Have your loved ones been trying to send you signs... and you've been missing them?

From repeating numbers and vivid dreams to unexplained coincidences and messages that seem too specific to ignore, millions of people have wondered whether those moments are random—or something more.

In this thought-provoking episode of The Iconic Midlife, I sit down with intuitive medium Jennifer Shaffer to explore the extraordinary experiences that have made her one of the most sought-after intuitives in the country. Jennifer shares how she receives messages, the biggest misconceptions about mediumship, what she's learned from helping grieving families, and why she believes intuition is something we all possess.

We also dive into her fascinating work consulting on criminal investigations, her friendship with Jessica Alba, and the incredible story behind the upcoming Fox drama inspired by her life.

And yes... Jennifer gives me a live reading during the episode with absolutely no advance information, making for one of the most unexpected moments we've ever had on The Iconic Midlife.

Whether you're a lifelong believer, a healthy skeptic, or simply curious about what lies beyond what we can see, this conversation will leave you asking bigger questions about intuition, connection, and the possibility that love continues long after we're gone.

• Are loved ones really sending us signs?
• The biggest myths about psychic mediums
• How Jennifer receives messages from spirit
• Intuition vs. mediumship—what's the difference?
• Her work consulting on criminal investigations
• The Fox television series inspired by her life and produced by Jessica Alba
• A live, unscripted reading during the interview
• The one message Jennifer believes everyone needs to hear

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What happens when a legendary fashion designer weighs in on today's biggest style debates?

In this bonus game episode of The Iconic Midlife, fashion icon Cynthia Rowley plays Runway or Run Away?—sharing her unfiltered takes on fashion trends, style "rules," and the looks she'd happily embrace...or leave behind.

From sequins before noon to visible bra straps, flats vs. heels, and the idea of "dressing your age," Cynthia proves that confidence and curiosity will always be more fashionable than following someone else's rules.

Whether you're a lifelong fashion lover or simply looking for permission to wear what makes you feel amazing, this fun, fast-paced episode is full of laughs, surprises, and timeless style wisdom.

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What if the secret to timeless style has nothing to do with following trends?

This week on The Iconic Midlife, I'm joined by legendary fashion designer Cynthia Rowley, whose career has spanned more than four decades and over 100 runway shows. But this conversation goes far beyond fashion.

We dive into why women over 40 should stop dressing for trends, how confidence evolves with age, the power of reinvention, and what it really takes to stay creatively relevant in an ever-changing world.

Cynthia also shares behind-the-scenes stories from dressing Hollywood's biggest stars, including a hilarious first meeting with Katy Perry, her philosophy on personal style, and why curiosity—not trends—is the key to looking and feeling your best.

Whether you're reinventing your wardrobe, your career, or your next chapter, this episode is a reminder that your style should reflect who you are—not what's trending.

• Why there is no "right" trend to follow

• How personal style changes—and improves—in midlife

• Staying creatively relevant after more than 40 years in fashion

• Why women should stop saying, "I can't wear that."

• Building an enduring brand without chasing trends

• The difference between reinvention and constant evolution

• What working alongside her daughter, Kit Keenan, has taught her

• Behind-the-scenes stories from dressing celebrities

• The unforgettable first time she met Katy Perry

• The fashion "rules" women over 40 should completely ignore

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What can a fire never take away?

In this special game segment from The Iconic Midlife, Tonya Meisenbach plays "The Fire Couldn't Take..."—a powerful fill-in-the-blank game that reveals the strength, hope, and resilience that carried her through life's darkest chapter.

With every answer, Tonya reminds us that while tragedy can change our lives, it doesn't have to define who we become.

This isn't just a game—it's a moving conversation about confidence, purpose, love, dreams, and the woman she's still becoming.

In this game, Tonya reveals:

• What the fire could never take from her

• The strength that carried her through recovery

• What continues to inspire her every day

• The dreams she's still chasing

• The legacy she hopes to leave behind

If you've ever wondered what true resilience sounds like, this is a conversation you won't forget.

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What happens when the life you knew disappears in an instant?

In 2018, Tonya Meisenbach survived an unimaginable act of domestic violence that left her with life-threatening burns and forever changed the way she looked. But what followed wasn't just a story of survival—it became a story of resilience, reinvention, and discovering a confidence she never knew she had.

In this deeply moving conversation, Tonya opens up about rebuilding her life after trauma, learning to embrace her scars, raising her children while healing, and why she says she actually feels more confident today than she did before she was burned.

We also talk about redefining beauty, finding purpose after unimaginable loss, the power of manifestation, and why your greatest chapter may still be ahead of you.

This is a conversation about hope, healing, and the extraordinary strength that can emerge after life's darkest moments.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Tonya's incredible survival story and the long road to recovery

• The emotional healing that came after the physical healing

• Learning to see beauty differently

• Why confidence comes from within—not from appearance

• Motherhood, resilience, and rebuilding after trauma

• Manifesting a bigger future and dreaming without limits

• What Tonya wants every survivor to know

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Content Note: This episode includes discussion of domestic violence and trauma that some listeners may find difficult. While portions of this conversation touch on those experiences, the focus is ultimately on healing, hope, resilience, and rebuilding a meaningful life.

How do you know if something is truly aligned with the life you're meant to live?

In this special Game episode, PlateFit founder Rachael Blumberg joins Roxy for a rapid-fire round of Is it Aligned or Out of Alignment? that goes beyond fitness and dives into intuition, boundaries, relationships, purpose, and personal growth.

Through a series of thought-provoking scenarios, Rachael reveals how she decides what deserves a "yes," what gets a "no," and how living in alignment has transformed every area of her life.

It's fun, insightful, and might just inspire you to rethink a few of your own answers.

In this episode:

• What it really means to live in alignment

• How to recognize when something feels out of alignment

• Quick-fire questions on relationships, work, and personal growth

• Why saying "no" can be one of the most powerful forms of self-care

• The role intuition plays in making difficult decisions

• Rachael's honest, unfiltered answers to the Alignment Game

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What happens when you've built a successful business—but realize you're still searching for something deeper?

This week, Roxy sits down with PlateFit founder Rachael Blumberg for an honest conversation about reinvention, identity, and the unexpected paths that can transform your life.

Rachael shares how creating one of Los Angeles' most recognizable boutique fitness brands was only part of her journey. She opens up about walking away from alcohol, exploring psychedelic healing, discovering the practice of circling, and learning that true strength has as much to do with emotional resilience as physical fitness.

Whether you're navigating midlife, questioning what's next, or simply looking for permission to evolve, this conversation is a powerful reminder that reinvention is always possible.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How Rachael built PlateFit into a successful fitness brand

• Why she chose to stop drinking alcohol—and how it changed her life

• Her experiences with psychedelic healing and personal growth

• What "circling" is and why it's helping people build deeper connections

• Redefining strength in midlife

• Why authenticity often requires letting go of who you used to be

• The courage to reinvent yourself—personally and professionally

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Thanks for listening to The Iconic Midlife. New episodes drop every Tuesday, with bonus game episodes every Thursday.

What deserves your energy in midlife—and what are women wasting far too much time worrying about?

In this bonus game episode of The Iconic Midlife, Helen Christoni joins Roxy Manning for a rapid-fire round of Worth It or Waste of Energy?

From hustle culture and people-pleasing to wellness trends, guilt, boundaries, and reinvention, Helen shares her candid opinions on the habits, pressures, and expectations women face every day.

Some answers may surprise you.

• Is hustle culture still worth it in midlife?
• Are women overcomplicating wellness?
• Why guilt may be one of the biggest energy drains
• The truth about protecting your peace
• Reinvention after 40
• Letting go of other people's expectations
• Prioritizing yourself without apology
• What women are wasting way too much energy on

Helen Christoni is an entrepreneur, wellness executive, and co-founder of Make Time Wellness. After experiencing profound personal loss and witnessing the impact of dementia and cognitive decline on loved ones, she became passionate about helping women prioritize their health, well-being, and quality of life.

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What happens when life changes in an instant—and you have to find a way to keep moving forward?

In this deeply personal episode of The Iconic Midlife, Roxy Manning sits down with entrepreneur, wellness executive, and Make Time Wellness co-founder Helen Christoni for a powerful conversation about grief, resilience, caregiving, women's brain health, and rebuilding a meaningful life after unimaginable loss.

After losing her daughter Bella and witnessing the devastating impact of dementia and cognitive decline on loved ones, Helen found herself reevaluating everything—from how women care for themselves to the emotional burdens so many carry in silence.

Together, Roxy and Helen discuss the realities of child loss, navigating grief in midlife, supporting aging family members, protecting cognitive health, and why women must stop waiting until they are completely depleted before prioritizing themselves.

This is a conversation about heartbreak, healing, purpose, and finding strength you never knew you had.

Listener Note: This episode contains discussion of child loss, grief, caregiving, dementia, and mental health. Please listen with care if these topics are sensitive for you.

• Helen's journey through the loss of her daughter Bella
• How grief changes your perspective on life
• The emotional realities of caregiving
• Why women are at greater risk for cognitive decline
• The connection between brain health, stress, and overall wellness
• The invisible emotional labor many women carry
• Reinvention after loss and adversity
• Building purpose through pain
• Practical ways women can prioritize themselves in midlife

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Joanna Krupa is back—but this time we're putting her to the test.

In this bonus game episode of The Iconic Midlife, Joanna plays Hot or Unhinged?, where she weighs in on dating, relationships, red flags, modern romance, animal rescue, and some seriously questionable life choices.

No overthinking. No filter. Just instant reactions and plenty of laughs.

• Dating younger: Hot or Unhinged?

• Sliding into DMs

• Sleeping with your ex

• Reality TV drama

• The biggest dating red flags

• Animal rescue and relationship deal-breakers

• Joanna's funniest rapid-fire takes

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