The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

Six years of investigating. Decades of gossip. And a Hollywood story people still repeat without asking: Where’s the evidence?

Investigative journalist Allen Salkin joins Roxy Manning on The Iconic Midlife to explore the unsubstantiated Richard Gere gerbil rumor—and the bigger story behind its staying power.

How does an urban legend become something “everybody knows”? Why do we trust a story because someone claims to know the doctor, the friend, or the insider? And what happens when a celebrity’s attempts to protect their reputation risk giving a rumor another life?

Roxy and Allen dig into the intersection of fame, sex, shame, and storytelling—and why the most memorable version of a story isn’t necessarily the most credible.

In this episode:

• What Allen’s years of reporting uncovered about the Richard Gere urban legend—and where the evidence ends

• How a rumor can migrate from one person to another

• Why supposed insider connections make gossip feel convincing

• The dilemma celebrities face when deciding whether to respond

• How sensational stories shape reputations long after the headlines fade

Come back Thursday for “Name Names — The Game”!

Allen finishes the sentences, and Hollywood supplies the material: Gwyneth Paltrow’s infamous candle, Tom Cruise’s Oprah couch jump, and Mariah Carey’s immortal “I don’t know her" to name a few. Expect candid opinions, unexpected detours, and a conversation about the celebrity moments that keep us talking.

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• The Hollywood Reporter
• The New York Times
• Vanity Fair
• Cedars-Sinai Medical Center
• Food Network
• Esquire
• Extra
• National Lampoon
• Toronto Star
• Instagram
• Google
• Reddit
• Wikipedia
• Theranos
• Studio 54
• Today (NBC)

Prime or Pass? Beauty icon Laura Geller is back on The Iconic Midlife, and this time, we're putting her beauty instincts to the test!

From makeup trends and beauty rules to the things women are told they should (and shouldn't!) do as they age, Laura is weighing in on what's worth embracing and what's ready to be retired.

With decades of experience in the beauty industry, the legendary makeup artist and founder of Laura Geller Beauty knows a thing or two about what works, what doesn't, and why beauty should never come with an expiration date.

But will she give these trends their prime-time moment or send them packing?

It's time to play Prime or Pass!

If you enjoyed this game, make sure to catch Laura's full conversation with Roxy Manning on The Iconic Midlife, where they discuss:

• Makeup tips and beauty techniques for women over 40
• How our relationship with beauty evolves as we age
• Breaking outdated beauty rules
• Confidence, reinvention, and embracing midlife
• Laura's journey building her iconic beauty brand

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What happens when the beauty industry tells women they're past their prime, but one of its most recognizable beauty entrepreneurs refuses to buy into it?

This week on The Iconic Midlife, Roxy Manning sits down with legendary makeup artist and beauty entrepreneur Laura Geller, founder of Laura Geller Beauty, for a conversation about aging, confidence, beauty standards, and why women over 40 deserve more than an afterthought from the beauty industry.

Laura has spent decades helping women look and feel their best. From building her namesake beauty brand to championing makeup for mature skin, she's helped change the conversation around what beauty looks like as we age.

Together, Roxy and Laura explore how our relationship with beauty evolves in midlife, why representation matters, and what it really means to feel confident in your own skin.

And, of course, there's plenty of beauty talk along the way.

• Laura's journey from makeup artist to building an iconic beauty brand
• Why women over 40 have historically been overlooked by the beauty industry
• Makeup tips and techniques for mature skin
• How our beauty routines should evolve as we age
• The connection between beauty, confidence, and self-expression
• Challenging outdated beauty standards and embracing aging
• Reinvention, entrepreneurship, and finding success at every stage of life

Laura Geller is a renowned makeup artist, entrepreneur, and founder of Laura Geller Beauty. Known for her approachable beauty philosophy and innovative makeup products, Laura has become a leading voice in celebrating women of all ages, particularly those navigating midlife and beyond.

Social Media: @lauragellerbeauty

Website: https://www.laurageller.com

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Because beauty doesn't have an expiration date.

Would you date someone your dog doesn't like? And is sharing custody of a pet with an ex a relationship red flag?

PETA's Ashley Byrne is back on The Iconic Midlife with host Roxy Manning for a hilarious round of Dealbreaker or I'll Allow It?—a dating game where love, relationships, and our four-legged companions collide.

After tackling some of the most pressing animal-welfare issues in her full interview, Ashley is showing us her lighter side as Roxy puts her on the spot with a series of dating scenarios involving pets, partners, and some potentially questionable relationship habits.

From dogs sleeping in the bed to dating someone who isn't an animal lover, Ashley has to decide: Is it a dealbreaker, or will she allow it?

• Dating someone who loves animals but doesn't want pets
• Dogs in the bedroom—and possibly between you and your partner
• When your dog doesn't approve of your date
• Sharing custody of a pet with an ex
• Dating someone who doesn't share your views on animal welfare
• The relationship habits that might make an animal lover think twice

It's a playful look at dating, compatibility, and just how much our relationships with animals influence our relationships with people.

And don't miss Ashley's full episode of The Iconic Midlife, where we discuss animal cruelty on L.A.'s Skid Row, New York City's carriage horses, overcrowded animal shelters, and what we can all do to help protect animals.

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What's really happening to animals on Skid Row in Los Angeles—and who's protecting them?

From reports of animal abuse and illegal breeding on the streets of Los Angeles to the controversy surrounding New York City's carriage horses and overcrowded animal shelters nationwide, the fight for animal welfare has never felt more urgent.

This week on The Iconic Midlife, Roxy Manning sits down with Ashley Byrne, Director of Outreach for PETA (People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals), for an eye-opening conversation about animal cruelty, rescue, advocacy, and the changes needed to protect vulnerable animals.

As a lifelong animal lover and rescue dog mom, Roxy has always felt a deep connection to animals and a responsibility to speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves.

Ashley shares how her passion for animals became her life's work and takes us behind the headlines of some of the most pressing animal welfare issues in America.

• The Skid Row animal crisis: Reports of abuse, neglect, and illegal breeding in Los Angeles, and whether city officials are doing enough to intervene.
• NYC carriage horses: The realities of the horse-drawn carriage industry, concerns about working and living conditions, and efforts to ban carriage rides.
• America's overcrowded shelters: Why shelters are struggling, what contributes to euthanasia, and what needs to change.
• Adopt, don't shop: The impact of puppy mills, breeding, and consumer demand on animal homelessness.
• Vegan fashion and cruelty-free beauty: How to make more compassionate choices without sacrificing personal style.
• Advocacy at every age: How our priorities and willingness to speak up can evolve in midlife.
• How you can help: Practical ways to support animal rescue, report suspected cruelty, foster, volunteer, and advocate for stronger animal protections.

This conversation isn't just about the heartbreaking realities facing animals. It's about accountability, compassion, and understanding how individual choices can contribute to meaningful change.

Because loving animals is one thing. Taking action to protect them is another.

Learn more about PETA's animal advocacy work: https://www.peta.org

Explore animal adoption and fostering opportunities through your local shelters and rescue organizations.

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Links referenced in this episode:

• peta.org

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• PETA
• Starts With One Today
• Los Angeles Animal Services
• Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD)
• Best Friends Animal Society
• Central Park Conservancy
• Cirque du Soleil
• Gucci
• Stella McCartney
• Marie 1998
• Sans Beast
• PETA Business Friends
• U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA)
• YouTube
• Instagram
• Iconic Midlife

What counts as financially smart—and what’s just plain cheap?

In this bonus game episode, financial expert Pattie Ehsaei is putting her money philosophy to the test with Rich Move or Broke Move?

I give Pattie a series of deliberately tricky money, dating and lifestyle scenarios where the “right” answer isn’t always obvious. From living with your parents at 45 to refusing first class, insisting on a prenup, buying a dream house in cash, splitting the check and deciding how much luxury is too much, Pattie has to make the call.

And because this is Pattie, she doesn’t just choose a side—she explains exactly why.

• When saving money is smart versus simply cheap
• Whether living with your parents in midlife can actually be financially savvy
• First-class travel, luxury spending and knowing what’s worth it
• Prenups, financial independence and protecting your own money
• Dating someone with very different financial habits
• Buying a home in cash versus keeping your money invested
• Why appearances can be completely misleading when it comes to wealth
• The money decisions that get much more complicated in midlife

Pattie is the author of Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook and is known online as the Duchess of Decorum.

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@duchessofdecorum

PattieEhsaei.com

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And if you haven’t heard Pattie’s full episode yet, go back and listen to:

Financial Expert Pattie Ehsaei: Money, Marriage & the Cost of Giving Up Control

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What does it really mean to be financially independent—and how much control are women giving up without even realizing it?

Financial expert, attorney, former banking executive and Never Date a Broke Dude author Pattie Ehsaei joins me for a sharp, funny and unapologetic conversation about money, marriage, power and the financial decisions that can shape a woman’s future.

We get into the difference between looking wealthy and actually building wealth, why money can quietly become leverage inside a relationship, the complicated reality of prenups, financial dependence, retirement, and why even smart, successful women can have major blind spots when it comes to their own finances.

And because Pattie never misses a good pop-culture money lesson, we also break down what the very public relationship splits of Dorit Kemsley and PK Kemsley, Lisa and Lenny Hochstein, and Kyle Richards and Mauricio Umansky reveal about money, assets, financial independence, and what can happen when a marriage ends.

We also talk about the cultural double standard around women wanting financially successful partners, whether financial equality is possible when one person earns significantly more, and why reaching midlife can be the moment you finally ask yourself:

Where is my money—and how much control do I actually have over it?

• The difference between appearing rich and actually having wealth
• Why financial independence is about more than income
• Money, power and control inside marriage
• The financial risks of relying entirely on a partner
• Prenups, ownership and protecting yourself
• Why successful women are still judged for caring about a partner’s finances
• The biggest money mistakes women make in midlife
• Whether it’s ever too late to start building wealth
• What financial freedom can look like after 40 and 50
• Why having options may be the ultimate form of wealth

Pattie is also the author of Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook and is known online as the Duchess of Decorum.

Follow Pattie:

Instagram: @duchessofdecorum

Website: PattieEhsaei.com

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And come back Thursday for Pattie’s game episode:

Rich Move or Broke Move?

I’m giving her financial dilemmas where the answer is definitely not as obvious as it sounds.

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Hosted by Roxy Manning

New episodes weekly.

Juliet Mayhew is back — and this time, we’re getting a little cheeky.

The Real Housewives of London star returns to The Iconic Midlife for a very British game of “Posh or Tosh?” — where Roxy gives Juliet a series of questionable social behaviors, friendship dilemmas and Housewives-worthy situations, and Juliet has to decide: perfectly posh… or absolute tosh?

We’re talking frenemies, keeping receipts, cosmetic secrets, red-carpet etiquette, telling uncomfortable truths on camera, marriage, ambition — and yes, even social climbing.

And Juliet definitely has opinions.

If you haven’t heard Roxy’s full conversation with Juliet yet, download Tuesday’s episode, where they get candid about The Real Housewives of London, reinventing yourself at 49, marriage and motherhood, being misunderstood, returning to performing and why women don’t need permission to decide it’s finally their turn.

Download this episode, subscribe to The Iconic Midlife, and follow the show so you never miss a new conversation or game. And if Juliet’s answers make you laugh — or you strongly disagree with one of them — send the episode to a friend and see whether she thinks it’s posh or tosh.

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In this episode: Juliet Mayhew • The Real Housewives of London • Posh or Tosh • Housewives • female friendship • frenemies • social climbing • midlife • marriage • reality TV • London society

What happens when you’ve spent years being a wife, a mother, and everything everyone else needed you to be — and suddenly decide it’s your turn?

This week, Roxy sits down with Juliet Mayhew, star of The Real Housewives of London, for a conversation that goes far beyond reality TV.

At 49, Juliet is stepping into one of her most public chapters yet. She opens up about rediscovering herself as her children grow up, returning to her roots as a performer, and what reinvention looks like when you’re doing it in front of an audience that has plenty of opinions about who you are.

Juliet also gets candid about marriage and how a long-term relationship evolves when you evolve, being misunderstood and judged by other women, navigating friendship in midlife, her Australian roots and life in London, and what becoming a Real Housewife has taught her about herself.

Plus, we get into a question so many women wrestle with in midlife: Why do we wait for permission to make it our turn?

And come back this Thursday when Juliet returns to The Iconic Midlife for a very British game of “Posh or Tosh?” Roxy puts her on the spot with questionable social behavior, friendship etiquette, red-carpet politics and a little Housewives shade. You’ll definitely want to hear which ones Juliet declares perfectly posh — and which are absolute tosh.

Download this episode and subscribe to The Iconic Midlife so you don’t miss Juliet’s “Posh or Tosh?” game this Thursday. And if this conversation reminds you of a woman who needs to hear that it’s not too late to make it her turn, send it to her.

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What’s your parenting hill to die on—and what are you willing to let go?

Dr. Siggie Cohen is back for a game of “Parenting Hill to Die On,” where Roxy throws her a series of everyday parenting dilemmas and Dr. Siggie has to decide: is this a battle worth fighting, or one parents should simply let go?

From kids refusing to wear a coat and quitting activities to bad grades, swear words, smartphones, and saying no to Grandma’s hug, Dr. Siggie weighs in on when parents should hold the line—and when giving kids autonomy matters more.

Along the way, she explains why not every uncomfortable parenting moment requires intervention, why some boundaries are non-negotiable, and how knowing which battles matter can help us raise more independent, resilient kids.

And yes, there are a few answers that might surprise you.

🎧 Missed our full conversation? Listen to Dr. Siggie Cohen: Has Gentle Parenting Gone Too Far? on The Iconic Midlife.

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What’s YOUR parenting hill to die on? Tell us.