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Learning from someone with more experience is a smart decision because it accelerates personal and professional growth. Experienced individuals have already navigated challenges, made mistakes, and found solutions, allowing you to benefit from their wisdom without repeating the same errors. Their insights provide valuable shortcuts, helping you progress more efficiently.

Additionally, mentors can offer guidance tailored to real-world situations, bridging the gap between theory and practice. Learning from their successes and failures helps you develop a well-rounded perspective, improving your decision-making skills.

Their knowledge saves you time, effort, and unnecessary frustration, making your learning process more strategic and effective. By tapping into their expertise, you gain a competitive advantage and increase your chances of success in any field.

In the podcast today I interview Rhoda Sommer, who has been a couples therapist for 45 years and married for 52 years. Listen to her wisdom!

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Discerning whether your perception of your partner is true or false requires self-awareness, open communication, and a willingness to challenge assumptions. Emotions, past experiences, and personal biases can distort how you see them, leading to either idealization or unwarranted criticism. To gain clarity, observe their actions over time—consistent behavior is a stronger indicator of character than occasional words or gestures. Reflect on whether your expectations are realistic or shaped by personal fears, insecurities, or societal influences. Engaging in honest conversations about feelings, needs, and concerns can reveal whether your assumptions align with their true intentions. Seeking input from trusted friends or a counselor can also provide an objective perspective. In this episode, I cover the tendency for people to either project onto their partner things that are untrue or for the receiving partner to have blind spots about how they really are. Listen in as I discuss this tendency and what to do about it. 

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Defensiveness is a normal human impulse. When we are blamed, we instinctually want to justify our intent. We can't stand the idea of our partner thinking we did something that we don't feel like we did. However, the more we defend, the more it makes our partner feel invalidated. In this new episode. I discuss the top steps I take in my marriage to avoid becoming defensive.

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Learning how to resolve conflicts effectively is essential if you want a heathy marriage. Feelings are going to get hurt. Actions are going to be frustrating. Needs are going to be unmet. When those things occur, we need to know how to respond properly or else things will get worse. We aren't trained on how to handle conflict well so inevitably we handle it poorly. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show I discuss how I handle conflicts in my marriage. Listen in to see if any of these ideas could work for you. 

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Emotional intimacy is a mysterious topic for many partners.

What is it?

Why do you need it?

How do you provide it?

If this topic has interested or confused you in the past, you're going to appreciate this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast. 

In it, I explore what it is, why you need it, and how to get more of it. 

I also share how it's a top need for my wife and how I've had to work at providing it because it doesn't come natural to me. 

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Thinking about couples therapy but not sure what to expect?

Heard both good things and negative things about couples therapy?

Need support but feel apprehensive?

You're not alone.

Many couples need help but aren't sure what to think about couples therapy.

The truth is that couples therapy often includes the good, the bad, and the ugly. 

In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show podcast I discuss all three. 

That way, you can get a full picture of what to expect. 

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Making changes for your partner is important because it demonstrates love, respect, and commitment to the relationship. It shows that you value their happiness and are willing to grow together. Healthy partnerships thrive on compromise, and adapting to each other's needs builds trust and emotional intimacy. Change doesn't mean losing yourself; it means evolving in ways that strengthen the bond. By addressing your partner's concerns and adjusting behaviors, you create a supportive environment where both people feel heard and appreciated. Ultimately, such efforts reinforce the partnership’s foundation, fostering mutual growth and deeper connection over time. In this episode, I discuss the right and wrong way to think about making changes for your partner. 

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Emotional safety is the cornerstone of a healthy and thriving marriage. It creates an environment where both partners feel valued, respected, and understood, fostering trust and deep connection. When emotional safety is present, couples can express their feelings, concerns, and vulnerabilities without fear of judgment, rejection, or conflict. This openness strengthens intimacy, enhances communication, and allows for effective conflict resolution. Without emotional safety, misunderstandings and resentment can build, leading to distance and dissatisfaction. But what is emotional safety and how do you foster it? In this episode I provide 5 practical ways to start nurturing it this week!

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In this episode I discuss the simplest way to improve your marriage, which is asking your partner what changes they want you to make then making the changes. However, making the changes often doesn't happen for people and this episode explores 6 different reasons why. Hope you find it helpful!

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In the episode today I discuss how to become more attractive for your partner emotionally and physically. It's easy to get sloppy in both departments through the years and that strains our marriage. Your partner fell in love with you because they were attracted to you either emotionally or physically or both. Therefore, the less attractive you become, the harder you're making it for them to stay in love with you. Listen to my 8 ideas and discuss with your partner how you both could improve the most in 2025!

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