May 28, 2025

The Holy Huddle: The Unforced Error Series

26 minutes

An “unforced error” is a term borrowed from sports, especially tennis, meaning a mistake made due to one’s own lapse rather than being forced by an opponent. In everyday language, it refers to an avoidable mistake or misstep, typically resulting from a lack of attention or care rather than external pressure. Thom and Jess examine one of the most common unforced errors in this podcast: the holy huddle.

The term refers to greeters or members who gather in friendly conversations with each other but ignore passing guests.

This behavior unintentionally forms an invisible wall that isolates newcomers rather than welcoming them.

Many guests quickly sense whether a church is inward-focused or genuinely hospitable based on lobby interactions.

Greeter teams that engage everyone — especially people they don’t know — foster a culture of inclusion and warmth.

What may seem like small social moments to insiders can significantly shape a guest’s perception.

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Upward Sports

The Hope Initiative

Church Answers Membership

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