stand tall with goals and the hard work to make them come true. 

Come on, some of you surely have heard of this book as Oprah and Ellen are "HUGE" fans!

THE FOUR AGREEMENTS ARE:

1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

2. DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

3. DON'T ASSUME

4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST.

If you are struggling and you want the quick fix, I really think this is it if you make these agreements and practice. I can't believe I am saying this but I am saying this!

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com

https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com

#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 

#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

#baggageluggageorcarryon

#thatswhytodaysimportant

#thegoodinfluenceher

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"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi. 

Hi! and WELCOME BACK! It's Rhonda The GOOD Influence - HER. Now we move on to the last of THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS - "LUST".

THIS IS OBVIOUS AND NO SHAME...RESPECT YOUR BODY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR SELF-RESPECT.

LUST in my opinion is a powerful feeling which can PERSUADE you to decide to get involved in regrettable situations with other people. I don't like regrets.  And, I don't trust many people. I am a very guarded person. I have not been in many relationships. In fact, I have loved Eric and been in love with him for 32 years plus.  

Now, this is good because you have my point of view of someone being in a long-term relationship. It is not easy but you learn to value loyalty and trust which are crucial to your own existence. If you can't trust anyone or be loyal to anyone then who are you?

I have friends who have cheated on each other time and time again. Most of the time it just takes one time of cheating that creates long-term resentments and problems in relationships. My friends are constantly on the mend as they fight and makeup annually.  It is very difficult to stay together after an affair. It is very difficult for people like me and my husband to be friends with them when we know they are constantly struggling with infidelity.

The point is "WHY???" Why are you cheating and disrespecting your body and your relationship? The answer I believe is that you have an insecurity or rather a hole in your soul. It is not your partner's fault...it is "YOU" the cheater with the problem.

This is why I challenge my friends before they stray to think about the consequence of self-respect; respect your body.

I hope this next episode gets many of you struggling with lust to consider what you are doing to your body, your mind, and your soul. You know what the right decision is. Stopping hurting yourself and the people who care about you and love you. Start loving yourself by simply respecting your body.

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com

https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com

#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 

#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

#baggageluggageorcarryon

#thatswhytodaysimportant

#thegoodinfluenceher

#iTunes #Spotify 

#Googleplay

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi. 

Hi! and WELCOME BACK! It's Rhonda The GOOD Influence - HER. Now we move on to the last of THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS - "LUST".

THIS IS OBVIOUS AND NO SHAME...RESPECT YOUR BODY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR SELF-RESPECT.

LUST in my opinion is a powerful feeling which can PERSUADE you to decide to get involved in regrettable situations with other people. I don't like regrets.  And, I don't trust many people. I am a very guarded person. I have not been in many relationships. In fact, I have loved Eric and been in love with him for 32 years plus.  

Now, this is good because you have my point of view of someone being in a long-term relationship. It is not easy but you learn to value loyalty and trust which are crucial to your own existence. If you can't trust anyone or be loyal to anyone then who are you?

I have friends who have cheated on each other time and time again. Most of the time it just takes one time of cheating that creates long-term resentments and problems in relationships. My friends are constantly on the mend as they fight and makeup annually.  It is very difficult to stay together after an affair. It is very difficult for people like me and my husband to be friends with them when we know they are constantly struggling with infidelity.

The point is "WHY???" Why are you cheating and disrespecting your body and your relationship? The answer I believe is that you have an insecurity or rather a hole in your soul. It is not your partner's fault...it is "YOU" the cheater with the problem.

This is why I challenge my friends before they stray to think about the consequence of self-respect; respect your body.

I hope this next episode gets many of you struggling with lust to consider what you are doing to your body, your mind, and your soul. You know what the right decision is. Stopping hurting yourself and the people who care about you and love you. Start loving yourself by simply respecting your body.

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com

https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com

#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 

#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

#baggageluggageorcarryon

#thatswhytodaysimportant

#thegoodinfluenceher

#iTunes #Spotify 

#Googleplay

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi.

Hi!... We are going to talk about the 6th SEVEN DEADLY SIN on my list, "SLOTH"...

This is such a good one for all of us. Sloth really is all in your mind. You have to get busy living. Get into the process of life and stop thinking about the prize. Live, Love, and Laugh! So many of us "give up" and "give in" way too so before the miracle happens. Then we let time pass us by and it makes it seem like we are a bigger failure.  Honestly, failure is a part of succeeding. Stop placing such a heavy value on failure and put that "HEAVY" value on your spirit that has dreams of doing great things. This is all in your mind! So, make up your mind to NOT be lazy anymore and GET UP and GET STARTED! 

Take your first step by listening to the story of my father-in-law who is 87 years old LIVING with a terminal brain tumor.  Yes!, he is LIVING with terminal cancer and working and exercising and LOVING his family more than ever.  It is never too late to get up, get started, and get into your life!

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com

https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com

#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 

#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

#baggageluggageorcarryon

#thatswhytodaysimportant

#thegoodinfluenceher

#iTunes #Spotify 

#Googleplay

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi.

Hi!... We are going to talk about the 6th SEVEN DEADLY SIN on my list, "SLOTH"...

This is such a good one for all of us. Sloth really is all in your mind. You have to get busy living. Get into the process of life and stop thinking about the prize. Live, Love, and Laugh! So many of us "give up" and "give in" way too so before the miracle happens. Then we let time pass us by and it makes it seem like we are a bigger failure.  Honestly, failure is a part of succeeding. Stop placing such a heavy value on failure and put that "HEAVY" value on your spirit that has dreams of doing great things. This is all in your mind! So, make up your mind to NOT be lazy anymore and GET UP and GET STARTED! 

Take your first step by listening to the story of my father-in-law who is 87 years old LIVING with a terminal brain tumor.  Yes!, he is LIVING with terminal cancer and working and exercising and LOVING his family more than ever.  It is never too late to get up, get started, and get into your life!

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com

https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com

#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 

#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

#baggageluggageorcarryon

#thatswhytodaysimportant

#thegoodinfluenceher

#iTunes #Spotify 

#Googleplay

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi.

Hi!... We are going to talk about the 5th SEVEN DEADLY SIN on my list, "WRATH"...

Wrath to me is an explosion of uncontrolled feelings of anger and rage. Underneath wrath, there can be deep hatred. Wrath can certainly cause individuals to seek vengeance on others.  This results in violence that can cause injury to others as well as yourself.  And, injury to yourself can manifest as self-destructive behaviors such as drug abuse and suicide...AND THAT IS WHY IT IS DEADLY SIN!

I share with you 2 instances where I was so on the verge of chewing out a couple of defense attorneys' and how fortunate I was to NOT do that to learn that anger is a signal that a miracle is on its way.  YES! It is so true. It takes a lot and I meant a lot of self-control to be able to be at that pinnacle point of anger to be self-aware to NOT explode and trust that something really good is going to happen.

So, take a listen to what happened to me and try to remember a time in your life that you regret getting angry only to find out that there was something wonderful brewing in God's plan for you!

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com

https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER

https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/

http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com

#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 

#rhondathegoodinfluenceher

#baggageluggageorcarryon

#thatswhytodaysimportant

#thegoodinfluenceher

#iTunes #Spotify 

#Googleplay

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world," Mahatma Gandhi.
Hi!... We are going to talk about the 5th SEVEN DEADLY SIN on my list, "WRATH"...

Wrath to me is an explosion of uncontrolled feelings of anger and rage. Underneath wrath, there can be deep hatred. Wrath can certainly cause individuals to seek vengeance on others.  This results in violence that can cause injury to others as well as yourself.  And, injury to yourself can manifest as self-destructive behaviors such as drug abuse and suicide...AND THAT IS WHY IT IS DEADLY SIN!

I share with you 2 instances where I was so on the verge of chewing out a couple of defense attorneys' and how fortunate I was to NOT do that to learn that anger is a signal that a miracle is on its way.  YES! It is so true. It takes a lot and I meant a lot of self-control to be able to be at that pinnacle point of anger to be self-aware to NOT explode and trust that something really good is going to happen.

So, take a listen to what happened to me and try to remember a time in your life that you regret getting angry only to find out that there was something wonderful brewing in God's plan for you!
http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.buzzsprout.com
https://www.facebook.com/TheGOODinfluenceHER
https://www.instagram.com/thegoodinfluenceher/
http://www.thegoodinfluenceher.com
#thegoodinfluenceherpodcast 
#rhondathegoodinfluenceher
#baggageluggageorcarryon
#thatswhytodaysimportant
#thegoodinfluenceher
#iTunes #Spotify 
#Googleplay