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In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I answers a brave listener’s question: “I’m married and I want an open or poly relationship. My partner doesn’t. How do I talk to them about it in a way that respects them but also gets my needs met?” This raw and honest conversation explores the emotional truths behind non-monogamous desires, how to approach difficult conversations with vulnerability and respect, and what to do when partners aren't aligned. Whether you're curious about ethical non-monogamy or navigating it yourself, this episode dives into consent, communication, and what it means to live in integrity with yourself and your relationship. Resources mentioned include Polysecure by Jessica Fern, The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy, Opening Up by Tristan Taormino, and directories like polyfriendly.org and morethantwo.com.

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