In this episode, I share insights gained from my recent experiences in therapy training, highlighting the importance of emotional safety in relationships. I discuss how a clinician's listening approach influenced my willingness to share and how this relates to fostering emotional intimacy in marriage. 

I further explore how being a safe spouse means being present and non-judgmental, which requires self-awareness and understanding of what safety feels like. Join me as I reflect on my personal journey and offer practical advice on how to model this crucial aspect of a healthy marriage.

02:32 Personal Reflections and Training Insights

03:34 Understanding Emotional Safety

06:29 Applying Emotional Safety in Marriage

07:59 Restoration and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, I address my hiatus from the podcast and the reasons behind it. I discuss my evolving perspective on marriage therapy, shaped by both personal experiences and professional training. Join me as I share insights from my journey, touching on the importance of working on personal issues before tackling couples therapy. This year, my goal is to provide you with tools for achieving security and intimacy in your relationships. Follow along every week as we embark on this journey together. Until next week, my friends!

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Understanding Grace, Boundaries, and Wisdom in Marriage

In this episode, we revisit episode number two, where I discuss how we can't change our husbands, only ourselves, and the importance of offering grace. Taking it a step further, I address common concerns about feeling like a doormat and emphasize the difference between silence and wisdom. Silence is fear-driven while wisdom involves choosing the right moment to express oneself. We delve into practical steps such as using effective communication, setting boundaries, and regulating emotions to foster a healthy marital environment. Through empowering ourselves, we build stronger, more loving relationships. Join me in our community for more discussions!

02:29 Reflecting on Episode Two

03:08 Understanding Grace in Marriage

04:19 The Difference Between Silence and Wisdom

05:25 Biblical Insights on Fear and Wisdom

08:00 Practical Steps to Change and Communication

11:13 The Power of Boundaries

11:46 Emotional Regulation and Final Thoughts

12:46 Building Community and Closing Remarks

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Harnessing the Power of Breathwork to Regulate Emotions and Trauma

This week's episode features an enlightening conversation with Samantha Skelly, founder and CEO of Paws Breathwork. Samantha shares her journey from battling anxiety and an eating disorder to discovering the transformative potential of breathwork. She explains how breathwork can help regulate emotions, reduce trauma responses, and create space between triggers and reactions, which can be particularly beneficial in relationships. We explore the science behind breathwork, its spiritual connections, and its practical applications. Samantha also guides us through a brief breathwork exercise, demonstrating its immediate impact. For those interested in further exploring breathwork, Samantha offers resources through her Breathwork app and facilitator training. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve emotional regulation and overall mental well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Emotional Control

02:03 Meet Samantha Skelly: Breathwork Expert

03:52 Samantha's Journey to Breathwork

07:16 The Science and Impact of Breathwork

11:05 Breathwork in Relationships

24:21 Practical Breathwork Exercise

34:16 Final Thoughts and Resources

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Understanding Emotional Abuse: Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages

In this episode of the Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, I'm delving into the critical difference between disappointing and destructive marriages. Building on last week's discussion about emotional abuse, I reference Leslie Vernick's book, 'Emotionally Destructive Marriage,' to provide clarity. We explore what it means to feel emotionally unsafe and identify when it crosses into abuse. We'll also discuss the importance of fully disclosing your situation to a therapist for proper guidance and support, even if it means going alone. This episode aims to offer insights and resources for those struggling in emotionally abusive relationships and emphasizes that you do not have to live in such a nightmare, even as a Christian. Stay tuned as we navigate these heavy but essential topics together.

00:00 Introduction: The Fear of Speaking Up

00:29 Understanding Emotional Abuse

02:44 Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages

03:36 Real-Life Examples and Quotes

05:24 Therapist's Role and Client Disclosure

10:59 Mandated Reporting and Emotional Safety

15:14 Concluding Thoughts and Resources

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Navigating Marriage Therapy: Tips for Encouraging Your Spouse to Participate

This week, we dive into communication strategies, using 'I-statements,' and how to approach the topic with your spouse in a way that makes them feel safe and understood. I'll also share insights on clarifying what you want to achieve in therapy and the common issues couples face, like miscommunication, mistrust, and lack of emotional safety. Plus, we'll discuss options for those whose spouses refuse to go to therapy. Tune in as we explore how to make marriage counseling a more approachable and effective process.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Confession

02:24 Common Issues in Relationships

04:47 Challenges in Seeking Marriage Counseling

06:16 Effective Communication Strategies

12:16 Clarifying the Core Issues

18:37 Taking Action and Seeking Support

21:38 Conclusion and Community Engagement

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In this episode of the Gracefield Wife Podcast, I have the distinct honor of hosting Debra Smith Pegues. Debra is a best-selling author, global inspirational speaker, CPA, MBA, certified John Maxwell leadership coach, and Bible teacher who shares 45 years of marital wisdom. We discuss her journey, the secrets to her successful marriage, and the importance of communication and confrontation in maintaining a healthy relationship. Debra provides invaluable insights on how to approach difficult conversations lovingly and respectfully, the significance of prayer alongside confrontation, and the balance between submission and self-respect in marriage. We also touch on practical tips from her book, '30 Days to Taming Your Tongue,' and her guide, '10 Commandments for a Heavenly Marriage.' This episode is packed with wisdom for any woman navigating the complexities of marital relationships.

04:43 Secrets to a Successful Marriage

06:16 Navigating Spiritual Differences in Marriage

08:40 The Power of Words in Marriage

13:22 Effective Communication Strategies

20:34 The Importance of Confrontation

21:14 Effective Communication Techniques

23:02 Setting Boundaries and Consequences

25:22 Balancing Submission and Confrontation

33:06 The Role of Prayer in Conflict Resolution

36:55 Final Thoughts and Resources

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Hello, and welcome back to the Grace Field's Wife podcast! After a brief hiatus due to my training as a marriage and family therapist, I'm excited to bring fresh insights to our podcast. This week, we tackle the pressing question: 'How do you stand for your marriage in the midst of trouble or separation?' I'll share three essential Cs: Clarity, Commitment, and Community. We'll discuss identifying whether your relationship is abusive or just disappointing, understanding your and your husband's commitment levels, and the importance of having a supportive community. These steps will equip you with the practical tools to navigate through marital struggles effectively. Join our Facebook group or become an insider to stay connected and find more resources. Until next week!

00:00 Welcome Back to the Grace Field's Wife Podcast

03:53 The Importance of Clarity in Marriage

12:16 Understanding Commitment in Marriage

14:40 The Power of Community Support

20:54 Conclusion and Next Steps

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In this episode, we discuss the value that is even more important to your marriage than communication and why. We also talk about the limitations of working on your marriage alone and what skills can be learned even if only one spouse is participating.

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In this episode, I discuss the importance of establishing healthy boundaries in marriage by reviewing 5 rules for healthy boundaries. Through the examples presented, I illustrate how these principles can help couples navigate the complexities of marriage, empower themselves, and foster mutual respect and love.

00:08 The Importance of Healthy Boundaries in Marriage

04:48 Exploring the Laws of Boundaries in Marriage

06:09 Applying Boundary Laws to Real-Life Scenarios

14:52 The Power of Choice and Respect in Marriage

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