Not Every Story Needs a Villain… Especially Yours 🎭

Ever catch yourself blaming someone for the beliefs you’re trying to unlearn? It’s an easy trap—“If my parents’ actions shaped this, then they must be the bad guys.” But what if… no one needs to be the villain? 🤯

Formation happens all the time—without malicious intent. Your healing journey isn’t about pointing fingers; it’s about untangling, understanding, and choosing a new way forward.

In this episode, we’re flipping the script:
 👉 Why compassion for your younger self changes everything
 👉 How even God, the perfect parent, has kids who misinterpret Him
👉 The freedom of removing the villain—so you don’t have to stay the victim

Formation is always happening… but so is transformation. Let’s step into it. 💫

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👉 You say you trust God as your provider… but are you living like an employee or a daughter?

For years, I operated under an employee mindset—believing provision was a one-for-one exchange. Work hard, hustle, and God will give opportunities. 

But deep down? My faith was rooted more in my work ethic than in God’s identity. 

And that left me feeling like:
 ⚡ It’s never enough.
 ⚡ I can’t afford to miss an opportunity.
 ⚡ I’m always behind.

But here’s the truth: A Father provides because you are His. He doesn’t dock your pay when you mess up. He’s generous, not transactional.

This episode dives into:

• Recognizing if you’re operating from an employee mindset or a daughter mindset
•  Why financial instability can actually deepen intimacy with God
•  The habit of dethroning hustle—how I went from fear to faith in provision
•  Real-life testimonies of God’s unexpected provision (because He’s that good!)

🎧 Listen in & take inventory: Is your trust in His provision—or your own hustle?

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

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Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

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Click here get my FREE 14 Day: Spring Cleaning Checklist 

Ready to refresh your space without sacrificing your sanity? We've all felt that spring cleaning urge when the windows open and the weather warms, only to get overwhelmed by the scope of the project. 

The solution isn't finding an entire free weekend (which never happens anyway)—it's breaking down spring cleaning into what I call "offensively small" tasks that take just 15 minutes each day. This approach transforms cleaning from an overwhelming project into a series of manageable wins that build momentum over time.

During this episode, I share my personal 14-day spring cleaning challenge that you can download for free and join me in completing. Each task is specifically designed to be completed in 15 minutes or less, teaching you the valuable skill of time-bounding your efforts. Setting a timer and practicing walking away when it rings—even when the task isn't complete—builds tremendous trust with yourself and eliminates the perfectionism that prevents progress.

I also explore how we can apply these same principles to any overwhelming project, whether it's organizing a garage, tackling a work assignment, or managing household responsibilities during busy seasons. By practicing the art of "good enough" and experiencing how consistent small efforts compound into significant results, you'll develop skills that transfer beautifully beyond spring cleaning.

Download the free checklist, join our accountability group, and discover how 15 mins/day can transform not just your home, but your approach to life's big projects!

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

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The social, animated, interesting bookclub you didn't know a bible study could be!!! Break-up with the idea of it being a boring drudgery. 

Ever feel like your Bible reading could use a little more life? In this episode, we’re diving into the power of reading scripture together—why it matters, how it deepens your understanding, and how it turns what can feel like a solo discipline into something rich with connection.

I’m sharing my own journey from reading alone to experiencing scripture in community—and let me tell you, it’s a game-changer. We’ll talk about the practical side of starting a Bible study group, from logistics to commitment levels to creating an inviting space that gets people excited to show up.

Because here’s the thing: for most of history, scripture was read in groups. It was discussed, wrestled with, and brought to life through conversation. And when we bring that back, something shifts. The words become more than just text on a page—they become a lived experience.

So if you're ready to break out of the rut and discover a fresh way to engage with God’s Word, this episode is for you. 

• Click here for the podcasts from John Mark Comer
• Click here to watch The Bible Project's videos on How-To read the Bible
• Click here to watch my 15 Min How-to build a Bible Group video
• Click here to watch a brief history of The 1st Man who translated the bible into English (like I butchered in mentioning :) 

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

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Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

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 or here for the Friday Afternoon group [LINK].

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What if jealousy is more than just a fleeting emotion, but an eye-opening revelation about our inner insecurities? Join me, Jenna Zint, as we unravel this complex feeling through the comforting lens of Christian faith. You'll hear personal stories that showcase the surprise and shame often accompanying jealousy, even when we think we've moved past it. Together, we’ll explore how our sense of identity and self-worth can influence how susceptible we are to envy and how grounding our self-image in God’s love can offer a powerful antidote.

Imagine jealousy as an unwelcome chin hair—suddenly appearing and hard to ignore. Instead of overreacting or denying its presence, let’s examine it with scientific curiosity. We'll dig into the reasons jealousy pops up, especially in specific relationships and situations, and how often it is tied to a fear of lack. Discover the liberating shift from viewing others' successes as threats to understanding them as opportunities for celebration. By recognizing the underlying fears, we can transform jealousy from a relational issue to a situational one that can be handled with grace and insight.

Finally, I'll share my personal journey of letting go of over-responsibility and embracing a mindset supported by a higher power with infinite resources. This shift away from a "hustle " mentality to a more holistic view of success opens up a path for healing, growth, and genuine joy in others' achievements. Visualizing jealousy as a younger version of ourselves trying to take control, we learn that managing this emotion can become almost instinctive. I encourage you to engage with this episode, share your feedback, and perhaps see jealousy as not just an obstacle but a stepping stone to deeper self-awareness and emotional balance.

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

Become a $9/month member here: [LINK]. 

Grab the $12 Bible we use here: [LINK].

Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

Click here for the Saturday Morning group [LINK]

 or here for the Friday Afternoon group [LINK].

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What if your well-intentioned habits of people-pleasing and perfectionism are actually driving you towards loneliness and burnout? Join me, Jenna Zint, as I wrap up our enlightening three-part series on over-responsibility in relationships. Discover the intricate patterns of behavior that can lead us to take on more than our fair share, from the martyr complex to the overwhelming need to be everyone's savior. By breaking free from these cycles, we can encourage more balanced dynamics in our interactions with others. Through my personal journey of unlearning these habits, I share practical tools and insights that can help you release the grip of over-responsibility, ultimately leading to more fulfilling relationships and personal growth.

In this episode, I recount the tough but rewarding process of stepping back from over-functioning, particularly within family dynamics. By sharing a candid story about my daughter's struggles with math homework, I illustrate the significance of allowing loved ones to face their own challenges. This shift in mindset—trusting that others can handle responsibilities and setting necessary boundaries—can be both daunting and liberating. The conversation explores how reframing codependent beliefs can pave the way for healthier interactions. With insights into the art of self-care and the importance of letting others learn from their own experiences, this episode provides a roadmap for fostering personal growth and balanced relationships.

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

Become a $9/month member here: [LINK]. 

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Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

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 or here for the Friday Afternoon group [LINK].

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What if your acts of generosity are driven by fear rather than joy? Join me, Jenna Marie Zint, on the Habit Lab Podcast as we uncover the complexities of over-responsibility in relationships. In this episode, we unravel the fine line between acts of love and the unhealthy patterns of overextending ourselves. Through a lens of curiosity and compassion, we explore how seemingly selfless actions can stem from fear and obligation, rather than genuine care, and how this affects our well-being and relationships.

We dive into the art of setting boundaries and recognizing our limits in offering support to others. We talk about the exhaustion and resentment that arises from giving more than we can afford—emotionally, physically, or spiritually. Using relatable metaphors, like the seesaw of balance, and personal anecdotes, we address the need for self-reflection and honest assessment. We'll delve into the tendency to slip into the savior role, especially within Christian contexts, and discuss the importance of understanding and respecting our true capacity.

Redefine your approach to love with us as we trace the threads of loneliness that often accompany over-responsibility. By confronting fears of unmet expectations and failure, we can embrace a more balanced dynamic where both partners contribute equally. This episode encourages you to question the roots of your actions, distinguishing between love and fear-based responses, and to release the need for control. Let’s embark on this journey together, where we turn up the volume on our thought habits and move towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

Become a $9/month member here: [LINK]. 

Grab the $12 Bible we use here: [LINK].

Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

Click here for the Saturday Morning group [LINK]

 or here for the Friday Afternoon group [LINK].

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What happens when the admirable trait of responsibility takes a toxic turn? Explore the intricate dynamics of over-responsibility with me, Jenna Zint, as I unpack its hidden pitfalls. In this opening episode of our enlightening three-part series, I share personal stories that highlight how overgrown strengths can become dysfunctions, leading to chronic loneliness. You’ll hear how my own experiences of taking on more than my share in relationships, like with my husband, have led to unintended consequences, and how the recognition of these patterns is key to nurturing healthier connections.

The conversation continues as we delve into the twin challenges of control and over-responsibility, manifested in behaviors such as micromanagement and perfectionism. These tendencies, often rooted in deep-seated fears, can result in anxiety, burnout, and even avoidance. We explore the unhealthy expectation of always having to be the "bigger person" and the vital role of embracing mistakes in relationships. Our journey together emphasizes the necessity of setting boundaries and the dangers of selflessness when it suppresses our own needs, paving the way for a more balanced life.

Rounding off our exploration, we trace the origins of over-responsibility back to childhood experiences like parentification and conditional love, often creating a "lonely loop" in relationships. With heartfelt anecdotes and spiritual guidance, I encourage you to identify where your own patterns originate and seek healing. As we prepare for the next episode, which will delve deeper into the harmful aspects of over-responsibility, join me in breaking free from these chains and finding clarity and balance in your life.

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

Become a $9/month member here: [LINK]. 

Grab the $12 Bible we use here: [LINK].

Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

Click here for the Saturday Morning group [LINK]

 or here for the Friday Afternoon group [LINK].

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Holiday Habit Hangover: (noun) 
The hazy hang time after the holidays when the kids are back in school, the guests have left, but your rhythms and habits are still recovering from all the festive chaos.

--->The temptation? To start getting judgmental of yourself for not being fully back on track yet—or worse, to feel hopeless that you'll *never* catch up. 

In this episode, I’m sharing the alternatives: 
➡️ Remind yourself it takes 10 days to two weeks for things to return to "maintenance mode". 
➡️ Give yourself grace—no need to overwhelm yourself or let discouragement creep in. 
➡️ Try tackling just three tasks a day (10 minutes or less!) to build momentum again. 

If this episode hits home and you’d like some support- I’d love to work with you one-on-one coaching session. [Link to book a session w/ Jenna]

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

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Growing up in a charismatic Christian community brought my brother and me closer, yet as adults, our paths diverged in unexpected ways. The journey of maintaining our connection despite different faith choices is filled with both poignant and humorous moments. In this episode, we reflect on how openness, trust, and understanding have been the cornerstones of our relationship, even as my brother made the difficult decision to step away from the church. Our conversations laid bare the emotional challenges we faced—grieving the loss of shared beliefs, navigating family dynamics, and learning to accept each other's new worldviews.

Have you ever wondered how to maintain family bonds when beliefs clash? We tackle this head-on by sharing personal stories of setting boundaries and fostering mutual respect. Whether it’s the difficult task of balancing our father's dogmatic approaches or finding common ground through curiosity and vulnerability, we unpack the complexities of interfaith relationships. A visit to Burning Man while upholding Christian values might sound daunting, but we discuss how this experience—and others like it—has opened doors to deeper connections across differing ideologies.

Join us as we affirm the power of unconditional love and curiosity in family relationships. Whether it’s my dad's light-hearted attempts to reconnect with my brother through "The Chosen" series or our earnest efforts to respect each other's life paths, this episode is a testament to love that transcends belief. We explore how genuine dialogue and an open heart can maintain meaningful connections with loved ones who walk different faith journeys.

Summer Enrollment now!- Join my Bible Habit Group for low-key accountability. Just half a chapter a day, weekly check-ins, and a monthly 45-min call. 

Become a $9/month member here: [LINK]. 

Grab the $12 Bible we use here: [LINK].

Registration for Aaron’s { 12-Week } Porn Recovery Small Group is open NOW. 

Click here for the Saturday Morning group [LINK]

 or here for the Friday Afternoon group [LINK].

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